Do the men on here agree with this quote? (why or why not?)

[DarrynCobretti]

on one hand, personally I don't believe in purposely mistreating anyone for no reason regardless how I feel about her potential as a longterm jawn


on the other hand... I agree with the point about these females needing to knock it off wit the over generalizing "nikkas aint shyt" bird talk BS

 

[At30wecashout]

Yea.

I once believed in treating every woman like she slid out of a royal vagina and was deserving of praise, constant attention, and a support system (aka funding) if she
was in dire straights.

Then reality struck. Whats the difference between men and women? Im not attracted to men, and let women have extra leeway because I was attracted to women in general.
Cut that shyt right off. If you ain't "The one" then you gets none. Attention. Money. A shoulder to cry on? Nah. My boys don't get that privilege, why should a woman who isn't
making my life better get it? I may not treat em like crap, but I damn sure treat em like background noise.

 

[Poitier]

A man is going to do right for the woman he has to do right for.
If I put you through some bullshyt and you still with me, Imma keep up the bullshyt

nikkas know this and that's why we can treat the woman that ain't "the one" however we want.
She fell for you first. Once you realize that, shyt is a wrap.

You talking too much.

 

[Ooh Marty]

No, I disagree. If you're going to date someone you should do right by them regardless of if they're "the one" or not. Treat people how you want to be treated. If you don't want to be with someone you shouldn't use it as an excuse or an opportunity to treat them wrong. It's sad that we live in an era that adults think its cool to mistreat people, that is crazy.

I agree but a lot of people aren't wired like that. Sometimes you have to give them a Taste of their own medicine.

I played the fool once in a relationship. Never again.

I've learnt to higher my standards and the men I've been attracting lately shows that.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I kind of do right for myself and loved ones then if we harmonize then I do right for you too. Maybe I don't want a relationship, I'll let you know

 

[Penny 95]

I agree but a lot of people aren't wired like that. Sometimes you have to give them a Taste of their own medicine.

I played the fool once in a relationship. Never again.

I've learnt to higher my standards and the men I've been attracting lately shows that.

I agree with you, but if you someone is treating you wrong then just leave. Life is too short to put with other people's BS.

 

[Ooh Marty]

on one hand, personally I don't believe in purposely mistreating anyone for no reason regardless how I feel about her potential as a longterm jawn


on the other hand... I agree with the point about these females needing to knock it off wit the over generalizing "nikkas aint shyt" bird talk BS

It's not about a man treating every female like crap it's about a man not putting his all into a relationship cus 9/10 he ain't feeling the chick like she's feeling him but if she keep falling for his mixed signals and letting him get away with it, of course a nikka gon do him

 

[Pinyapplesuckas]

Depends on where the man is at.

Ive been a straight dikk to women and not because they werent shyt...but because i wasnt shyt at the time and wasnt ready to be shyt

Luckily i dont have to deal with that right now and I have someone who is great and makes me want to do better

 

[DarrynCobretti]

It's not about a man treating every female like crap it's about a man not putting his all into a relationship cus 9/10 he ain't feeling the chick like she's feeling him but if she keep falling for his mixed signals and letting him get away with it, of course a nikka gon do him

no doubt.


some of these females definitely need to accept responsibility for their actions and for foolishly thinking they can change a nikka who let her know off the jump what he about

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

A man can't help who he takes serious and who he falls for? So if you dont fall for someone you have no ither choice but to treat them like shyt?

If a dude treats you like shyt, he ain't shyt. There's no other way around it. He's just a horrible person.

i agree and disagree


when i read it... i agreed.....

but to a woman, i guess you can see it as "treated like shyt".... but to a man... no.. it usually isn't





example: i meet girl A... she's sexy but talking with her, not what i want in a WIFE... but we hang out, i don't spend money on her, i don't take her out, i'm not in a rush to chill or answer her.... but we have sex all the time.... she wants more... i tell her nah.... keep it how it is.... meanwhile i'm sleeping with other women


to a woman, that might be "like shyt" to me... i told her up front what it was, she can either stay or go.... so i treated her just fine... just as i said... didn't lie, didn't cheat, didn't beat her, didn't do her wrong... we adults... we did this together





then the next girl i meet, i do all the dating, courting, waiting, ring, marriage.... ok i wanted to do that.... so again.... when i wanted it.... i did what was right





but to a woman i treated one like gold and the other like crap...

 

[Ooh Marty]

no doubt.


some of these females definitely need to accept responsibility for their actions and for foolishly thinking they can change a nikka who her let know off the jump what he about

Me personally I have no patience to change a man and prove to him why he should take me seriously and treat me right

I'll rather deal with a man that prove to me that He's about me and been about me

 

[Ooh Marty]

i agree and disagree


when i read it... i agreed.....

but to a woman, i guess you can see it as "treated like shyt".... but to a man... no.. it usually isn't





example: i meet girl A... she's sexy but talking with her, not what i want in a WIFE... but we hang out, i don't spend money on her, i don't take her out, i'm not in a rush to chill or answer her.... but we have sex all the time.... she wants more... i tell her nah.... keep it how it is.... meanwhile i'm sleeping with other women


to a woman, that might be "like shyt" to me... i told her up front what it was, she can either stay or go.... so i treated her just fine... just as i said... didn't lie, didn't cheat, didn't beat her, didn't do her wrong... we adults... we did this together





then the next girl i meet, i do all the dating, courting, waiting, ring, marriage.... ok i wanted to do that.... so again.... when i wanted it.... i did what was right





but to a woman i treated one like gold and the other like crap...

I've been the first girl

It hurts but I had to take some accountibility

 

[Dwolf]

There is an ongoing debate about this . Some are saying that you shouldn't treat the many women you encounter like crap just because she isn't "the one" whereas others are saying that a man can't help who he takes serious and fall for .

Do you guys agree ? If so then why? If you disagree , explain.

Sounds like some shyt I read in a gender wars thread

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

 

[Ooh Marty]

I gotta tag the right people to get this bytch lit or something ?