What the
Didn’t think you’d be that honest.
You must’ve abducted @BlackPearl The Empress ....
Good on you fam![]()
I'm full of surprises.

If you be nice to me I will be nice to you.

What the
Didn’t think you’d be that honest.
You must’ve abducted @BlackPearl The Empress ....
Good on you fam![]()
No promises but you’re a cool chick so I’m gon restrain myself from going inI'm full of surprises.
If you be nice to me I will be nice to you.![]()
Thread is full of smart dumb incel logic. Child support is actually the ultimate opt out- child support does not imply or carry with it any child rearing responsibilities beyond the financial obligation. One can pay child support for 18 years and then sever any remaining ties to the child. The mother, however, unless she gives the child up for adoption, is linked for LIFE with that child.
Nice goal post shift. So now your argument is that grandparents are primarily raising these kids. Now i wonder why the grandparents are stepping in, it can't possibly be because loser males inpregnating women, then opting out of child rearing responsibilities via child support, could it ?Unless she’s like the dozens of women I personally know that just give the child to the grandparents and skate with zero financial or emotional responsibility. For LIFE.
Y’all refuse to see grey area or nuance in these conversations. Which leads me to question whether you are bringing real life experiences and observations to the table. Or just arguing based on cliches.
“Ain’t no love like a mother’s love” reads great as a greeting card slogan. But the epidemic of grandparents raising their grandchildren doesn’t just exist because men alone aren’t taking responsibility for their children.
Breh I have to know what they’re reacting to...
This is why I can't take a lot of men seriously. Men bytching about female accountability is a joke to me. They got too much shyt to clean up in their own houses. Men literally pressure chicks to have sex, lie to them to have sex, rape them to have sex.
And not just any sex...but raw sex.
THEN when lo and behold, a baby is born b/c ya know basic biology says that's what happens, they wanna get on a high horse and judge women and whine about financial responsibility.
Meanwhile children equal life or death choices in childbirth and for most women lifetime commitments PRIMARILY for women. Like most of your moms. Do ya'll even know how LOW the average child support payment is?
Women get more of a choice b/c their lives are more at risk.
But if you REALLY care so much (insert the violins here)...If men wanna talk about accountability start with yourselves. Start being celibate until marriage. Start keeping your dikks in your pants. You wanna be a leader right? You want women to submit and all that shyt right? You got superior self -control and rationality and all that shyt, right?
Cool. Bet. Let's call your bluff.
No more "just da tip". No more "baby I love you." No more side chick culture. Nope. Even if she throwing it in your face, pass right on by. Show women how it's done accountability warriors! Eliminate all the strip clubs. IG hoes shouldn't have millions of followers. No porn!
Don't say shyt about women until you do better. Because that's part of the problem now. Men rely on female accountability while excusing male irresponsibility. As a society we wanna throw a damn blanket on the woman, instead of addressing the male to control himself. We wanna blame the women, instead of telling the men that you ain't gotta fukk everything raw.
Well let's try something different. Since men care so much about children being killed, let's eliminate abortion and make marriage MANDATORY for men if they get a chick pregnant. Oh yeah we can solve single parent homes in one fell swoop. We used to do it. It was called shotgun weddings.
Oh men are oh so shocked and appalled by OOW babies. GREAT! Then I know you are jumping to help the cause by abstaining from sex until you are married men! If we are cool with government regulation don't just stop there. Mandatory sterilization of whichever gender is the primary sexual aggressors until they are in a committed relationship. Force birth control and hormones down these horny motherfukkers throats until they ready to stop wasting chicks time and can control they dikks. Think about it men controlling themselves is the ultimate rational solution! Ya'll like "logic" so much right? Occam's Razor and shyt, right? Well one dude's dikk can make MULTIPLE illegitimate kids, so controlling for that variable is the most efficient way to deal with unwanted pregnancy. Instead of expending so much time going after multiple women, we can place our efforts on the men. Ya'll love the 80/20 rule, right?
Men can change this shyt overnight if they were REALLY about "accountability". But you aren't.
You want male right to be as sexually promiscuous and irresponsible as possible while hypocritically placing accountability on women. And that's one of the reasons why the entire world has been fukked up for CENTURIES. Why women are saying fukk it to their biological imperative to have children. Why chicks saying fukk it to relationships and turning to hoe scumbags. Why women outchea marrying they damn selves and divorcing dudes when they damn near about to croak.
Go ahead and lead men! Lead by example my virtuous brothas! Be the change you wanna see in the world.
Let's see how far we get.
Otherwise STFU about female accountability and pretending like ya'll give a damn about the kids.
This world I tell ya. And btw I'm actually not even a fan of abortion.![]()
It's not about gov involvement. It's about men trying to avoid even minimal responsibility like child support, while heaping the burden on women even as men primarily the main ones pushing for sex in most cases.This meme was right tho books.
Folks want gov involved when it convienant for them
Girl watch the juelzing that comes out. Oh but I'm all about it.@Booksnrain
DL Hughley has no place to talk. A lot of these black male entertainers are a mess; baby mama drama, side kids/break babies galore but always going on about hoes and women going after them for child support. I’d no sooner take advice from about relationships from a perpetually single woman than I would a sexually irresponsible men with a rap sheet as long as a monk scroll.
Maybe governentally sanctioned vasectomy should be in order for these repeat offenders.
the whole thing is weird because the women who want to have an abortion aren't trying to get child support..... otherwise they would have the kid..
shyt doesn't even correlate
But the government isn’t forcing men to give birth to the child. It makes men financially support the child they’re the father of?He's saying women have the right to "opt" out of being a mother (through abortion) but men don't have the same right to "opt" out of being a father.
She decides to keep a child and use the gov't to compel you to financially support the baby.
Where are men's "abortion" rights? If a women tells you she's pregnant, you should have the right to "abort" your parental responsibilities in the same way a woman decides to decline being a mother.![]()
The difference is that the woman “evading responsibility” is ensuring that there is no cost to anyone.For idiots in thread.
Outside of rape, a woman is evading responsibility like men who don’t want responsibility of a child.