Did You Lose Your Social Life...?

[MillionMills]

..when you got started in your career?

It's damn near impossible to get nikkaz together to do anything anymore because everybody is off doing their own thing

 

[Cynic]

..when you got started in your business?

It's damn near impossible to get nikkaz together to do anything anymore because everybody is off doing their own thing

Yes....


It was worth it.

 

[MillionMills]

Yes....


It was worth it.

How is it worth it..just curious

 

[Cynic]

How is it worth it..just curious

Aside from the material benefits....I became smarter, more disciplined and have found my true calling.

There was a dark/suicidal period but it taught me money can't solve everything and some
people (family members) value it more than anything .

 

[ViShawn]

I simply try to get in touch in people and maintain contact. I also realize if I don't always get a response then I can't take it personally because we are on our individual paths.

 

[Mr210]

..when you got started in your career?

It's damn near impossible to get nikkaz together to do anything anymore because everybody is off doing their own thing

Yes it is especially when people start having kids or getting married or going to grad school

Post college you have less free time which means you are more particular in what you spend your free time doing

 

[无名的]

Career started the end.... kids finished it.

 

[Serious]

Career started the end.... kids finished it.

What if you're single

 

[MillionMills]

I want my social life back

 

[Serious]

I want my social life back

grow up

 

[Matt504]

fukk a social life, I would trade in all the "good times" for more experience in my field.

There no good reason any Black person should be wasting time hanging out when there's so much work to be done.

 

[Serious]

fukk a social life, I would trade in all the "good times" for more experience in my field.

There no good reason any Black person should be wasting time hanging out when there's so much work to be done.

Exactly, you see all the threads in tlr, we got to do better....

 

[4-Rin]

It means you're getting
If you think it's tough rounding up the squad now just wait until kids get involved

 

[Matt504]

Exactly, you see all the threads in tlr, we got to do better....

we definitely do. I refuse to put myself in a position where all I have is memories of "good times". Too many of us are doing a great disservice to our children by wasting time instead of building.

 

[无名的]

What if you're single

I had a social life when I started my career and was single



It obviously depends on the situation though. At one point, I had moved to a new city by myself and it's not easy making friends.