Did she play me

[Cat piss martini]

bob is the captain now.
he's already soaked in yo ole lady.
these new nikkas got bytches
making them have play dates.

 

[RickyGQ]

It sounded like she was making fun of dude, not you.

 

[Oldschooler]

It sounded like she was making fun of dude, not you.

This, breh you sound insecure as fukk. If she called him Dad it means she picked up on his passive aggressiveness by making a rash decision. To me that's a diss to him not really a compliment. You totally misread the situation. I suggest you dont bring it up because it'll make things go bad for no reason. Did you get the drawers yet? If you hit you won.

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

It sounded like she was making fun of dude, not you.

that's honestly how I took it. Like shorty was being sarcastic to ole boy.

 

[J.E.T.S]

I would’ve told my bytch we bout to go do something else on our own.

Glad my girl pick up on clues. All I give is a look and she be like “nah this nikka ain’t with it.”

We’re both quick to make up some excuse to get out of a group setting and KNOW when it’s time to play along on it without saying anything.

No dude bout to make decisions for any group I’m apart of without consulting with everyone involved.

Like dude, “fukk you.” 🫤

 

[Roid Jones]

Shouldn't be that deep
If he try to do some shyt again just check him

You think you can beat his ass?

Please, the precedent has been set

 

[The Realist Perspective]

You wasting your time thinking you gone get the ass bro dont even give her the satisfaction by having her think you think that. She's a breezy let her pass.

I’ve already had the ass. And literally just out of it bout 10 minutes ago.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Better nip that shyt in the bud

She knows she got away with disrespecting you. Give someone an inch they’ll take a mile

 

[Bushmaster69]

this is a troll post for sure

 

[DreadBrown]

I’ve already had the ass. And literally just out of it bout 10 minutes ago.

We can’t let you slide that easy bro

 

[DatBoiHawk]

OP your only option was to bust his motherfukkin head when he boss hogged on you. That’s like a nikka taking your snacks in jail you gonna let that ride now all your snacks are getting took and in this case ole boy is taking your girls cakes (if you know what I mean)

 

[TheGooniestGoon]

I bet if it weren’t any women there you would’ve brushed it off as dude just being an impatient dikk head and not stress about it. But because a woman is there you're expected to become this hyper aggressive guy at any sign of passive aggressiveness/slight disrespect or your looked at as weak and your woman doesn’t respect you anymore.

The best thing for you to do imo is brush the shyt off and move on. I’d stop associating with dude if he’s that type that try to flex on you when bytches is around. You don’t need to be around corny nikkas like that.

And If that bytch doesn’t respect you because you didn’t get aggressive toward him then cut her off. You don’t need bytches like that in your life. That’s the type that’ll end up leading you to prison

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I want to have a gauge if I’m suffering from toxic masculinity. Mind lending me your thoughts on the matter?

Quick facts:

Double date.

The girl that is my date we’ve been dating for about 2 months, close to the official bf gf stage.

The other date is her friend, and her new guy she’s dating. Let’s call him Bob.

Bob is your typical hyper masculine dude, like he has something to prove.

Fast forward in the double date, a decision needed to be made for the group. I was tasked to make it, Bob bumps in and pretty much says he doesn’t have time for this and makes the decision.

What the fukk ever. I don’t let it bother me. But what bothered me, was the girl I’m with said “let Dad handle it” after he made the decision for us.

Now should I take issue with this? Or is it my toxic masculinity seeping through?

I thought for her to make such a comment was total bullshyt. But I want to see what you all think before I bring this shyt up.

So should I bring it up, or just forget about it and keep it moving?

Bro first of all, stop using the term "toxic masculinity". It makes you sound like a pussified punk.

With that being said, if for no other reason than to not be made to look crazy in front of the ladies, I would have pushed back on ole boy a little bit. Even if you were to go ahead and go with his decision, you should have given him a hard time just to save face.

I feel where you were coming from. It didn't matter to you. But don't let a dude play you in front of the ladies.

Your girl didn't play you. Ole boy did in my opinion.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

This muhfukka had his bytch call another nikka dad

Then come online and ask other men like we have daddy


You fasho ain’t that dude

He's just not that guy

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Your first mistake was entertaining the thought of a damn double date


Especially since it was “your girl” suggesting it & not you for a homie.

Second mistake was going through with that bullshyt

I had zero idea until we pulled up