Dating At 53

[V Skyye]

Okay, but physically neither would a woman that age (late 30's early 40's) be either which goes back to the question. If she has her and he has his why does she need to be provided for?

That’s just the breaks. He can always look for someone his age with similar life experiences money, and hobbies.

Also, this man said out of his own mouth that he likes to date younger but has issues on women wanting him for him and brehs are still debating. I’m sorry, but

A lot of older women and men are going out sad chasing youth and embarrassing themselves. Older people are trading in community for meaningless sex and instagram likes. It’s all fun and games until you wake up one day and realize the things and people you’ve spent your life recycling through have all moved on.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

he's in Miami
Miami is a total different scene

breh would eat well in the midwest/south

dating would be SUPER EASY for him in pretty much any other city outside of maybe LA

Yeah keyword he’s in Miami… hoes would be unlimited this deposed of his paper was long and he lived in the Porsche design tower.. He would have unlimited hoes 10+ years younger… All the 50+ fit women would just want to get smashed and dashed

 

[LiveFromLondon]

If me and my man break up I’m going for a fit 52 year old

How old are you

but that shyt unlocks something out of a woman

Explain

 

[Nigerianwonder]

Because a woman in her 50s is set in her ways
Got a bad attitude she ain’t trying to change for no one
Probably divorced/widowed, so she not really looking for a life long commitment or another marriage
She just wants a companion at this point
The age range he wants is old enough to have been through some shyt but young enough to (hopefully) have healed and still mobile in the sense of doing activities outside
Older women(men too) ain’t trying to rip and run in these streets
They are either traveling, doing home projects, hanging with friends at card nights
So 37-42 is a sweet spot before everybody becomes completely jaded with life and love

People dont realize older women are often harder to date and demand more than younger women while looking worse and having more miles on them. Old chicks looking for dudes with money to take care of them too.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

People dont realize older women are often harder to date and demand more than younger women while looking worse and having more miles on them. Old chicks looking for dudes with money to take care of them too.

yeah they demand more “emotional connection” lol and they want “romance and love”

And that probably turns off many men who want to spin the plate and have a roster..

Younger women easier cause they down for whatever lol

We gotta be honest here brehs

 

[Illuminatos]

This simply isn't true overall according to every piece of data we have about women's dating preferences and habits. You can point to an outlier example of a few guys but the vast majority of 53 year old men in this country cannot bag a significantly younger woman if they aren't rich; I'm not talking about "works at the Ford plant and has health benefits" stability, I'm talking about RICH. There's this weird idea that age doesn't matter for men, that we're gonna be on top of the mountain forever and can do whatever we want (whereas women must be married before 30). It's not true. If you are 53 you're going to lose every time in a competition with a 35-40 year old man who has as much stability, is younger, and could start a family. Women aren't thinking of 53 year old men as potential partners or fathers to children. And if it's about money they can find someone younger/more attractive with money.

A lot of these dudes are living in a redpill fantasy world.

 

[Gloxina]

If a woman is in her late 30s early 40s and is already established (well should be) career wise and financially why would they still wanted to be provided for??

Lol


The only thing that makes an older man more attractive than a younger man is $.

If a man who is 10+ years older than a woman thinks that she doesn’t want to be provided for in some way, she might as well get with a man closer to her age who she will be more physically attracted to.

As a woman striking gold is having a fine ass man with money/success who is around your age and faithful (like a good guy who comes from a successful family and you guys get married after college). Something that is more of a possibility for beautiful women (especially those with a good personality).

Whenever you go older provision is the main reason why. Unless you’re just that physically unappealing to men who are somewhat in your age range.

Using his range, that 53YO man wants someone as young as 37. Now, 37 ain’t young to a 37YO man, but you think a good looking 37YO woman can’t find a good option who is younger than 53?! That’s the point.


You breaking her off with some $/trips/“security” if we’re talking a 13-16 year age difference- I don’t care how old the woman is

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Lol


The only thing that makes an older man more attractive than a younger man is $.

If a man who is 10+ years older than a woman thinks that she doesn’t want to be provided for in some way, she might as well get with a man closer to her age who she will be more physically attracted to.

