Dating At 53

InkosiYe

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Also, this man said out of his own mouth that he likes to date younger but has issues on women wanting him for him and brehs are still debating. I’m sorry, but


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A lot of older women and men are going out sad chasing youth and embarrassing themselves. Older people are trading in community for meaningless sex and instagram likes. It’s all fun and games until you wake up one day and realize the things and people you’ve spent your life recycling through have all moved on.


On one hand I somewhat get what you're saying but on the other hand you gotta look at what's going on right now.

The divorce rate in America is above 50%, divorce courts in America are broken, not to mention plenty of couples sitting in miserable loveless marriages, the fertility rate is dropping, young men are dropping out of giving a damn about life, young women are selling themselves to the highest bidder at greater rates every year, single family households are damn near 75% for black folks and rising for every ethnicity every year, the younger generation of kids coming up seems like they're even more off the hook due to being raised by social media and terrible gen-x and millenial parents, America looks like it's damn near on the brink of a race or civil or class or world war every other damn day, mass shootings are rising with no set plans to solve the problem, a greater number of Americans are on mental health meds, income inequality keeps rising, the average American family can't even afford to own a house anymore, the middle class is dying and AI is about to automate out hella jobs to help accelerate the death.

What community exactly are folks missing out on? :patrice:

The reality of life in 2023 is that all this shyt is unstable :yeshrug:. You can try to date with a purpose/marry/build a family the right way and still have your happy "community" torn apart in front of your eyes for a multitude of reasons that aren't necessarily in your control.

I don't think finding and maintaining a happy "community" is anywhere near as attainable or sustainable as your comment kinda suggests. People aren't just "choosing" money and meaningless sex, it's just pretty damn difficult to find/cultivate/build and maintain a good solid community on purpose.

As far as dude in the OP's video trying to find someone to love and understand him, you live in Brickell breh get real :why:. That's the type of dude to try to find a wife in a strip club. At the very least he could relocate somewhere with a more community cenetered culture built in if he was really serious. Crying about not finding a good woman in Brickell at 53 years old is beyond goofy.


If you want unconditional love and/or community call your parents or get a dog :yeshrug:. Everything else in this world is conditional, even the so called loving marriages.


I think when these types of people release the burden of needing someone else to love and understand them completely and unconditionally their lives and relationships will get much better. The majority of people you run into in major cities in America in 2023 will not come close to reaching that bar, you either accept it and enjoy it for what it is, or you make yourself miserable. It's your life and your choice.
 

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I'm close to 50. Wife and I had kids late in marriage, and when picking my kids up from school I'm constantly getting choosing signals from the single 30-something single moms, and some of the married ones too. If you are 50, dress well, and in reasonable good shape, you don't look 50 years old. So the prospects of finding willing 35 year old women to date isn't far fetched. It's not like most 35 year old women are swimming in options of financially set men seriously looking to have a longterm relationship with them. Also they are competing with 20 somethings for men in their own age group.

I would not be interested in dating any women close to menopausal age. It's inevitable for every woman but I would want to spend a reasonable amount of time with her before that era of her life hits.
 

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I'm close to 50. Wife and I had kids late in marriage, and when picking my kids up from school I'm constantly getting choosing signals from the single 30-something single moms, and some of the married ones too. If you are 50, dress well, and in reasonable good shape, you don't look 50 years old. So the prospects of finding willing 35 year old women to date isn't far fetched. It's not like most 35 year old women are swimming in options of financially set men seriously looking to have a longterm relationship with them. Also they are competing with 20 somethings for men in their own age group.

I would not be interested in dating any women close to menopausal age. It's inevitable for every woman but I would want to spend a reasonable amount of time with her before that era of her life hits.
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I'm close to 50. Wife and I had kids late in marriage, and when picking my kids up from school I'm constantly getting choosing signals from the single 30-something single moms, and some of the married ones too. If you are 50, dress well, and in reasonable good shape, you don't look 50 years old. So the prospects of finding willing 35 year old women to date isn't far fetched. It's not like most 35 year old women are swimming in options of financially set men seriously looking to have a longterm relationship with them.

You think they'll still be "choosing" when you tell them you are almost twice their age? :mjlol:

Men be taking smiles to the head like a mfer lol
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I'm close to 50. Wife and I had kids late in marriage, and when picking my kids up from school I'm constantly getting choosing signals from the single 30-something single moms, and some of the married ones too. If you are 50, dress well, and in reasonable good shape, you don't look 50 years old. So the prospects of finding willing 35 year old women to date isn't far fetched. It's not like most 35 year old women are swimming in options of financially set men seriously looking to have a longterm relationship with them. Also they are competing with 20 somethings for men in their own age group.

I would not be interested in dating any women close to menopausal age. It's inevitable for every woman but I would want to spend a reasonable amount of time with her before that era of her life hits.
Which is totally understandable!!!! But I guess what we’re saying is someone (like you) who doesn’t sound like the average guy— yes you get choosing signals from younger women because you look good and are well put together = $$.
 

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Why not date a fellow 50 year old?
A 50 year old woman that's decent looking, single and sane? Good luck with that. He should expand his range lower and just be clear he's not a trick so if that's all they want they can keep it moving and not waste time.
 

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You think they'll still be "choosing" when you tell them you are almost twice their age? :mjlol:

Men be taking smiles to the head like a mfer lol
Respectfully

Twice their age?

He said the women were 30 something and he said he's close to 50

30 + 30 = 60

30 something plus 30 something = anything from 62 to 78

I hope for your sake you dont manage your money this way
 

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Its a friday night and this what you on?! Blocked.
:russ: dont deflect for making a dumb statement. doesn't matter what day it is, be accountable for your logic(or lack thereof), you were randomly going after the man, using that bitter broad LSA math you use when you post over there.

That's like saying "It's 2024" followed up by a useless comment
 

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At least he’s realistic! Nothing wrong with what he said. But someone 10+ years younger will def want to be provided for :skip:
Ur right...at his age, women gonna expect him to be established. That's not unreasonable either.

I do understand he wants someone who loves him for him. Shyt I want that for myself.

But what scares me is being old and trying to find someone who is actually for u. I feel for him.
 
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