Thatrogueassdiaz
We're on the blood path now
Yup. I'm 34 and getting laid more than ever before, way way way more than I did when I was in my 20sA 30 year old man should eat from 21-45 bracket, easy.
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Dating as a 30+ yr old man
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Peter Popoff
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I'm 35 and look 26, can't relate.
These depressing ass topics
Its all about location and your standards.
yep...born and raised in a big city were I had enough options that I was turning down decent looking women...live in a much smaller city these last few years plus I’m older...and I’m dating/have dated women that I seriously wouldn’t have acknowledged back then...no regrets tho...p*ssy is p*ssy and a good woman is a good woman
DatLBCGuy562
Superstar
It depends on your location and mindset and everyone's experience varies, but I was in my sexual prime at 31. No exaggeration, but I fukked around 75 women that year. POF was like shooting fish in a barrel in those days and I literally had to turn p*ssy down that it was so easy and coming at me so frequently. There just weren't enough hours in the day. Now, at 40, the turn down has definitely been noticable.
Online dating is trash now, social media has taken off and warped these chicks brain. They all think they deserve a celebrity, a baller, an influencer, someone who jetsets across the world every weekend. They wanna live out the fantasies they see on IG instead of living in reality and finding a good relationship to settle down in.
Women in 2019 are trash and insufferable c*nts. They're all the same, basically. So I felt like I was wasting my time trying to connect with these women when their is such a disconnect and difference in our mindsets and priorities. This is no "incel" talk or whatever the latest phrasing used to shame men on here who actually pay attention, recognize women's TRUE nature, and call them out for who and what they are.
This has been my reality and the majority of other men out there. That's why I choose to not date and that's why I'm single. Cant speak for anyone else or their reasonings...
ya when I went to miami it was a completely different energy
that and a few other factors as well has me ready to move out there
but it’s florida
How did you manage to fukk 75?
Like time wise?
Could you give a break down on how you made a living and did other things and still have time to go on dates and sleep with 75 women in a year?
And also bro, how different do you look now than at 31? And when did you stop having success?
richaveli83
Veteran
I'm 35 and it's easier but the quality of women drops when they reach their 30s. A lot, not all, have baggage, men included. I prefer women from like 26-32. Still young enough to have some fun but also got their stuff together (done with school, in their career, looking to settle down, etc).
DatLBCGuy562
Superstar
75 women a year is about 6 a month. And I'm being conservative. I know that it was 75 MINIMUM women. I was working for Boeing Aircraft at the time and I was on a 3 day, 12 hour a day schedule and I had four days off. So I made good money and had free time in abundance. And notice. I didn't say I DATED 75 women, I said I fukkED 75 women, which is a discernable difference.
I had my photos posted and I was 6'2" and 215 and in remarkable shape. I know how to talk to women as well. I don't give off creepy or weirdo vibes. These are things I've been told my multiple women. So, again, it was easy.
I just started neglecting other things like gym time, turning down overtime, canceling plans with close friends etc. And dealing with that many women gets taxing on your peace of mind.
Their attitudes, their neediness, their incessant whining and complaining. They saw how I was living (nice condo on the beach, Mercedes Benz, nice clothes and watches, etc.) and started wanting to move in and get serious and shyt. Lol. When I just wanted to fukk em and get em gone.
Now, at 40, I'm about 250 pounds, working for the County of LA, and living more modestly. And the women just don't come as easily and frequently as they used to. I'm ok with that. It happens to everyone, men and women alike. As you get older, your options lessen and shyt dries up. Again, that's ok. I've fukked well over 300 chicks in my lifetime and done had some of the baddest that California has to offer between my sheets.
So I don't feel like I'm missing anything. Even Michael Jordan couldn't play and stay on top forever. But I do recognize the change in the dating scene and in women's behavior. That doesn't make me "incel" or "bitter", it just makes me observant.
Was there any reason why you smashed that many in a year or did you just wanna do it because you could?
Where you meet the bulk of them ?
And how did you avoid the real crazy ones?
Seems hard to bring so many different women over to your house with no drama.
Leading up go 30, I was getting more play than ever. By this point, you should be comfortable in your own skin and women will jump at you.
Got a GF now so it makes it even more obvious when women flirt. I saw my girl at work one day and her shoes were busted up, so I took my lunch to go get her some kicks at a local Famous Footwear. I get rhe shoes in 4 minutes or so and the cashier says "that was fast" and chats me up. Pretty lil Latina thing with dimples, said "wish I had a boyfriend like you" and all that when I explained why I was buying women's shoes. Everyday I have become more aware of the choosing, especially since I move a certain way. If I was single again, world would be my oyster.
Got a GF now so it makes it even more obvious when women flirt. I saw my girl at work one day and her shoes were busted up, so I took my lunch to go get her some kicks at a local Famous Footwear. I get rhe shoes in 4 minutes or so and the cashier says "that was fast" and chats me up. Pretty lil Latina thing with dimples, said "wish I had a boyfriend like you" and all that when I explained why I was buying women's shoes. Everyday I have become more aware of the choosing, especially since I move a certain way. If I was single again, world would be my oyster.
Lord_nikon
Veteran
OP 30 years old on some 
O.T.I.S.
The Monk & The Mercenary
If you stay in shape and make decent money you’ll be fine
It also depends on your location. Young girls don’t mind dating older if you look good and got your own shyt. Be careful though that might be the only reason they’re there.
It also depends on your location. Young girls don’t mind dating older if you look good and got your own shyt. Be careful though that might be the only reason they’re there.
O.T.I.S.
The Monk & The Mercenary
Like life is over and shyt
DatLBCGuy562
Superstar
That was my first year really trying online dating and it was, again, like shooting fish in a barrel. And I'm not sure what you mean. I, like most heterosexual men, like p*ssy in abundance. My criteria was simple. If I was physically attracted to you and I could be around you for at least 2 hours without you getting on my nerves or hinting that you needed money, we were gonna fukk. I was a womanizer. That simple. It's no depth to it. And I don't allow women to bring drama to my life. I'm not one of those dudes. You act up, you're gone. You have a constant attitude? I cease contact and block. I don't tolerate women's bullshyt like a good majority of men do because they're scared of losing them.