Do the men on here agree with this quote? (why or why not?)

[#SOG_soldier]

Agree. Very few women deserve to not be treated like shyt.




I personally can recall 2 that I ever truly loved


Married the second one tho

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

Women are just confused really. They want dearly to be attracted to a nice guy, but they're soul yearns for the jerk.

The girls that naturally go for nice guys always have and get wifed up in their early 20s. The women that are attracted to jerks go thru hell thru their 20s and try to convince themselves to like nice guys once they have kids and are washed up, but never respect him. Sad to say they're ruined. Mostly likely they'll never be happy.

I've always liked nice guys. They're secure, smart and have nothing to prove. And no control issues on either side. People with good character have healthy relationships. No need for manipulation, mind games, tomfuccery, witchcraft or shenanigans. If he and I are not truly enjoying each other, there's really no point at all.

 

[Stuntone]

I've always liked nice guys. They're secure, smart and have nothing to prove. And no control issues on either side. People with good character have healthy relationships. No need for manipulation, mind games, tomfuccery, witchcraft or shenanigans. If he and I are not truly enjoying each other, there's really no point at all.

Well if you've always truly and naturally been attracted to good guys you shouldn't have any problems with getting men you desire.

That bad boy attraction ruins a lot of women. They can't help their attraction once it starts. Usually as a teenager. Just like some guys look big booties are lightskin. They will always like that. Get we a dark, flat booty girls isn't going to satisfy them for long.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I just read my post and it sounds kind of mean.

I'm sorry.

it's ok.. i pictured you saying it with the voice and face of ashley in your profile pic

 

[Cake]

Agree. Females drop nikkas left and right with no remorse. Why should y'all get special treatment?

 

[Neuromancer]

Agree. Very few women deserve to not be treated like shyt.




I personally can recall 2 that I ever truly loved


Married the second one tho

Did it work out?

 

[freetroit]

i agree and disagree


when i read it... i agreed.....

but to a woman, i guess you can see it as "treated like shyt".... but to a man... no.. it usually isn't





example: i meet girl A... she's sexy but talking with her, not what i want in a WIFE... but we hang out, i don't spend money on her, i don't take her out, i'm not in a rush to chill or answer her.... but we have sex all the time.... she wants more... i tell her nah.... keep it how it is.... meanwhile i'm sleeping with other women


to a woman, that might be "like shyt" to me... i told her up front what it was, she can either stay or go.... so i treated her just fine... just as i said... didn't lie, didn't cheat, didn't beat her, didn't do her wrong... we adults... we did this together





then the next girl i meet, i do all the dating, courting, waiting, ring, marriage.... ok i wanted to do that.... so again.... when i wanted it.... i did what was right





but to a woman i treated one like gold and the other like crap...

I got the good ol aint shyt label for behaving this way

I never understood why because i was being honest which i deem to be a good thing because i give women an option but they dont give a fukk and still say i aint shyt

I guess because she couldnt change my mind. But hey i was still pretty much a good guy towards her just never wanted a full on committed relationship with her

Oh well

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Did it work out?

Yup we been together since 2000.

 

[The Mad Titan]

If you treat everyone like trash just because you aren't romantically involved with them


No matter how lame some lame is, doesn't mean you need to treat them like they aint nothing.



With that said no alot of dudes are just scumbags and thats that, and alot of the women aint worth the effort to put forth the change for.

Its like men are sitting back "why should I be faithful when she just wants..."
and Women are like "Why should i be submissive when he is just..."

The dance floor is empty and everyone sitting on the wall waiting for the next person to make the 1st move while complaining to one another about each other.

 

[Shadow King]

It depends on the dude really.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

I use the golden rule and treat everyone the same including women I date

 

[HellRell804]

Its this simple, a man whos really into you will show u off. His homeboys will be on a first name basis. Not only will you have met mom you'll probably be chilling with his aunts/sisters/cousins or other women in his family. If all your dates are at restaurants away from the places he normally hangs, even if they're expensive, you're an option. Matter of fact, the more expensive the date the more likely you're just a plate because the man obviously has money and status to burn

 

[DreadBrown]

Nah, 'do right' is subjective @The Devil's Advocate is right.

Some women will always have an image in their mind of what they want their man to be and if a man doesn't fit that image he 'aint shyt'.

 

[Taadow]

Levels.

 

[LadySimone]

Yea.

I once believed in treating every woman like she slid out of a royal vagina and was deserving of praise, constant attention, and a support system (aka funding) if she
was in dire straights.

Then reality struck. Whats the difference between men and women? Im not attracted to men, and let women have extra leeway because I was attracted to women in general.
Cut that shyt right off. If you ain't "The one" then you gets none. Attention. Money. A shoulder to cry on? Nah. My boys don't get that privilege, why should a woman who isn't
making my life better get it? I may not treat em like crap, but I damn sure treat em like background noise.

You're confused, who said anything about that? You treat men and women like decent human beings. Honesty integrity consistency etc. All that next shyt was superficial