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Her Pregnant Brehs!!#GHPB
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bout to download that mixtape as well. 
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
Should have wrapped up breh. You lost.
From her point of view she is getting the short end of the stick she's a single mother and you are bachelor with a child. So yeah, she's not gonna like the clear distance you are putting between you two.
Maybe you should consider trying to make it work as a family not for her sake but for the kid.
Sometimes you get trapped.
Maybe you should consider trying to make it work as a family not for her sake but for the kid.
Sometimes you get trapped.
you need to contact a lawyer and begin the process of co-parenting so she can't take the child out of state.
save all conversations, show receipts of a joint account, put the baby on your insruance (after it's born) get a DNA TEST DONE AND hope for the best
save all conversations, show receipts of a joint account, put the baby on your insruance (after it's born) get a DNA TEST DONE AND hope for the best
Mordith
H.E.N.R.Y.
Decisions have consequences....
Dispatcher? What?
And who am I stopping from living? The chick is miserable by her own doing and it will only get worse. She could have found something better with her time. There is no excuse for intentionally becoming a BM for a dude who doesn't want you.
Mordith
H.E.N.R.Y.
They aren't married and the child isn't born yet, so there's absolutely nothing he can do to stop her from leaving the state...
LeetStickMcGee
Pro
I hope your finances are in order. Otherwise....
You and that girl have basically started another cycle of no foresight, dysfunction and poverty for a black child.
You and that girl have basically started another cycle of no foresight, dysfunction and poverty for a black child.
Damn that sucks tho, there are women who think a baby will get you to commit to them. I had a situation where the chick got an abortion but I was clear that we weren't going to be together. The real question is are you still fukking her because that's giving her hope
FUPA
#LWO
congrats on your 18 year time share. My breh at work be dropping 850$ a month plus whatever money he spends when he has her 6 times a month. Dead at you thinking this was gonna work any other way then you ending with child support payments.
gonna get worse when that postpartum hits.
FreddyCalhoun
All Star
Ight brehs...i didnt expect it to come to this...but here i go
My ex from a year ago started fukkin wit me again at the top of 2019 n i got her pregnant. She about 12 weeks now.
At the start i let it be known that we will co-parent...and that I am still single. She said ok.
We opened a bank acct and thus far ive deposited $200 every other week for the baby.
I also call or text her twice a week to see if she good and whatnot...I just dont want to act as if I'm her man...because I'm not. Im her baby's father.
Shes a hair designer so she has concerns about her not getting federal benefits to pay her rent after birth. I let it be known that i dont want her to move in with me . because #1...my lease wont allow more than 2 tenants...#2...if i do change my lease...she would have to live with me for a full year (for the new lease of course)..and u already know what that situation would turn into...and #3..her mother lives 10 min from her! I suggested she move in wit her mom for the first 6 months of the childs birth and she immediately said no...So i already know the game she playin...n i aint playin that shyt.
I let her know the deal and she says ok
So at 6 weeks prego while im at Wal-Mart paying my rent she hits me with this text:
"I can't believe i got pregnant by a hoe u fukking suck"
I rebuttal appropriately and we continue as such.
At about 8 weeks...when we first visit our obgyn...she says
"I know u been fukking wit other bytches and its really been affecting me"
I'm like "Yo...ive been 100 percent straightforward wit u...never have i lead u on..i care about u and our baby...and ive held up my end of my responsibilities...so whats the problem"
Everything was gucci until I say I can have the baby with me 3 days out the week after 3 months
She then says "nah...imma need at least 6 months...maybe more because after hanging wit u for this long i know u be drinking and smoking weed on the regular"
Brehs...this chick would BRING weed and liquor to my crib n get lit WIT a nikka...where all them memories go?
Im like yo wtf...u really think imma treat my son/daughter the same as any other woman id have with me???" At this moment i realized there may be foul play at hand
I play it cool and she hits me back a few days later saying she just wants us to work together for the best of the baby...im like ight.
Now to this week. 12 weeks preggo. BM hitting me saying she feels miserable. Her friends dont wanna hang wit her no more cuz she preggo...she feels lonely...all dat. I speak wit my baby cuz who is preggo with her second child and she offers to help wit the baby shower...even sends a fb link to a group specifically for new mothers.
I send it to my BM hoping it will console her...she says "y would u send me this shyt"...and says that she's facing this pregnancy on her own...
Wtf brehs...not only have i been on time with all of my $200 deposits into the bank acct. I reach out 2x a week...and try my best to get to evey doctors appt. She then calls me an arrogant a$$hole and says "i dont get it".
I then come to the conclusion that she just bitter bc i let it be known off rip that i dont want a relationship with her. After i say just that to her she says im self absorbed!
I work full-time as an overnight dispatcher...and the day after our argument...she wakes me up with a text saying "I guess u forgot about the baby's first ultrasound"...mind u she hadnt mentioned it for nearly 10 days...and instead of doing so she complains about how her pregnancy is unbearable bc she doesnt get invited by her "friends" to Tyrese and B2K reunion concerts at the prudential center..she calls me an arrogant a$$hole...I then say yo...dont talk to me anymore unless its about a doctors visit...matter fact send me ALL the scheduled appointments...and if not i will get them from your older sister...whom she linked me with.
She then rebuttals with a "fukk you"...and says she will move to ATL (where her sisters live) from Jersey (where we from) after the child is born and put me on child support and visitation. I'm flabbergasted.
Thus far her sister said she will try to get her to come to grips with reality...but wtf brehs...someone with experience give a nikka some insight.
I got the dreaded "I'm late" text from a chick I was messing with 2 months ago. She ended up not being pregnant...thank god.
I would have been going through the same exact thing. Prayers up bro.
datnigDASTARDLY
catching pigeons
nikka, she’s obviously trying to force a relationship on you.
You a fool for knocking her up, she was counting on that, smarten up bro
I don't see it as her forcing anything.
The only thing being forced is the reality that she just got knocked up by a nikka that gives no fukks about her truly.
And the platitudes given to try to ease her mind into knowing she going to be a husbandless mother has got to be some scary shyt
. Damn nikkas, its scary enough being a parent in a stable relationship /marriage already!
I ain't trying to take up for the girl but yall need a lil bit more understanding. Take it from a father of 2...that shyt'll keep you up at night
so...much....fukkery
