Do the men on here agree with this quote? (why or why not?)
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Understand something, that statement was written in past tense. Now if you need facts:-I am the product of a single mother
-I sat with her as a 5 year old kid for for what felt like hours, crying in her arms the exact day she told my father to leave (he had a secret son, and was slanging dikk all over town. Turns out we only found out about one of his kids.)
-Over time our family grew, but I was still the only boy. This after growing up being babysat by various women, including my aunt who had a little girl of her own.
You might imagine that in my overly estrogen heavy upbringing that I have seen the constant disappointments, the abuses, and disrespect the women I grew up with faced.
Basically it primed me to be extra
, which is fine, until I began to like girls. My responsibilities to my family, all women, pretty much transferred to how I treatedgirls I liked. Big mistake. Had to learn the hard way, treat women the same as men, cause half the time I was accepting the p*ssy pass without checking the credentials.
Again, that statement was clearly written in past tense. I treat everybody like shyt now, and that works for me
Equal opportunity.
Its half true and half false..
you can take serious who you want....but thats really hard to do when the feeling ain't there.
you can take serious who you want....but thats really hard to do when the feeling ain't there.
i agree and disagree
when i read it... i agreed.....
but to a woman, i guess you can see it as "treated like shyt".... but to a man... no.. it usually isn't
example: i meet girl A... she's sexy but talking with her, not what i want in a WIFE... but we hang out, i don't spend money on her, i don't take her out, i'm not in a rush to chill or answer her.... but we have sex all the time.... she wants more... i tell her nah.... keep it how it is.... meanwhile i'm sleeping with other women
to a woman, that might be "like shyt" to me... i told her up front what it was, she can either stay or go.... so i treated her just fine... just as i said... didn't lie, didn't cheat, didn't beat her, didn't do her wrong... we adults... we did this together
then the next girl i meet, i do all the dating, courting, waiting, ring, marriage.... ok i wanted to do that.... so again.... when i wanted it.... i did what was right
but to a woman i treated one like gold and the other like crap...
Gospel. If you aint a African first pick, you not getting that "Five star recruit" treatment.
I think people confuse "he/she didnt act the way i wanted him to" "he/she didnt like me as much as i liked them"
with "treated me like shyt"
both men and women do this.
Im not sure where some of yall get the idea that just because you like someone or feel "you deserve them" that they have to like you back at the same level, or even like you at all.
be the best partner/potential partner you can be, if you dont feel like youre getting the same in return then bushes.
dont be the partner that clearly has more invested in the relationship -at noones urging but your own- and then blame the other person.
no need to complain about it.
life isnt fair.
with "treated me like shyt"
both men and women do this.
Im not sure where some of yall get the idea that just because you like someone or feel "you deserve them" that they have to like you back at the same level, or even like you at all.
be the best partner/potential partner you can be, if you dont feel like youre getting the same in return then bushes.
dont be the partner that clearly has more invested in the relationship -at noones urging but your own- and then blame the other person.
no need to complain about it.
life isnt fair.
Bigtymer301
Mr. Roll-Up
There is an ongoing debate about this . Some are saying that you shouldn't treat the many women you encounter like crap just because she isn't "the one" whereas others are saying that a man can't help who he takes serious and fall for .
Do you guys agree ? If so then why? If you disagree , explain.
......That's a tough oneI think I have to agree though. And to be honest, I think females work the same way.
Now I'm not saying if as a female, you not the one, you should be treated like shyt, but you obviously won't be treated the way a female who the nikka is really feeling is.
I would like to believe most nikkas on here have dealt or deal with multiple chicks at a time
!! So yeah, if a nikka really see a chick as being what he wants, he will do what he needs to do to keep her. If he don't see her like that, if she stay she stay, and if she goes she goes. Females operate the same way. It aint so much that she ain't loyal, she just ain't loyal to you, cause you wasn't that nikka.
I'm speaking in general, so no need for anybody to catch feelings.
A man can't help who he takes serious and who he falls for? So if you dont fall for someone you have no ither choice but to treat them like shyt?
If a dude treats you like shyt, he ain't shyt. There's no other way around it. He's just a horrible person.
I don't agree with that.
I've said this before. If I don't have feelings for you but we have a sexual relationship, you end up becoming my hoe and I yours. So what happens is I treat you as a piece of ass, not because I'm fukked up, but because that's just what the situation is. If I don't lie about my intentions and you catch feelings and become hurt by me only using you for sex, I'm not a dog or a "horrible person", you just decided to stay in a situation that wasn't the best for you and your intentions.
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You're right some people get stuck on a person they KNOW isn't feeling them the same and then they get hurt.The fire has to be mutual for the relationship to grow.
Both people have to want it to work.
There is an ongoing debate about this . Some are saying that you shouldn't treat the many women you encounter like crap just because she isn't "the one" whereas others are saying that a man can't help who he takes serious and fall for .
Do you guys agree ? If so then why? If you disagree , explain.
I just want your p*ssy if that's all you have to offer. She gave the guy p*ssy so she likes him some way or another, but what makes him like her besides that nappy dugout? Things to think on. Ladies, step up your skills making yourself likable/lovable, not tolerable.