Detroit Man Banned From Raising Son He Conceived With 'Separated But Married' Ex-Girlfriend

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Aaron Grimes was in a relationship with Shawnita VanHook-Williams. They were in love and spent a lot of time together. The two met in 2007 and Grimes said it was love at first sight.

In their four years together, Grimes shared that they were very much in love. Grimes and VanHook-Williams were inseparable as they traveled together and even attended family functions together. The two were very public with their relationship despite the fact that VanHook-Williams was already married. While Grimes and VanHook-Williams were dating, she became pregnant. Grimes was excited to raise a child with the woman he loved. However, VanHook-Williams had a different idea about their child’s future and it did not involve Grimes.

When Aaron Grimes met Shawnita VanHook-Williams in 2007, he fell in love with her right away. Grimes and VanHook-Williams were together all the time despite the fact that she was already married to someone else.


VanHook-Williams informed Grimes that she was married but she wasn’t happily married. Shawnita VanHook-Williams allegedly never wore a wedding ring. VanHook-Williams revealed to her boyfriend that she had an arrangement with her husband. Because they couldn’t afford a divorce, Van-Hook-Williams lived with her husband but apparently she was able to see other men. Not only did Shawnita VanHook-Williams’ family know about her relationship with Grimes, her husband knew about it as well. When VanHook-Williams discovered she was pregnant four years into her relationship with Grimes, she and Grimes were both happy. They made plans for the future and Grimes believed that he would raise his son with the woman he loved.

On the day that VanHook-Williams gave birth to their son, Grimes shared that he got a call from her mother to come to the hospital. To his surprise, VanHook-Williams’ husband was already there and assuming the role of a proud father. The beautiful relationship that he once had with VanHook-Williams began to change and the dreams that Grimes had were shattered. Grimes wanted to be in his child’s life as an active dad but VanHook-Williams had another plan in mind.

Grimes was in disbelief that VanHook-Williams chose her husband to raise their son over him. Fed up, Grimes hired a lawyer so that he could be apart of his son’s life.

Aaron Grimes made the mistake of falling in love with a married woman. From their relationship, a child was born and Grimes wanted to be apart of his life. However, his married girlfriend Shawnita VanHook-Williams chose her husband to be their son’s father. As Grimes fought to be in his child’s life, he was unaware of a Michigan law that prevented him from doing so. A little known law, passed in June of 2012, called the Revocation of Paternity Act says when that when a child is born out of an affair, the mother gets to decide whether the biological dad will be part of the equation. In this case, the mother said no. She and her husband are raising the child and Grimes is left out in the cold.

As of June of 2013, the law was still on the side of VanHook-Williams. Grimes had no legal rights to his child but he was not willing to give up.
Law Prevents Man From Seeing His Child That He Had With A Married Woman

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It was a set up. I believe that the woman purposely got pregnant in order for her and her husband to have a child.

That woman is a POS! But, that is the risk that the biological father was willing to take once he found out he was dealing with a married woman. It would be real fukked up if the biological father have to pay child support despite having no parental rights.

Hope dude learned a valuable lesson. Don't deal with married women!
 

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A little known law, passed in June of 2012, called the Revocation of Paternity Act says when that when a child is born out of an affair, the mother gets to decide whether the biological dad will be part of the equation.

How do you get to decide who the father is when you decide to cheat on your husband? TF kinda stupid law is this? Does the biological father get to decide whether to not pay child support or not? That bytch is disgusting. The guy was stupid to be running around with a married woman anyway. But he didn't deserve that. :scust:
 

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which stupid lawmakers passed that law?

so with that law, can a women put her husband on child support after he divorces her when she has an affair?

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How did Michigan Law Change in 2012?
Prior to 2012, The Paternity Act of 1956 was enforced in cases of child custody and child support cases. Prior to 2012, biological fathers had virtually no rights. In an attempt to preserve the sanctity of marriage, the law stated that a married couple was presumed responsible for children, even if the woman was unfaithful to her husband, resulting in a child from a third man, the biological father. The woman’s husband, while not the biological father of the child, was held responsible for children who were not his. This outdated law resulted in numerous Michigan men being held accountable for providing child support for children who do not belong to them, simply because they are married to the mother. Additionally, biological fathers were stripped of parental rights, including contact with their children.




so the law is an improvement from before, but still needs some improvement
 
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Hes the idiot for sleeping with a married woman:yeshrug:

Also it's always been a law that when a child is born within a marriage, the husband is automatically the legal parent .
 
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