Divorce statistics. GMB

[Mr. Glass]

Marriage is a buisness at the end of the day. Never marry a female who has less money than you and more problems than you because she is looking to be saved. This is why you have chicks with useless degrees making 35k a year with 125k in student loans debt desperate to get married. Because they need someone to save them. Stay away from these liberal arts broads who Majored in art and working as a waiter.

I’m all for marriage and want to get married but you im going to protect my money at all costs. Getting a prenup is needed just Incase. In America marriage is in shambles because people view marriage not a business or rush into it. For me if you plan to get married you have have been with each other for about 3 years+. Don’t rush into marriage after a year of dating. At the end of the day I plan to get married one day because I believe in strong black families but I won’t be naive about the pitfalls of marriage.

The bolded is the realist shyt ever said.

 

[FLATOP]

Goddamn that is some sad shyt

I got 1 more year to meet wifey in college

This is the hub for smart, educated, ambitious black women -- after this I give up on marriage

 

[Rocket Scientist]

You can meet a woman anywhere doesn't have to be college,I met my ex at college so these stats arent 100% true .If you want to meet a wifey go to wifey type places art galleries,museums etc.Problem is nikkas going to bars,meeting chicks off pof-Tinder . Yall expecting these ran thru thots to be wifey.Just like real estate location location location

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

I don't mind getting married. As a guy that's a go getter, I don't deal with women who only bring p*ssy and looks to the table . That's all fine and dandy but I can't do that long term. Dumb pretty women aren't the wave. A lot of women are specifically looking for men whose resources they can use in their late 20's or ealry 30's. Cute is no longer enough cause bills aint going nowhere....

LADIES: Secure The Bag! - How To Stop Being a 50/50 'Pick Me' Chick (TRADE UP!) keep falling for this love bullshyt while these women are out there trying to secure the bag. Oh, you think she love your ugly ass lol.

 

[Astroslik]

We both agreed til death due us part, let's see.

Good luck breh

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

.I can say for myself a relationship brings the worst at of me. I say this cause when I’m by myself the things that get accomplished is just amazing.i could say much more but I’m good for now

Rep back. Same here! I was trying to think of how to word it but those are my exact feelings about that. I'm much more focused, accomplished and more positive when I'm on my own. Don't know what it is but relationships are like an energy drain, I feel more depleted and scattered ..I can't deal . Like u said...some of my worst and lowest moments have been in a relationship. I can't visualize the concept of marriage , not for me.

 

[dark_magic]

Real shyt...Im struggling to think of a worse possible contract to be signed

A Military Enlistment Contract can be just as bad.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Possibly, I think similar but from a completely different angle. Everything back then was faster. Puberty, job, marriage, kids. In fact I would say that has more to do with it than anything. People just have more freedom today. Freedom from old societal norms and persecutions. Way more people to cheat with. Longer time to do all these things in life. I wouldn't say we're the "generation of instant gratification" that's a simple biological base. All animals have it. We're just the ones that are in a time place where we can act on it on average more than before. And I don't believe it has anything to do with "knowing" whoever you're building with. Its simple ego. People choose their own happiness over everyone else's because again they have that freedom. it is what it is.

This

 

[Youseenmywork]

Rep back. Same here! I was trying to think of how to word it but those are my exact feelings about that. I'm much more focused, accomplished and more positive when I'm on my own. Don't know what it is but relationships are like an energy drain, I feel more depleted and scattered ..I can't deal . Like u said...some of my worst and lowest moments have been in a relationship. I can't visualize the concept of marriage , not for me.

Funny thing is people say you can’t be pro black family cause you may not get married...man if people don’t stop with this shamming language ol one size fits all havin ass nikka on here . Its a lot more people who wanna get married and a lot more that is going get a divorce. What you think about open relationships?

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

Some dudes in here are 40+ not married but running with #GMB

Not saiyan its over but if you were on the hamster upset over those servers you prob never were gonna get married anyway

 

[killacal]

A Military Enlistment Contract can be just as bad.

They pay

 

[Swirv]

"Been through so much with my partner" usually translates to "we had an abortion."

Actually it was bad family shyt, my infidelity and a miscarriage

 

[Listen]

You fukked up by thinking your wife needs to "let" you do anything.

She controls you to the point you her need permission to watch TV alone.

Pathetic.

Or I have been married 12 years because I’ve made her think she let’s me.

Levels to this grown up shyt.

 

[Listen]

See how marriage has breh thinking that being allowed one hour of late night TV in the house that he paid for is some type of achievement

Bet she allows you to have your own little 6sq ft man cave in the basement too, right?

What a great wife, what a great man. Stay married brehs

Again, you young men don’t understand the game. Try finding a quality woman worth a damn and “telling her” what your gonna do and “make her” do shyt she don’t want.

When you got a good woman and she don’t care that your not with her and doing your own shyt, and she’s not complaining, you won.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Some dudes in here are 40+ not married but running with #GMB

And there's a lot of regretful 40+ who are divorced talking about they wish they hadn't or they married the wrong one.