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[Blackout]

Some of us aren't looking for friends with benefits, or even friends, but I understand.

well damn. this is all new to me bruh.

might run into one of yall someday and learn about yall in person too.

 

[How Sway?]

Im not in school and not sure where to meet folks. Unwilling to lower my expectations. Biological clock is ticking. Im most likely gonna be alone.

girl you like 24 you're not at that point yet!

but if you want to expedite the process, i'll be waiting at the alter so we can get hitched

 

[Big Daddy]

Man...fukk this thread.

Seriously, I'm done.

fukk this.

peace.

Alright, this didn't fukking help at all. I frankly just want to smash my laptop into a million pieces.

Obviously you want me to kill myself. No one gives a fukk about me. Seriously. This board is so fukking fake.

 

[Big Daddy]

Mane you sound like a real bytch ass motherfukker. p*ssy ass nikka, I guess everything about your life is perfect? Hoe ass nikka, you don't even sound like a man, tryna down another nikka on the internet like you're more than him. You a real fakkit ass hoe ass nikka, on God

I'd smack da sh!t outcho homotional ass in real life n you wont do naaaan

 

[Yinny]

Mental health is real black people. Glad we support our own so well.

For what it's worth I posted several local resources for him to check out here. But some people would rather waffle between their cycles online

 

[BaggerofTea]

The problem with men today is that millennial men have been taught to look to women for validation

Thats some spineless, feminine ass thinking right there.

 

[The M.I.C.]

Man...fukk this thread.

Seriously, I'm done.

fukk this.

peace.

Alright, this didn't fukking help at all. I frankly just want to smash my laptop into a million pieces.

Obviously you want me to kill myself. No one gives a fukk about me. Seriously. This board is so fukking fake.

I'm late to this thread but let me put on my glasses and M.D. hat.

Why are you extending your emotions into a virtual cloud(internet) where people are more likely to be as obtuse and generic regarding their responses? Why vest so much energy for validation from people you may NEVER meet?

You're not angry with with folks here, you're angry with yourself because of the lingering scent of failure that your perceive to blanket you...you have to remain logical and in control of your thoughts when an obstacle, which can possibly negatively affect you, comes into view. Sink or swim. If you're lonely and desire a relationship...consider everything internal and external.

Is the attitude of the women in your area contrary to what you want in a woman?
Is your ability to communicate compromised by a lack of self confidence? Do you project positive energy when dealing with a female..
So much to consider..

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

For what it's worth I posted several local resources for him to check out here. But some people would rather waffle between their cycles online

Depression is a disease. It's not just "feeling bad on the internet" as some people like to think. I get on breh alot but I need to back off. He needs support more than anything. We cast off people we can help and we welcome with open arms people beyond repair.

 

[The M.I.C.]

The problem with men today is that millennial men have been taught to look to women for validation

Thats some spineless, feminine ass thinking right there.

People construct themselves off on how other people see them instead of really evaluating who and what THEY are...people walking around mirroring others and becoming conflicted because they feel who they are will be insufficient for them to be happy.

When it's the exact OPPOSITE...happiness is vested in freedom. Whether it be superficially by being wealthy or esoterically by knowledge, when you are free you can truly be yourself. I stopped giving a fukk about what others thought a LONG time ago, I threw away those chains and allowed my true self to manifest...whatever I wanted became much easier to attain. Women can sense that vibe, you'll naturally attract them with that type of energy. I don't know why we have such a proliferation of robots in society right now.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Depression is a disease. It's not just "feeling bad on the internet" as some people like to think. I get on breh alot but I need to back off. He needs support more than anything. We cast off people we can help and we welcome with open arms people beyond repair.

Thanks. It's difficult dealing with it since I was formally diagnosed with clinical depression back in 2007. I take medication for it and have been taking it for a while. I appreciate the concern.

Yo sorry if I might of offended anybody

@Big Daddy no hard feeings my g I understand what you saying.

 

[Unknown Poster]

I'm late to this thread but let me put on my glasses and M.D. hat.

Why are you extending your emotions into a virtual cloud(internet) where people are more likely to be as obtuse and generic regarding their responses? Why vest so much energy for validation from people you may NEVER meet?

You're not angry with with folks here, you're angry with yourself because of the lingering scent of failure that your perceive to blanket you...you have to remain logical and in control of your thoughts when an obstacle, which can possibly negatively affect you, comes into view. Sink or swim. If you're lonely and desire a relationship...consider everything internal and external.

Is the attitude of the women in your area contrary to what you want in a woman?
Is your ability to communicate compromised by a lack of self confidence? Do you project positive energy when dealing with a female..
So much to consider..

I can admit this thread was some bullshyt, and it probably never should of been made.

 

[The M.I.C.]

@Sagat

Breh, I don't think you need a quack cause honestly, all we would do is typically put your on medication and send you on your way..I think you just need some therapeutic treatment, see a therapist and just unload and let them absorb it. They'll go deep into what the cause and effects are and give highly constructed advice to help you cope.

 

[Fani Willis fan]

Depression is a disease. It's not just "feeling bad on the internet" as some people like to think. I get on breh alot but I need to back off. He needs support more than anything. We cast off people we can help and we welcome with open arms people beyond repair.

bet half the people on this board been told they got depression, they diagnosed me with manic depression.
its the easiest clinical "disease" to diagnose.

enabling people to wollow in self pity just makes things worse.

 

[Taadow]

It's sad....I usually come on here for a laugh, some nostalgia, some music...but with all of these police shootings, all of this racial bullshyt going on in this country, this election, this board is less amusing and just seriously depressing at times. I try not to let my depression get the best of me, but sometimes it's a struggle. I take medication for it. I had a real bad dream last night and it messed me up this morning.

Yeah, I should just take a break...meditate. Get away from stressful situations.

Bruh, are you getting some counseling?

I say that because you can't just take medication without counseling, because the counseling is supposed to help
you with some direction - especially considering that medication alters you physically as well.

 

[Mr Rager]

What? I can't be human? I have to be fake and shyt all the time? I cant have changes in mood? I can't express myself fully?

Sometimes this board really be pissing me off man...seriously and this is the only place I can go and express my feelings without being judged.

I hate how fukking judgemental other black people can be man. it pisses me off to no end. It's like, you can't even be yourself to other black people without being clowned...fukk man.


what the fukk is wrong with some of my people man?

I just want to goddamn vent cause I can't be real about race with some people here and you do this shyt...what the fukk man? I can't take this shyt no more man.

It's not about clowning, man. It's about being honest with you...