Do men really ask women what they bring to a table?

Wildhundreds

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Ever took a test for maths and the teacher stipulated you show your work or explain your answer?

We talking relationships here breh.

You meet a woman who doesn't work, yet she on social media all day and working on no goals.. Out the gate you already know what she's bringing to the table.. So why even ask.?.
 

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Nikkas can't tell a shiftless woman vs a woman thats actually an asset? Own car, living space, work, cooks and clean behind herself.. Involved with her family, avoids drama, etc.. People cant just see how someone moves over a period of time, and just know what they bring to the table..

Im really curious because im aware of the terminology, but I didn't think people actually asked that..
Those things aren't assets to men. The others are though...

To answer your question, no dudes dont ask.
 

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We talking relationships here breh.

You meet a woman who doesn't work, yet she on social media all day and working on no goals.. Out the gate you already know what she's bringing to the table.. So why even ask.?.


No, we're talking life principles. What we immediately see won't always be correct; that's why you ask questions.

No solved jigsaw without all the pieces, no full meal without all the ingredients, etc etc.
 

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No, we're talking life principles. What we immediately see won't always be correct; that's why you ask questions.

No solved jigsaw without all the pieces, no full meal without all the ingredients, etc etc.


So do you ask questions and thats it?

Or do you ask questions then see if what she says line up with what she do?
 

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Nikkas can't tell a shiftless woman vs a woman thats actually an asset? Own car, living space, work, cooks and clean behind herself.. Involved with her family, avoids drama, etc.. People cant just see how someone moves over a period of time, and just know what they bring to the table..

Im really curious because im aware of the terminology, but I didn't think people actually asked that..
No offense fam but you should already know this is some online shyt. Nobody ask this shyt IRL to a person. This is just some shyt dudes online use to get money and or get people talking about this topic.
 

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Yeah there's no real reason to ask unless you just a blind motherfukker
There's 100% reason to ask. Don't have to use those words.

Quickest way to date is to let her tell you who she is, so you can see where actions line up.

Thats ike me going to an interview for a job and them not asking what I'm familiar doing in the past. Yo ass can lie on that resume if you want but the moment you don't know how to do something you claimed you're outta there.
 

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It's a pointless question

Says she got her own shyt - "I don't care, I already got that"
Lists intangible things - "So you bring nothing to the table"
 
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