As a woman striking gold is having a fine ass man with money/success who is around your age and faithful (like a good guy who comes from a successful family and you guys get married after college). Something that is more of a possibility for beautiful women (especially those with a good personality).

Whenever you go older provision is the main reason why. Unless you’re just that physically unappealing to men who are somewhat in your age range.

Using his range, that 53YO man wants someone as young as 37. Now, 37 ain’t young to a 37YO man, but you think a good looking 37YO woman can’t find a good option who is younger than 53?! That’s the point.


You breaking her off with some $/trips/“security” if we’re talking a 13-16 year age difference- I don’t care how old the woman is

But Cloony married his wife when she was 35
He was 52

And that’s one of most famous men on the planet

But a 53 year old coli breh wants to marry early 30 year old

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

People dont realize older women are often harder to date and demand more than younger women while looking worse and having more miles on them. Old chicks looking for dudes with money to take care of them too.

This. You can take a 20 something to the local destination beach and put her in a clean hotel, She'll appreciate it.

But by the time she's 30 , It needs to be an all inclusive resort in the tropics. By the time she's 40, it needs to be on another continent otherwise you're dusty.

 

[GreenGhxst]

Nkkas on here always kill me wit the absolutes. Theres literally millions and millions of women, cougars, creed, and nationality all across the US.

We're not even talking globally. As long you look decent and presentable, you always gotta shot. There's lonely, desperate women all over these dating apps 35+. I'll never concede the mind frame u can't find something. If u can't find something it's you, or you're not looking hard enough.

bbws good money for all ages

 

[Digital Omen]

I mean, “lounges”; same place the older brehs be. There weren’t a bunch of 40+ men where my girls and I partied when we were in our 20s

Neva bumped into my older cousins when we’d be partying in the same cities

Did old heads holler at you and your crew when you were in your 20s?
What was your response?

Remember, this is The Coli, every head on here bags multiple zoomers on the regular

 

[theGoldmangod]

This simply isn't true overall according to every piece of data we have about women's dating preferences and habits. You can point to an outlier example of a few guys but the vast majority of 53 year old men in this country cannot bag a significantly younger woman if they aren't rich; I'm not talking about "works at the Ford plant and has health benefits" stability, I'm talking about RICH. There's this weird idea that age doesn't matter for men, that we're gonna be on top of the mountain forever and can do whatever we want (whereas women must be married before 30). It's not true. If you are 53 you're going to lose every time in a competition with a 35-40 year old man who has as much stability, is younger, and could start a family. Women aren't thinking of 53 year old men as potential partners or fathers to children. And if it's about money they can find someone younger/more attractive with money.

Real spit. The problem is that nikkas do not want to face reality. A bunch of cats online have made videos feeding their insecurities and the way they WISH life was for all these years, so now they think they can will a unicorn lifestyle into existence. Its the same delusional mentality they complain about these broads having. Chicks never married and single mothers but talking about wanting a man who is going to provide for her every need. A beautiful, childless woman can ask for that, she can't. But she been gassed by people monetizing her predicament so refuses to accept reality.

I know a nikka who actually had that potential unicorn lifestyle at his fingertips. Dating a bad ass chick 10 years his junior, traditional, seemed willing to do whatever for that nikka, and all that. And he fumbled her, trying to see how far he could push his delusions. On some 'nah, she gotta be okay with me not doing anything for her financially'.

That's when I saw coli logic in real life and how its fukking cats up in a real way. nikkas are truly snatching defeat from the jaws of victory listening to clowns on the internet.

 

[Apollo Creed]

People dont realize older women are often harder to date and demand more than younger women while looking worse and having more miles on them. Old chicks looking for dudes with money to take care of them too.

all women wanna be provided for these bytches hate working lol they literally work just to flex but hate it.

any nikka talking that same age dating shyt is a nikka who doesn't know his father or his father was a bytch

 

[Phitz]

Wanting kids at 53

53 year olds around the world are having kids everyday breh

The old ways from the old days are experiments that WORKED. In this new era none of these new rules of dating seem to work. Everyone looks unhappy but smile 24/7 on IG

 

[50CentStan]

Dating at 50 . Sucks breh settle down while you can