Also, this man said out of his own mouth that he likes to date younger but has issues on women wanting him for him and brehs are still debating. I’m sorry, but
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A lot of older women and men are going out sad chasing youth and embarrassing themselves. Older people are trading in community for meaningless sex and instagram likes. It’s all fun and games until you wake up one day and realize the things and people you’ve spent your life recycling through have all moved on.
On one hand I somewhat get what you're saying but on the other hand you gotta look at what's going on right now.
The divorce rate in America is above 50%, divorce courts in America are broken, not to mention plenty of couples sitting in miserable loveless marriages, the fertility rate is dropping, young men are dropping out of giving a damn about life, young women are selling themselves to the highest bidder at greater rates every year, single family households are damn near 75% for black folks and rising for every ethnicity every year, the younger generation of kids coming up seems like they're even more off the hook due to being raised by social media and terrible gen-x and millenial parents, America looks like it's damn near on the brink of a race or civil or class or world war every other damn day, mass shootings are rising with no set plans to solve the problem, a greater number of Americans are on mental health meds, income inequality keeps rising, the average American family can't even afford to own a house anymore, the middle class is dying and AI is about to automate out hella jobs to help accelerate the death.
What community exactly are folks missing out on?

The reality of life in 2023 is that all this shyt is unstable

I don't think finding and maintaining a happy "community" is anywhere near as attainable or sustainable as your comment kinda suggests. People aren't just "choosing" money and meaningless sex, it's just pretty damn difficult to find/cultivate/build and maintain a good solid community on purpose.
As far as dude in the OP's video trying to find someone to love and understand him, you live in Brickell breh get real

If you want unconditional love and/or community call your parents or get a dog

I think when these types of people release the burden of needing someone else to love and understand them completely and unconditionally their lives and relationships will get much better. The majority of people you run into in major cities in America in 2023 will not come close to reaching that bar, you either accept it and enjoy it for what it is, or you make yourself miserable. It's your life and your choice.