Lol whatever. I said my peace. I'm fully in support of child support but I do believe that the amount should not prevent the man from being able to take care of himself.
Delaware puts Child Support Cards in Effect
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Lol whatever. I said my peace. I'm fully in support of child support but I do believe that the amount should not prevent the man from being able to take care of himself.
Can't believe this went 5 pages and nobody verified any of this. Farrah Grays website is as fake as Mediafakeout. Thats a basic debit card, there are no restrictions.
They're blinded by rage. They keep lashing out at dead beat daddys who are being HANDLED by the legal system already, I'm talking Rhonda Roussey full roundhouse to the mouth HANDLED, nikkas dying in jail without insulin handled...nikkas losing jobs going to jail after missing a payment HANDLED...THEN being arrested for not paying cuz they lost their job going to jail HANDLED...
THIS RULE is an attempt to handle mfckers who buy newports with the school clothes money because it hasnt been HANDLED yet.
Damn
Yeah, it set up for dysfunction.
there is no plausible scenario where a woman can argue with this ruling, without exposing that they're misappropriating funds
its CHILD support. SUPPORT FOR THE CHILD
now i would rule that gas and bills fall under that ruling
anything else tho? 
its CHILD support. SUPPORT FOR THE CHILD
now i would rule that gas and bills fall under that ruling
anything else tho? 
Breh I have joint custody and put myself on child support. Half these nikkas be bums complaining or just plain naive to the system . If you have your shyt together all you have to do is hire a lawyer and you will be straight. Its like any other court case, you roll in there with no attorney and you're getting stroked. Those custody orders can be changed, they are just templates you can make it whatever you like. But the problem is men don't take the first step and it ends up looking like you don't want custody because she's just there to put you on child support.
This is exactly what I did when she started getting on that bs cancelling my days over dumb shyt and talking about the money I gave her were gifts not cs. Went right down to the child support office and signed up, the ball was in my court at this point . Then I went filed for custody. They gave me emergency visitation asap on some every other weekend bs. Everything after that was between the lawyers. She didn't want to lose time but at the end she looked stupid as fukk because my lawyer had me submit a packet of pictures of my sons room with his toys, books ect. My mother wrote a letter to the judge saying how much she wanted to be in his life and I just told them I want to be in his life as much as possible and every other weekend wasn't enough came up with a schedule that was fair and that was that. We had a couple of continuances, but at the end her lawyer was clowning her with my lawyer on some
this bytch being extra difficult.
Men just need to be strategic with because all this i don't want to get the courts involved is dumb when you dealing with a reckless chick.
Agreed. Gotta use CS to your advantage. That's the only thing a broad can hold over your head.
Pay your dues and make sure you fight for your other rights while you're at it.
Physical custody if you can, Joint custody if you can't get that, but always make sure you have legal custody
Demand your visitations and everytime she fukks up, drag her back to court, until the court gives you custody
And get you a lawyer. That $2500-$5000 fee is money worth spent
the courts and Feds can do what the fukk they want when it comes to your bank account. Who do you think you are? Lol, the Courts can order your accounts frozen if they want to and have you hurting out here. Stop acting tough.You're right, she doesn't have it that hard. But what about the father with a bunch of kids, paying only fractions of what he should monthly (or nothing at all) but banking money under the table while the mother is struggling? Does HE have it all that bad. What you stated and I stated are both extreme cases that don't fit within the average child support scenario, imo.
Alls I'm saying is that I believe a good percentage of women actually take their child support money and mix it with their income BUT their children are also well taken care of and I don't see anything wrong with that.
Let me educate you lil buddy:
Most people don't smoke crack either but we need laws to deal with the people who do.
Crack abuse like CS fraud also diverts funds from children who are in need. If you do a quick google search you'll see thats its a problem for hundreds of thousands of people. 
It HAS to be addressed whether the majority are abusing it or not...like the crack epidemic. Enough people ARE abusing the CS system. Without knowing the back story I guarantee yoi that this law was championed by some law abiding father who's baby mother used the CS on breast enhancement and a gang of Four Lokos..
Forget anything related to money, what about the spiritual, emotional and behavioral sides to parenting? Do you think that's not difficult for single parents to deal with on a daily basis? Children are a reflection of their parents so it's so much more to raising them than just making sure they have the nicest clothes. Yall bytching about money every month when your kid doesn't know how to act in public, is disrespectful to everyone and can barely read on their assigned grade level. So called abuse of child support money is the last thing you need to be worried about.
So, you're just expressing rage. Gotcha.
This breh was arrested for OVERPAYING his CS. Take heart nikkas who dont pay or overpay are being HANDLED:
This breh was arrested for OVERPAYING his CS. Take heart nikkas who dont pay or overpay are being HANDLED:
What about Internet? Car repairs? Credit card bill that was used to pay for groceries or clothing BEFORE the child support money came through that month?there is no plausible scenario where a woman can argue with this ruling, without exposing that they're misappropriating funds
its CHILD support. SUPPORT FOR THE CHILD
now i would rule that gas and bills fall under that ruling
No. It isn't because if that comes up in court. That the funds were used in an intended way and a lawyer states that the funds were used for transportation and utilities then we have made it a massive waste in time and resources.
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Merchants have category codes for When transactions are processed so they could limit it that way.
Example my health insurance gives me a visa card but of course i cant use it anywhere but doctors offices / hospitals. Itll be denied anywhere else.
We will get a law like this passed one day though... I may not get to the mountaintop with you..but one day CS will not be spent on a pack of virgin remy!
Can't believe this went 5 pages and nobody verified any of this. Farrah Grays website is as fake as Mediafakeout. Thats a basic debit card, there are no restrictions.
What if the child needs lunch money or money for a school trip and the mom doesn't have it? Can she retrieve money from the card?