Did y’all ever get over your first love?

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I'm not the type to fall in love like that. It takes time for me to fall in love with someone. I don't believe in soulmates, you fall in love over time (growing, building, and supporting each other emotionally) and with their qualities. So, if it doesn't work out with one, you can grow to love another if they're loving you too.
However, I think what some people mistakenly describe as love is just lust that turns into simping. Control your urges, brehs.
 
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This may sound pathetic, so please don't judge, but I still have feelings for this guy I went to elementary school with.

Mind you, I probably wasn't in love because who knows what being in love is at that age, but I had very strong puppy love feelings that are still sort of with me today.

He's still so handsome and he's still the same little boy that I love so much even though we're adults now. I want the best for him and I hope he finds and marries someone just as special as he is.
 
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MaliktheRapper said:
I know that’s what it is. In her current form, she’s a lot more jaded and cold than I remember. I’m idealizing a girl that doesn’t even exist anymore.
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Bingo

Meet them again years later. Due to experiences, they will be a very different person. Good way for someone to finally get closure, since your memory of them is from a completely different time in life.
 
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fukk....how can I...she invades every aspect of my life.
Dreams...phone...emails...social media...

Recent pic for reference
I'll never forget them huge t*ts and huge hips....
:ohlawd:

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She was my first love, first turn-out, first everything....but I definitely wasn't her first love.
And yet, for some odd reason...she says i'm her one true love...the only one that ever really loved her.
:stopitslime:
Yet, it didn't keep her from marrying the raghead her family arranged for her to marry...only to get abused and made a house-slave for 10 years before she filed for divorce and fled to the other side of the country, fearing an allah-akbar style honor-killing from her famliy and the dudes family.
She could have had the world with me...instead she chose to be a dumbass and follow her family.
And when her parents are gone and dead...she will have nothing...and no one but her son.

Oh well...she made her choices...she lives with her consequences.
Last time she emailed me a few months back, she complained that "life is so hard and people are so horrible..."
I basically told her "too bad...so sad. My life is fukking awesome!! Too bad you chose a loser and failed at life!"
:ufdup:
I can't fake sympathy with this female a day longer...not after all the hurt and pain she's caused me.
This chick always starts contacting me when she gets dumped by whoever is fukking her, thinking it's still the old days where i'll dump anyone I'm with to coddle her and tell her everything's gonna be okay. You can almost set your watch to her whoredom...2-3 months...every time.
Nope, grew up and blew up...ain't got time for the bullshyt.
:francis:

Honestly, I hope that she just fades into the ether now...She has nothing to offer and I don't want anything from her.
Lets just avoid each other without publicly appearing to do so...
:camby:
 
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Una Mas said:
Social Media has put a lot of folks in perspective. Amazing looking at some girl you thought the world of 10 years ago, and see her now on FB and thank God it didn't work out. :scust:
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Two of my exes blew up to beluga whales. Dodged major bullets there because both of them hoes were trying to have my kid. A third one is still fine but I have no feelings for her at all. The pawg I dated is still cute. My first love is still a dime. Sometimes she comes off mad bitter though but I know I was one of the many nikkas that contributed to that :skip:
 
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Behind-the-wheel said:
fukk....how can I...she invades every aspect of my life.
Dreams...phone...emails...social media...

She was my first love, but I definitely wasn't her first love...
And yet, for some odd reason...she says i'm her one true love...the only one that ever really loved her.
:stopitslime:
Yet, it didn't keep her from marrying the raghead her family arranged for her to marry...only to get abused and made a house-slave for 10 years before she filed for divorce and fled to the other side of the country, fearing an allah-akbar style honor-killing from her famliy and the dudes family.
She could have had the world with me...instead she chose to be a dumbass and follow her family.
And when her parents are gone and dead...she will have nothing...and no one but her son.

Oh well...she made her choices...she lives with her consequences.
Last time she emailed me a few months back, she complained that "life is so hard and people are so horrible..."
I basically told her "too bad...so sad. My life is fukking awesome!! Too bad you chose a loser and failed at life!"
:ufdup:
I can't fake sympathy with this female a day longer...not after all the hurt and pain she's caused me.
This chick always starts contacting me when she gets dumped by whoever is fukking her, thinking it's still the old days where i'll dump anyone I'm with to coddle her and tell her everything's gonna be okay. You can almost set your watch to her whoredom...2-3 months...every time.
Nope, grew up and blew up...ain't got time for the bullshyt.
:francis:

Honestly, I hope that she just fades into the ether now...She has nothing to offer and I don't want anything from her.
Lets just avoid each other without publicly appearing to do so...
:camby:
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:whew:
 
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