Discretion is a Super Power

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On your job. It’s a superpower

There are professors being passed up for tenure because once they invited the department to their cribs and the others saw how they were living, they tried to make that professor’s life a living hell.

N O P E.

I can keke all day long on the job. But you don’t need to know sheeiiiitttt.



Ugh... fukk.


Don't judge a person's character by the way they live/domicile conditions, but rather, how they convey their message/spirit to the world.


That's some shallow shiit.
 

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you don't have a malicious heart based on how you are describing yourself
we are all capable of doing foul shyt even if we are decent people but there are people who only see other people as some assets or some level of the playing field as if they are stuck in school games
the amount of times I've seen people fake a persona only to get information out of you after they have gained your trust is disgusting
I've had people tell me very personal things because they trusted me enough with the information without me asking
I feel there is a bond formed when that happens if someone feels comfortable enough to tell you something personal that means they value you in some way
unfortunately there are a lot of wolves that take advantage of basic human interactions
I rememer back in college there was a group of friends who I thought were on that friends for life ish only to find out they absolutely hated one girl and she had no idea. Too cowardly to say anything to her face while calling her a lifelong friend and going out of their way to make her feel like one the duplicity had me dumbfounded
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it's sad but it is an outcome I see over and over again
Yeah I don’t respect malicious a$$holes. They think they are better than others because they stay in plot mode. Like some wannabe Skelator
villian cackling in their rooms late at night. Aint nobody impressed by that dumb shyt.

:mjlol:Then they be the most hurt when they dumb shyt backfires on them or they get outmatched.

One thing I couldn’t STAND was somebody who told stories and carried gossip back and forth.

“Well she said you were blah blah blah”.
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They used to be so irritated at me. I was not afraid to get absurd.

I’d be in the hallways singing songs about it.
“Come and talk to me! I really wanna meet you! Can I talk to you?!”

“Don’t ask my neighbor COME TO ME! Don’t be afrrrraaaiiid of what you see!”
:russ::russ::russ:
They already knew to just leave my crazy ass alone.
Most of the shyt is completely unnecessary.
 

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Yes! I had to realize living a drama free life is something a lot of people have never had and will never experience. They need to be in the mix either stirring the pot or in the pot boiling.

I had a coworker who always had drama orbiting around her because she never used discretion but hated when her business was in the streets. Like bish are you slow. She was cool but I kept her at a distance. I love that I've chosen my friends wisely because those kind of people are exhausting.
Ma’am. All of this but especially the bolded.

People think romantic relationships are the only ties that matter but everybody in your circle needs to be solid. One of the best parts about adulthood is having solid friends and being able to distance from those who ain’t got it.
 
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Cardinal sin # 1.

Telling someone what you think or feel at work.

Tactic: "How do you feel about this Em?"

Me: " I don't know. How do you feel?"

Always have something that you have to work on that you forgot - stay moving and seen via written and verbal communication about work or business only.
If you don't have any. FIND something.
 

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Cardinal sin # 1.

Telling someone what you think or feel at work.

Tactic: "How do you feel about this Em?"

Me: " I don't know. How do you feel?"

Always have something that you have to work on that you forgot - stay moving and seen via written and verbal communication about work or business only.
If you don't have any. FIND something.
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“Yo really? That’s craaazzy! Aw hell they keep emailing me about this list. Lemme get it to them before we leave.”
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Ma’am. All of this but especially the bolded.

People think romantic relationships are the only ties that matter but everybody in your circle needs to be solid. One of the best parts about adulthood is having solid friends and being able to distance from those who ain’t got it.


Yup, my circle is small for a reason. Quality > quantity. Anyone I call a friend has been vetted and is thorough. I don't fukk around.
 

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Also stop sharing people’s nudes.:francis:

Fellas, I know you’re excited to tell your boys about how fat her ass is. Ladies I know you wanna share how pristine his dikk pic game is.


But curb your enthusiasm.

You broadcasting your dinner to a pack of hyenas for bragging rights!

Stop it!

I’ve seen people make moves on their friends’ partners based off them bragging to their friends.

Yo homeboy doesn’t need to know that the lil square chick you messing with allows you to fukk her throat.

Yo girlfriend doesn’t need to know that his stroke game is impeccable and he sucks toes and eats it from the back.

Stop broadcasting shyt to horny, jealous, frienemies.:ufdup:
 

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Ugh... fukk.


Don't judge a person's character by the way they live/domicile conditions, but rather, how they convey their message/spirit to the world.


That's some shallow shiit.
It is. And I was just as disappointed in humanity as you are when I learned this was actually a thing. Some blk professors drive beat up cars to work. :skip:
 
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