Discretion is a Super Power

[KBtheKey]

Especially then messy mfers who ask you about someone, then run they a$$ to that person talking about what you said about them.. Pure high school shyt..

Love these people. I usually don't care if they hear about if i said it, and how i carry myself i doubt the person would be surprised to hear that i thought that of them. Way too many people never mature beyond the nonsense

 

[Sbp]

It’s funny ya’ll bumped this thread. I was just talking to @Nicole0416_646NYC about this type of stuff the other day.

It’s crazy because you ain’t even gotta be doing shyt to NOBODY to make an enemy from pure jealousy.

Ya’ll ever had to hide ideas from your inner circle b/c of their negativity and nonsense? Like damn.

Yes

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I'm at the age now where I don't really need any new friends so co-workers usually stay just that [co-workers], so I really don't talk about anything personal. I'm all for chopping it up about work stuff, movies, music, etc, but I keep it surface. Weird thing is, this has backfired so many times on me: Once, a co-worker said she couldn't trust me because "the quiet types are the most sneaky". I literally go to work to make money and go home; I couldn't care less about anything else at a job.

EDIT: I usually work office jobs so it's 95% women. There are barely any other brehs, just for clarification.

I fukkin HATE when people say that shyt.

No, I’m quiet bc 1)either I don’t like you 2) I’m thinking to myself or 3) I don’t feel like talking - none of which involve being sneaky

I just want to do my work and be left alone, or I need my time to warm up -whether it’s business or a social setting. I don’t like people within a 5 mile radius of my comfort zone. Like How is that so hard to decipher??


I REALLY hate the “you should smile more” or “you’ve built a wall around yourself” - how tf are they giving me an analysis of ME??

I swear - people get so uncomfortable when you don’t do small talk or start verbally “pontificating”

Never been one to just talk to have something to say but most people take personal offense to that. I like watching and waiting for The feeling of awkwardness that they have when you don’t engage with them as they expect you to -

my conversational courtesy quota has it’s limits, I won’t hide any further attempts to stop the boredom and/or disdain on my face when that has been reached. Read the signs or Dont- that’s on them

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

It’s funny ya’ll bumped this thread. I was just talking to @Nicole0416_646NYC about this type of stuff the other day.

It’s crazy because you ain’t even gotta be doing shyt to NOBODY to make an enemy from pure jealousy.

Ya’ll ever had to hide ideas from your inner circle b/c of their negativity and nonsense? Like damn.

Idk how I missed this thread on the first run but I’m reading through now like

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I used to have this silly ass assumption that adults would have grown out of that nonsense.

and yet

And yet! Some of em be worse than the damn kids!!!!!

And another thing. Family can be the WORST!!!!!

Adults are worse than children.

Children act out of innocence, they are not corrupted by life but adults act out of malice.

Malice based off contempt, jealousy and envy. Family can either be your biggest detractors or distractions at times. Never tell anyone your plans until you made it happen. Also interesting how your best advice at times can come from people who you don’t know and have no investment in you.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

On your job. It’s a superpower

There are professors being passed up for tenure because once they invited the department to their cribs and the others saw how they were living, they tried to make that professor’s life a living hell.

N O P E.

I can keke all day long on the job. But you don’t need to know sheeiiiitttt.

This is one of the reasons why I NEVER park in the parking lot of my building at work and no one knows where I live bc I don’t invite them. EVER. Fuk that. Aint no soirées or after work drinks taking place in my domicile.

Rather pay the extra $$ in the building parking lot across the street from the job than park at my job. Gawd forbid one of your coworkers who subtly despise, thinks you actually have nicer ownership of items than they do. Made the mistake one time of parking downstairs and one of my coworkers spotted me - spent a whole elevator ride asking questions and making passive comments about my car. Then ends with the ole “that’s a nice car, I was thinking about buying one of those but it’s expensive to keep up with the maintenance on that vehicle “

 

[Coolin']

I fukkin HATE when people say that shyt.

No, I’m quiet bc 1)either I don’t like you 2) I’m thinking to myself or 3) I don’t feel like talking - none of which involve being sneaky

I just want to do my work and be left alone, or I need my time to warm up -whether it’s business or a social setting. I don’t like people within a 5 mile radius of my comfort zone. Like How is that so hard to decipher??


I REALLY hate the “you should smile more” or “you’ve built a wall around yourself” - how tf are they giving me an analysis of ME??

I swear - people get so uncomfortable when you don’t do small talk or start verbally “pontificating”

Never been one to just talk to have something to say but most people take personal offense to that. I like watching and waiting for The feeling of awkwardness that they have when you don’t engage with them as they expect you to -

my conversational courtesy quota has it’s limits, I won’t hide any further attempts to stop the boredom and/or disdain on my face when that has been reached. Read the signs or Dont- that’s on them

Thing is, I’m not really a quiet person I just know who I will vibe with and who I won’t. That may sound weird to say but I’m just extremely observant, almost to a fault, so I already know how people are. I thank my family for me being like this.

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[BuckFilly]

Do your 8 and skate

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

It's called intuition. Never lose it.

 

[T.H.E. Goat]

No lies told

 

[$cam-U-Well_Jack$on]

Wholeheartedly agree.

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

This is quite interesting in my opinion!

 

[Guile]

You still dating Sasuke?

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

You still dating Sasuke?

You still fukking white women in your white town?

Yes.
I wish black chicks were as aggressive as some of these white chicks are.

Damn she fine for being 38 and white.

I live in a white town and am surrounded by a sea of below average to average white chicks even with a hbcu in town.

You still choosing to assimilate in white circles even though you had an hbcu in your town?

I went to a white college so this was already known to me.

I've been to all white highschools and Colleges, avoiding conflict with cacs was unavoidable.

considering all the above and you still had the nerve to ask this question-

why are some black women so comfortable around random white men?

coming from an alleged black man who grew up around whites, goes pawg hunting even though he has access to hbcu black female students, selectively attended a PWI and not the hbcu in his town. I know you had to have a white college roommate. why are YOU so comfortable? Is this really the question considering your own past? Are you still not checking Bradley who calls you the n- Word?

Not checking white people for using the N-word around me trying to test me.

you still letting white people say the n-word to ya face?
But you’re trying to check a black woman online??You still continuing with this line of questioning?

 

[Guile]

You still fukking white women in your white town?



You still choosing to assimilate in white circles even though you had an hbcu in your town?


considering all the above and you still had the nerve to ask this question-

coming from an alleged black man who grew up around whites, goes pawg hunting even though he has access to hbcu black female students, selectively attended a PWI and not the hbcu in his town. I know you had to have a white college roommate. why are YOU so comfortable? Is this really the question considering your own past? You still continuing with this line of questioning?

You had time today. Most of those post are me complaining about white women (and black women a tiny bit). What are trying to say?

And alleged black man? That's me in my avatar.

I'm just making fun of the fact @Booksnrain deleted her post on here about Sasuke.