no one is going to get over child support until ladies stop trying to gouge dudes and do nothing for 18 years and use the dudes broke pockets(usually) to fund her doing nothing for 18 years. its called CHILD support. not mother support. unless yall were married. he owes YOU ZERO. he owes you a nanny payment for holding the child down and half of the kids rent money. half of the kids food bill, half of the kids clothing bill and half of some of the kids extra curricular( i said some because if yall were together he may or may not agree with every extra curricular that you want to put the child into.) this wouldnt amt to a ton of cash like you think.
Delaware puts Child Support Cards in Effect
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The courts set the amount, NOT the mother. They normally have a paper with expenses and the mother says how much it costs and she normally needs proof. They then split the total. So just because YOU feel child rearing SHOULD be cheaper, doesn't mean that's how it goes. However, I don't see a problem with both parents coming up with an agreement without using the court's method.
I'm pretty sure most women getting child support aren't abusing it. Some guys are just complaining at the fact they have to pay anything.
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My mother never complained about not getting child support.
Be the offspring of a worthless bytch brehs.
Whats so fukkin' hard to understand. No man here is against chd support!
We're against shyt like this:
Niece is getting screwed!
(Houston, TX)
I have a 15-year old niece, whose mother receives $97.00 a week from her biological father. However, instead of spending the money on my niece, she uses the money to eat out, buy herself clothes,(while my niece wears jeans with holes in them and shoes that are falling a part), get her hair highlighted and party. My niece lives with her grandparents and has lived with her grandparents for going on two years now. The mother doesn't pay a single dime to the electrical bill, food bill, utilities or anything else that is needed for my niece, yet she still collects the child support.
Oh! Did I mention that the mother doesn't live with my niece? She collects the child support from my niece's grandparent's house, that is meant to take care of my niece, but the mother has pawned my niece off on the grandmother (the mother's mother). The mother is defrauding the State of Texas' Child Support Division of the U.S. Attorney General's Office, and no body seems to give a crap! I've called and reported the mother twice, but nothing has happened. I'm told that the mother is allowed to do with the money what she sees fit to do with the money. That's bull S***! The money is meant to provide food, clothing and whatever other support is needed for my niece, not the mother! The mother just spends the money, she calls HERS, at will, with NO regard as to what my niece needs.
The mother has no money because she has no job. She has no job because she's lazy and unwilling to EARN her keep. She thinks my niece's child support is her paycheck. I think it's horrible that mothers are allowed to take from their kids and not have to answer for what is done with the money the fathers pay to support their children. This mother is up to her eyeballs in debt, yet pays no bills. She moves from one friend's house to the next, while her parents care for her child, but she still collects the child support? How is that legal? If the child is living under the grandparent's roof and is being taken care of by the grandparents, the child support should go to the grandparents, not the mother who is out spreading her legs to ever Tom, dikk & Harry that comes along. The child support should be used to take care of my niece, not take care of the mother so she can look good for the next date she has. The laws need to be more strict on how people are using the child support.
There needs to be consequences for those who misuse and defraud the system. There are too women out there misusing the money that is meant for their children and it's the kids who suffer! I know my niece suffers and no one gives a damn!!!! It's pathetic that a child has no rights because they're a minor. Someone needs to stand up to these parents who abuse the system and put a stop to it! Make these mothers accountable for what they're spending the money on. If the money isn't being spent on the child, they need to be fined and/or jailed. It's as simple as that. Perhaps the children in the State of Texas will be better taken care
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Fantastic idea. But, lets be honest here. Delaware is the center of the credit card industry because they have a lot of lax local laws that cater to credit card companies. I guarantee you the State and CC companies figured out a way to skim money off the top.
Ah........The Coli's resident, temperamental Mangina is getting upset now with no real facts or data to back up any of her emotional statements! 
My mother never complained about not getting child support.
You sound dumb as shyt. My mother never complained about child support either. She wasn't the one who asked for it. My dad being the man that he is realized that it was necessary in order to fully cover the expenses of raising THREE fukkING CHILDREN!!!
If a man doesn't understand what it takes to raise a child and thinks that buying stuff here and there is enough then he's the type that needs be told how much is enough. It's not fair that the parent with primary custody is left with the majority of expenses while the other parent can do whatever with their money and pretend like their children only exists on weekends
I asked if you had stats for non-custodial fathers. Your custodial parent stats really didn't prove your point like you thought it did and you're the one that got emotional. I haven't used a smiley yet. The FACT of the matter is that women are not the ones that come up with the child support amounts, the courts do. So how are you mad at the women about the amount they received but ok when the courts tell you how they should spend it? Direct all resentment or happiness to the court system.
Whats so fukkin' hard to understand. No man here is against chd support!
We're against shyt like this:
Niece is getting screwed!
(Houston, TX)
I have a 15-year old niece, whose mother receives $97.00 a week from her biological father. However, instead of spending the money on my niece, she uses the money to eat out, buy herself clothes,(while my niece wears jeans with holes in them and shoes that are falling a part), get her hair highlighted and party. My niece lives with her grandparents and has lived with her grandparents for going on two years now. The mother doesn't pay a single dime to the electrical bill, food bill, utilities or anything else that is needed for my niece, yet she still collects the child support.
Oh! Did I mention that the mother doesn't live with my niece? She collects the child support from my niece's grandparent's house, that is meant to take care of my niece, but the mother has pawned my niece off on the grandmother (the mother's mother). The mother is defrauding the State of Texas' Child Support Division of the U.S. Attorney General's Office, and no body seems to give a crap! I've called and reported the mother twice, but nothing has happened. I'm told that the mother is allowed to do with the money what she sees fit to do with the money. That's bull S***! The money is meant to provide food, clothing and whatever other support is needed for my niece, not the mother! The mother just spends the money, she calls HERS, at will, with NO regard as to what my niece needs.
The mother has no money because she has no job. She has no job because she's lazy and unwilling to EARN her keep. She thinks my niece's child support is her paycheck. I think it's horrible that mothers are allowed to take from their kids and not have to answer for what is done with the money the fathers pay to support their children. This mother is up to her eyeballs in debt, yet pays no bills. She moves from one friend's house to the next, while her parents care for her child, but she still collects the child support? How is that legal? If the child is living under the grandparent's roof and is being taken care of by the grandparents, the child support should go to the grandparents, not the mother who is out spreading her legs to ever Tom, dikk & Harry that comes along. The child support should be used to take care of my niece, not take care of the mother so she can look good for the next date she has. The laws need to be more strict on how people are using the child support.
There needs to be consequences for those who misuse and defraud the system. There are too women out there misusing the money that is meant for their children and it's the kids who suffer! I know my niece suffers and no one gives a damn!!!! It's pathetic that a child has no rights because they're a minor. Someone needs to stand up to these parents who abuse the system and put a stop to it! Make these mothers accountable for what they're spending the money on. If the money isn't being spent on the child, they need to be fined and/or jailed. It's as simple as that. Perhaps the children in the State of Texas will be better taken care
how can anyone defend this?Female logic??!?
It's the abuse of CS that's the problem bird brain. This law is addressing the abuse of CS. Laws that affect deadbeat daddys are in full fukkin effect already. That's been legally addressed but you can't tell that we're not discussing those laws? The estrogen is blocking your logic huh?
It's confusing to tell what problem is being addressed here?
Why isn't it? If you go half with your homeboy on an item, but you pay for it upfront in full, when he gives you his half, it's YOUR money.