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[colicolicoli]

Imagine being pregnant and your BD only calls and texts you twice a week.


I'll never understand some women. I'd rather die than be just a "baby mama"

 

[Orange cream shake]

You putting money away in a joint account for a baby that might not be yours?

 

[DOSDUMUNI]

NO it's not. None of this is normal!

There's a lot of bonding that occurs during this period that OP will miss out on!! But then again ???? It seems like he's already chucking the deuces and leaving child rearing for the mom.

Not at all breh

I continue to check in on her...until a few days ago

She essentially lost her fukking mind and was saying i dont get her misery...in other words she wants me as her boyfriend but is too immature to admit her own delusions.

I been in the picture.

 

[Coco Loco]

Them "I'll put sum on it" babies...

MA'AM!!!! You ain't shyt

 

[tater]

Woooooh!

I would have had an abortion

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

MA'AM!!!! You ain't shyt

 

[DOSDUMUNI]

This one of the few times I cant put this on the women lol
I think it's more than what dude is telling..
This is his Ex and he just happened to get her preg?
Like I'm sure if she tells the story, she gonna say dude was doing all kindza "I like u" type shyt with her.... besides the fact he was fukking her raw and skeeeeting up in her.
My nikka, u knew what was up...

Nah breh

2 weeks before she broke the news to me she asked me to remove the used condoms whenever she was around my crib. She knew what was up.

And when she was 4 weeks pregnant we met and agreed her moving in with me would be a no no...because she knows damn well i dont want to be with her. But im willing to provide for our child and be a present father.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Imagine being pregnant and your BD only calls and texts you twice a week.


I'll never understand some women. I'd rather die than be just a "baby mama"

My sentiments exactly sis

Imagine being pregnant by a nikka who just aired all of your business on a forum to a bunch of complete strangers asking for advice

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Imagine being pregnant and your BD only calls and texts you twice a week.


I'll never understand some women. I'd rather die than be just a "baby mama"

Seriously. Mentally, I ain't built to take mental, physical or emotional abuse.

I've never been humiliated or dogged out by a guy. Never fukked a dude and got kicked out of his crib or any shyt like that. Never been in an abusive relationship. I can't take it.

My heart would break in a million pieces if I had to bring a child into this world with someone who didn't give a damn whether I was breathing the next day or not.
Imagine going thru a first pregnancy without somebody who romantically loves you. Pushing out a baby and risking your life on the emergency table...
Then saying goodbye to free time, waking up in the middle of the night, people judging you and doing all that shyt by yourself?! I'm surprised abortion rates ain't higher to be really real.

Nah. That YOLO p*ssy game ain't for me. I gamble but not with my ovaries.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Not at all breh

I continue to check in on her...until a few days ago

She essentially lost her fukking mind and was saying i dont get her misery...in other words she wants me as her boyfriend but is too immature to admit her own delusions.

I been in the picture.

Forget what she has going on personally. Be compassionate, but don’t get sucked into it. Both of y’all made a choice to create this baby. Unfortunately more will fall on her shoulders and it sounds like she is aware of that.

Your concern Should not be about her “accepting reality”, it’s that baking baby in her belly. DO NOT stop checking up on her.do everything in your power to support this pregnancy since that’s you’re child. She will never forget how she is being treated during this pregnancy... believe me. It’s the most vulnerable time of a woman’s life and the last thing she needs is yo ass either trying to prove a point OR distancing yourself from her. You need to find the strength somewhere to weather the storms you are in regardless of her “delusion”. It’s a better look to continue to keep your word in the most difficult of situations than to falter.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

My sentiments exactly sis

Imagine being pregnant by a nikka who just aired all of your business on a forum to a bunch of complete strangers asking for advice

Fukkin existential ether
And dudes be really tryin you too!

"I guess u don't love me. U ain't tryin to have my kids..."
"You gon be single if u keep..."
"Just the tip..."

 

[Cynic]

And they don't even know it. Chicks volunteering for a life of self induced misery. I will never understand that shyt. Get a hobby, join a rec league, start a business, take some classes, shyt join the army. You can met so many men by just leaving the house. Why would you sign up for misery and stress for a man who doesn't want you. What a waste.

When is the last time you dated a dispatcher ?

Or brought weed and liquor to his place ?

Or let him bust in you raw ?

Not all women are like you or have your motivations/options.

Live and let live.

 

[P90]

Maybe too optimistic but might could be pregnancy hormones making her emotional / irrational?

 

[Cynic]

 

[Serious]

I stopped reading after the 3rd paragraph.

You clearly knocked up the wrong woman.


I won't even fukk a woman that regularly needs to drink and smoke.