Do men really ask women what they bring to a table?

[Wildhundreds]

Always good to have folks be honest and up front even if you feel like you already know

surely you say more than what you bring to the table.. Im just checking to see if people really pose the question just like that..

 

[Starski]

What do you do for work?

CNA

You got kids?

yea

what u like to do for fun?

shop, tv, clubs

there u go I just asked.

 

[Silver Surfer]

surely you say more than what you bring to the table.. Im just checking to see if people really pose the question just like that..

I think those that take marriage serious and do the therapy thing pose this type of question before hand.

 

[OfTheCross]

Nikkas can't tell a shiftless woman vs a woman thats actually an asset? Own car, living space, work, cooks and clean behind herself.. Involved with her family, avoids drama, etc.. People cant just see how someone moves over a period of time, and just know what they bring to the table..

Im really curious because im aware of the terminology, but I didn't think people actually asked that..

I'm wondering what anyone brings to the table, really...

You got a job? Ok...

I think relationships might be more about the intangibles than anything

 

[Wildhundreds]

No offense fam but you should already know this is some online shyt. Nobody ask this shyt IRL to a person. This is just some shyt dudes online use to get money and or get people talking about this topic.

I don't know breh..

The way these dudes get mad at h0es have me wondering.. Who set expectations for a h0e?

 

[philmonroe]

There's 100% reason to ask. Don't have to use those words.

Quickest way to date is to let her tell you who she is, so you can see where actions line up.

Thats ike me going to an interview for a job and them not asking what I'm familiar doing in the past. Yo ass can lie on that resume if you want but the moment you don't know how to do something you claimed you're outta there.

You don't do this just lying online to be down. This is why I wish we could really see cats so y'all will stop fukking lying soo much online. IRL this cuts down on a lot of bullshyt you see online where you can't easily check dudes stats

 

[SheWantTheD]

“What would you say you bring to a relationship with a man?” Isn’t a far fetched question at all

 

[The God Poster]

Nikkas can't tell a shiftless woman vs a woman thats actually an asset? Own car, living space, work, cooks and clean behind herself.. Involved with her family, avoids drama, etc.. People cant just see how someone moves over a period of time, and just know what they bring to the table..

Im really curious because im aware of the terminology, but I didn't think people actually asked that..

By this logic why does anyone ask this question?

 

[philmonroe]

I don't know breh..

The way these dudes get mad at h0es have me wondering.. Who set expectations for a h0e?

The truth is most of these dudes aren't that boy offline. Online you can say anything and as long as it fits the popular narrative nobody going to question or check your story. Offline if a dude says they say this and you know dude don't even get girls you going to look at fam with the usure smilie look even if you don't call him out. Folks say a lot of stuff online because unlike offline where you most likely know a dude you're talking to we don't know cats on here. You can say and be anything you want.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I used to say it when I was over the girl and wanted to phase myself out, but I've never said it to someone who I liked having around.

 

[Koba St]

I don’t give a fukk about what she brings to the table. If I like her, like spending time with her and a good woman, I’m cuffing.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Nikkas can't tell a shiftless woman vs a woman thats actually an asset? Own car, living space, work, cooks and clean behind herself.. Involved with her family, avoids drama, etc.. People cant just see how someone moves over a period of time, and just know what they bring to the table..

Im really curious because im aware of the terminology, but I didn't think people actually asked that..

Smart men do. Simp men don’t.


Often time’s if you mess with a go getter she will brag about what she brings to the table

 

[locdnloaded17]

Nikkas can't tell a shiftless woman vs a woman thats actually an asset? Own car, living space, work, cooks and clean behind herself.. Involved with her family, avoids drama, etc.. People cant just see how someone moves over a period of time, and just know what they bring to the table..

Im really curious because im aware of the terminology, but I didn't think people actually asked that..

I'm 31 and can't remember ever being asked that question. I think it's strange

 

[Wildhundreds]

Smart men do. Simp men don’t.


Often time’s if you mess with a go getter she will brag about what she brings to the table

It gets interesting when you're a go getter yourself and material things don't matter.. Nothing left but spiritual things to discuss..

 

[NatiboyB]

Nikkas can't tell a shiftless woman vs a woman thats actually an asset? Own car, living space, work, cooks and clean behind herself.. Involved with her family, avoids drama, etc.. People cant just see how someone moves over a period of time, and just know what they bring to the table..

Im really curious because im aware of the terminology, but I didn't think people actually asked that..

I never asked I already knew...But if I were single today and one of these ladies came at me with that energy I'd redirect it the same way.