Do women really not like being approached in public

[GoldCoastSaint]

No one wants to bothered while out running errands. Imagine, as men, being held up at the post office cause some stranger wants to connect beyond saying hello. That shyt would aggravate you.

Now if a single woman is at the club, beach party, social event, etc... then respectfully approach if you want to.

But if she's not interested, she's not interested. Just like men shouldn't be forced to flirt with someone they aren't attracted to, neither should women be forced to flirt back with someone they aren't attracted to.

Lastly, please know that you may be hella attractive and she still might not want to talk to you. Happens all the time. Sometimes her friends will see this and be like "girl why you aint talk to him?" It could be a number of reasons: shy, already gave her number out too many times, you're too attractive, you remind her of someone, her mind is on someone else, etc... Just keep it moving.

 

[KillerB88]

Your argument is common and it's also lazy. So what if women turn 40 and are looking for good men after they have passed them up in times past, that's their cross to bear and you don't give a fukk if they end up lonely.

What kind of a non-answer is that? Those are the same women who end up impregnated by some hot nikka and groom their daughters to believe nikkas ain't shyt; while simultaneously continuing to date ain't shyt dudes only for their daughters to end up imitating them. The cycle continues. So it's absolutely relevant. Lazy is disregarding what I had to say because it doesn't fit your internal narrative.

Now I see why you always get labeled as bytch-made in any thread regarding the shortcomings of modern women.

 

[Jasonmask]

I remember some bad exotical jawn was walking with her date..a thick pawg..both in tight dresses.

Dude just starting at them, "damn girl "

We were both at a stoplight and I gave them a little compliment and shorty looked me up and down like I was food..made small talk then she gave me a hug before they walked off

I was

Her white girlfriend was ...



Take em off the pedestal and treat em like any other chick.

Women are supposed to be over us...not the other way around.

All facts. It’s not like they’re ultra smart or anything. Some of them may look Boujee or stuck up but that’s just how some look . My main problem is having to dumb down the convo shyt these girls just as nervous or more than you. I work with some bad ones and they be talking about wanting nikkas to talk to them on the bus in public etc. that they find attractive really not rocket science sometimes we overthink shyt

 

[Marco Zen]

This! Reading body language is a huge thing. Having some semblance of game is also important. I used to get away with the cute awkward funny routine before my beard grew in.

And as people have said in here, CONFIDENCE is key. Not arrogance or that fake smug shyt. But just general authentic confidence and charm. shyt works most of the time....if you're attractive.

Example:
Just the other day at the gym this lil pawg asked me was I done with the machine I was on and (after pulling ear bud out) told her I had one more set ... She had her ear bud out too and was smiling and said yea I'm just trying to use this on and that one being greedy (laugh) and I said ok (and laughed too) but... I have this thing with slowing down time like the matrix when spitting at bytches and as I went to continue putting my ear bud in ,out the corner of my eye I could see she was still standing there looking at me smiling with her ear bud out... Clear indication I could've kept running my mouth to her and started a conversation... But I didn't I was in a hurry plus I saw she had a wedding band on... But still probably could've got that number

 

[Matt504]

What kind of a non-answer is that? Those are the same women who end up impregnated by some hot nikka and groom their daughters to believe nikkas ain't shyt; while simultaneously continuing to date ain't shyt dudes only for their daughters to end up imitating them. The cycle continues. So it's absolutely relevant. Lazy is disregarding what I had to say because it doesn't fit your internal narrative.

Now I see why you always get labeled as bytch-made in any thread regarding the shortcomings of modern women.

again, your argument is lazy and isn't really relevant to the thread topic. If women are getting impregnated by hot nikkas it's because they're entertaining those nikkas. your argument is for a separate thread.

 

[KillerB88]

again, your argument is lazy and isn't really relevant to the thread topic. If women are getting impregnated by hot nikkas it's because they're entertaining those nikkas. your argument is for a separate thread.

 

[Oatmeal]

really depends. one thing i never liked was for men to follow me or walk alongside me. if i didn't stop when you tried to get my attention, then feel free to not pursue. otherwise, i don't mind, just be respectful

Everyone in this thread so far has a good job at summing up how I feel about being approached in public. Good looks, the approach, how I'm feeling at the time, where I am at when I'm approached, etc. matters.

Y'all say it but out in these streets, this is the move awkward Coli brehs go to..

They even got a whole Tutorial online

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

What kind of a non-answer is that? Those are the same women who end up impregnated by some hot nikka and groom their daughters to believe nikkas ain't shyt; while simultaneously continuing to date ain't shyt dudes only for their daughters to end up imitating them. The cycle continues. So it's absolutely relevant. Lazy is disregarding what I had to say because it doesn't fit your internal narrative.

Now I see why you always get labeled as bytch-made in any thread regarding the shortcomings of modern women.

For some of y'all nikkas to be #GMB and #HOH y'all sure care alot about these random broads personal choices

 

[UberEatsDriver]

I understand why they might not like it. I walked with my cousin before and in one trip I think 20 guys might have tried to speak to her, whistle at her etc.

Imagine dealing with that everyday.

I think women only like it when a man that’s their type or a man that likes them talk to them.

If the girl is a dime it’s most likely the guy she likes will talk to her anyway.

 

[KillerB88]

For some of y'all nikkas to be #GMB and #HOH y'all sure care alot about these random broads personal choices

You're in here too friend.

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

You're in here too friend.

I'm not #GMB or #HOH

 

[KillerB88]

I'm not #GMB or #HOH

Neither am I. You randomly chose my post to come in here and make your point.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

*OG WEARING THAT VING RHAMES FIT*

"Hey there miss lady lemme see that smile....

Can I walk you to your car, take you out for dinner some time? "
@dora_da_destroyer

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

Neither am I. You randomly chose my post to come in here and make your point.

That thought process is commonplace in here and your post kinda gave off that vibe. If I'm wrong about that I can admit my bad.

 

[JoseLuisGotcha]

chicks like being approached by men they find attractive
chicks dont like being approached by men they dont find attractive

/thread

THIS

Fam you ever hear women openly talk about guys ...their mouths are worst than mens and it ain’t even close