Divorce statistics. GMB

[UberEatsDriver]

Congratulations I hope it works out for you ! Respect each other ...I'm very anti marriage but if you have that love connection and financially stable, careers. Nothing wrong with trying.

Why did I think you were married this whole time? Or perhaps some posters on this thread were spreading lies smh!

 

[UberEatsDriver]

I actually don’t mind if god makes me get married by the time I’m 50. I will be patient enough to not rush and have to deal with the divorce disasters.

If I don’t have kids then it wasn’t meant to be cause I refuse to have baby mama drama.

 

[Slystallion]

So wifing a non religious liberal feminist whore you met at a bar who's been fukking men since grammar school and being broke and non successful yourself increases your chance of divorce

No shyt

 

[MikeOck]

Just got married last month, wife is 25 and I'm 34. Hope we make it. We have been through so much shyt in 3 years it ain't funny. Alot of people are rooting for us to fail. We both agreed til death due us part, let's see.

"Been through so much with my partner" usually translates to "we had an abortion."

 

[Youseenmywork]

I’m not going get too deep but a case can be made that black men were the first MGTOWs

 

[MikeOck]

nah its social vs non social jobs if you notice.. the high divorce rate jobs are almost all jobs where people meet a decent amount of people on the daily. More exposure = higher chance of cheating or finding someone different. If you a scientist building satalites 8 hours a day you aint got time to cheat or find someone but if you bartending youll meet 500 people tonight

a bartender can meet hundreds of people a night, some ugly, some attractive to them.. plus alcohol involved so people generally more social under these conditions, as with the gaming cage/service people. Basically 3 jobs where you are around alcohol all day and night and with people out having a good time.

Under these conditions people meet what they feel are upgrades to what they have at home.. rather its the vip girl who meets a NFL player or the bartender who meets a more attractive person than what they have at home

True, true. Now that I think about it, the most knowledgeable people I know in terms of relationships always have some type of social job in their resume. They also do a lot of people watching on those jobs and figure out what the real deal is in relationships that way

 

[ZoeGod]

Marriage is a buisness at the end of the day. Never marry a female who has less money than you and more problems than you because she is looking to be saved. This is why you have chicks with useless degrees making 35k a year with 125k in student loans debt desperate to get married. Because they need someone to save them. Stay away from these liberal arts broads who Majored in art and working as a waiter.

I’m all for marriage and want to get married but you im going to protect my money at all costs. Getting a prenup is needed just Incase. In America marriage is in shambles because people view marriage not a business or rush into it. For me if you plan to get married you have have been with each other for about 3 years+. Don’t rush into marriage after a year of dating. At the end of the day I plan to get married one day because I believe in strong black families but I won’t be naive about the pitfalls of marriage.

 

[MikeOck]

The problem is the best wives are not what young people like. They aren't partying all the time, they aren't "exciting", and they aren't instathots.

I am entering the 40s and a lot of my friends who have been running through chicks since college are now asking me how they can find someone to settle down with. GMB is fun in your 20s and 30s when there is a lot on offer from the opposite sex but once the pickings get slim and you tire of all the games your thots pull, post here in a few years.

But if you're happy, do you

But isn't this one of the major problems with marriage though? Your dikk/p*ssy wants you to fukk with models/studs, but your head wants you to fukk with squares. You can't tell me that with age men stop appreciating a nice big tight booty, or that women stop appreciating athletic men with a macho vibe.

So what ends up happening is that people get domesticated into squares for the sake of marriage, but end up frustrated long term that they don't have the model/stud.

The most logical line of thought I can come up with to support marriage is that it is essentially a sacrifice of an awesome life for yourself, to provide an awesome life for your kids. Maybe the best thing is to wait till you're physically washed up then take on the square married life.
So 40+ year old men should marry 30+year old women with the express intention of having kids

 

[Youseenmywork]

I’m not going get too deep but a case can be made that black men were the first MGTOWs

 

[Sly Cooper]

Divorce has become a social norm.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Y’all should find the statistics that show that increase in open relationships and polygamy relationships for the last 3/4 years

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

People would be better off treating marriage like a business transaction.

Dudes get married to the first girl that has their nose wide open and don’t critically evaluate the variables in and out of their control.

What is her socioeconomic background? A clear understanding of her assets and liabilities
Who is her social circle and how can that benefit me?
What is her family situation?
What are her politics?

In the event of a failed marriage, what will be split of assets and recurring payments?
What jurisdiction is favorable to me in the event of a divorce? (Prenups get thrown everyday, b)

You have to fully diligence what you’re buying because there is no other situation besides marriage where you would even think to sign a legal contract with such shyt terms in the event of failure.

 

[Listen]

12 years happily married brehs.

My wife is a fantastic mother and overall care taker of our family. She loves the fukk out of me and puts up with all my bullshyt. Even let’s me watch TV alone at night so I don’t need to watch her reality nonsense.

#SMB gang here.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Why did I think you were married this whole time? Or perhaps some posters on this thread were spreading lies smh!

Again?? some one always saying rumors and gossip like they think they know me.

Nah...marriage is not for me. I've seen too many dysfunctional relationships and issues with married people, I'm not trying to go that route. That romance stage is over real quick so you have to be prepared with the realistic side. My parents got divorced. Their second marriages didn't work. Brother got married in his early thirties and divorced 5 yrs later. I'm doing ok with income so I think the same reasons that men have with a certain higher income have with protecting their financial security is what I see too. Also, I have enough responsibility, I can't see being responsible for another person's emotions, dealing with them on the daily, living with them. Too focused on other more productive things. I'm used to having my own space and I need that space . I value friendships,too many selfish people out here that get involved with each other for the wrong reasons. But if you find someone you can build with and y'all value each other for the right reasons, then whatever works for you.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Marriage is not that hard.Problem is brothas are wifing up these fast ass IG thots who bring nothing to the table but ass and looks.Marriage is more then that for real for real.Im 34 I don't see the need for marriage until maybe in my 40's if it happen it happen the game get boring sometimes and these chicks become a headache sure thry dodo b when you single you have choices.Once you say "I do" it's a wrap