Delaware puts Child Support Cards in Effect

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

For one, the CS debit card is a step in the right direction. Two, let the father have more visitation rights if he lives close. Three, CS can't play daddy, as in, if the mother and father are mature enough, leave the courts out of it!

Are you slow?

What does any of this have to do with a man avoiding having to pay CS in the first place?

 

[Bigtymer301]

No I'm not. If he wants to do court ordered child support for whatever reason then fine. I'm not going against it.

If he doesn't want to pay child support and would rather give me money thats fine, I'm not going against it.

If he doesn't want to give me any money at all then thats fine as well. I'm not chasing a man for shyt.

What I won't do, is let the courts police my bank account. If he gets his wages garnished then thats fine but what I do with money in my account is my business.

If the bolded is true, how would he get his wages garnished if you don't go to the courts. The government doesn't just garnish your salary when you have a child. Somebody has to go to the courts and file for child support. So how would his wages get garnished, if you not chasing a man for shyt?

 

[Wild self]

Are you slow?

What does any of this have to do with a man avoiding having to pay CS in the first place?

No, just being fair. Period. CS is a scam.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

 

[aqualung]

Men & WOMEN should want this...
Anybody' who disagrees is a fool

Yeah. Kids will benefit.

It seems like a great way to build accountability into the system while minimizing administrative costs. A judge can review the expenses by just checking the charges for the past X months! And it is accepted everywhere visa spends, so...


A+++++ concept AND execution

 

[King Poetic]

we about to have

#MYCHILDSUPPORTMATTER GROUPS

bytches standing in front of court houses complaining about her not having the same new jordans her son lil ray ray have and she has to shop at payless

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Stuff like car payments and the electric bill she has to pay from her own pocket. She uses that stuff by default, so no CS money going to that.

Why? You genetically made 50% of this kid, whats wrong with your funds going to help pay for the extra miles on a car that goes into taking a child to and from school, doctor, extra curricular? Or at least covering the difference that an extra child makes in power costs?

Because they don't want to talk about it.

It destroys the whole child support-deadbeat narrative that they are trying to ram down our throats

Ask these women. They all will tell you that they believe women are superior parents to men and because of that they always should have custody and the father should pay child support to help support their decision to be single mothers.

Child Support is used as a tool to punish a man for not doing what the mother wants. These arrangements of payment and childcare can be set-up without getting the courts involved. CS is used as a control mechanism.

It is a woman's way of exercising control over an ex and having some say in his life for years to come.

I get your point, and I even somewhat agree but this sounds like a bitter ass post.

1. Don't wanna deal with it don't have kids...and if you do don't have them with bird ass women.

2. If you wanna set up payments outside of the court system, you'd have even LESS control over how the funds are spent, that directly contradicts the program you are trying to support.

3. Being a woman doesn't inherently make someone a good parent. But mothers are usually awarded custody because the better part of our society has conditioned them to bear and rear children. They have better life training, on average, to be mothers than men are to be fathers. This is a fact. Now does that mean that there AREN'T good fathers...nah. Or does it mean that there AREN'T shyt mothers...nah. But on average, women are mentally and emotionally more conditioned to be parents. Not saying men shouldn't EVER win custody...but just be logical here. Taking care of a kid is about A LOT more than just a house and some money and some food. And our predisposition to analyze and expect black/white outcomes doesn't really work well with kids. This is why having BOTH parents in the kids life will ALWAYS be ideal.

4. You have a kid together....regardless of how you feel about her...you have a say in EACH OTHERS lives for the sake of that child.

 

[CashmereThoughts]

Men be so hurt over child support huh

hoes mad they not getting it.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Men be so hurt over child support huh

 

[MarloStanTrill]

STORED VALUE CARD

s.

They need to make it where it can only be spent on: School Supplies, CHILDRENS CLOTHING, food, and utilities. Cant be used at hair/nail shops, cant be used on car payments, JUST cant be used for anything else period

 

[MarloStanTrill]

Men be so hurt over child support huh

Maybe because women be using that money for anything but kids.























Yall be more hurt raising that kid alone tho

 

[Gold]

What's the problem here?

Make the government your daddy and get mad when daddy changes the rules

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

Men be so hurt over child support huh

Thats why direct deposit is still the option.

As long they are cutting the check and the kid is good all that extra (checking my transactions )is unnecessary.

With our without, I'm sure that kid isn't hurting too bad anyway.

And miss me with the outrageous numbers you see celebs pay. The average nikka ain't paying more than $200 - 300 a month unless they have a roster of kids.

If he's worried about where its going then buy the shyt yourself. No sweat off my back. But no court, lawyer, or man will police the funds in my account.

Read above. If you're worried then buy what you think is needed then.

#FanLuv

I'll be sure to link you my amazon wish list to further support my endeavors.

I post in threads to start shyt then leave which include but is not limited too any thread where I make nikkas mad.

Considering I barely post then its up to you to support that claim with posts made by me in the last 6 months where I was all up in a child suport thread.

K.thx.bai



Ok, now that we have this information!

Lets talk about the so called "child support hustle".

Annually a man is still giving less than $6000 in support for a child right? How does that conclude to "women get support/gov't aide just so they don't have to work"?

Even if you include food stamps, and low income housing, they are still getting about $10k MAYBE in money and benefits. Not much to live like a trap queen with michael kors and new jordans.

Now if a man feels as if the woman isn't properly taking care of the kid and misusing funds...why not fight for custody?
"bytch that won't work!"
Well why not?! Instead of fighting for a reduction so your baby momma can't buy virgin remy, fight for custody so your child can have a much better life outside of the $430 in support and make the mother pay.

Makes sense right?

But ya'll ain't hearing me because it ain't what you want to do.

Trying to kill someone to get rid of a problem ain't new either

No, they put themselves on child support to be safe and ensure visitation. Its a two way street.

I have no use to put the courts in my business.

Being able to see their seed.

Just like a man doesn't pay child support they can go to jail the same can happen to a woman who denies visitation. It all falls under contempt of a court order.

No I'm not. If he wants to do court ordered child support for whatever reason then fine. I'm not going against it.

If he doesn't want to pay child support and would rather give me money thats fine, I'm not going against it.

If he doesn't want to give me any money at all then thats fine as well. I'm not chasing a man for shyt.

What I won't do, is let the courts police my bank account. If he gets his wages garnished then thats fine but what I do with money in my account is my business.

How did you translate a sense of entitlement because I won't let the courts view my bank records. What I spend my hard earned money on is my business not the courts.

If a man puts himself on child support in an attempt to get access to what I spend money on then I don't want his money. Buy whatever you think is needed because with or without his money my child will be good.


Who is ya'll? I avoid the system. From trying to get over on the IRS to Sallie Mae loans to welfare and public housing.
I wouldn't hand over my bank information unless its regarding a mortgage loan.

Child support is a broke man's challenge that I don't take part in.

How is it a good idea? Men don't put this much effort into visitations and being an active part in their child's life but whine and moan over money.

It prevalent where the emotions lie because its more men in jail for not paying child support than women in jail for denying visits.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

No, just being fair. Period. CS is a scam.

How is it a scam

A scam is when you get tricked or fooled.... what do nikkas think will happen when they have a kid out of wedlock

It's about as much of a scam as playing Russian roullette by yourself and blowing ur brains out..... nobody tricked u into pulling the trigger

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Why? You genetically made 50% of this kid, whats wrong with your funds going to help pay for the extra miles on a car that goes into taking a child to and from school, doctor, extra curricular? Or at least covering the difference that an extra child makes in power costs?



I get your point, and I even somewhat agree but this sounds like a bitter ass post.

1. Don't wanna deal with it don't have kids...and if you do don't have them with bird ass women.

2. If you wanna set up payments outside of the court system, you'd have even LESS control over how the funds are spent, that directly contradicts the program you are trying to support.

3. Being a woman doesn't inherently make someone a good parent. But mothers are usually awarded custody because the better part of our society has conditioned them to bear and rear children. They have better life training, on average, to be mothers than men are to be fathers. This is a fact. Now does that mean that there AREN'T good fathers...nah. Or does it mean that there AREN'T shyt mothers...nah. But on average, women are mentally and emotionally more conditioned to be parents. Not saying men shouldn't EVER win custody...but just be logical here. Taking care of a kid is about A LOT more than just a house and some money and some food. And our predisposition to analyze and expect black/white outcomes doesn't really work well with kids. This is why having BOTH parents in the kids life will ALWAYS be ideal.

4. You have a kid together....regardless of how you feel about her...you have a say in EACH OTHERS lives for the sake of that child.

Are you a female