Do You Feel Former Thots/Ho's Deserve Happiness?

[SheWantTheD]

I'm sure a lot of people think I don't deserve happiness but here I am living good as fukk. I have a high body count, stripped, sell p*ssy, single mother, etc. and yet I'm dating an amazing white guy and I'm fairly certain will marry me if I let him. He's kind, easy going, a hard worker, spoils me, respects me and has no problem loving my son as his own. And this is the third guy I've dated this year who's told me straight up they want to marry me.I never would have all that I have if I bought into the bs that my past defines me. I always knew I was the shyt and carried myself accordingly and men who date me treated me the same. I don't jump through hoops to prove myself to no man. Meanwhile most of the nikkas who hate me are still ranting online about how there's no good women left and how our generation is going to hell.

No one hates you, we just don't want to marry you Men can't point out women's flaws in a totally neutral standpoint without being accused of being women haters, gay, jealous because they don't/didn't supposedly want us etc.

If those men want to marry you then by all means. I have a couple questions though. Why is it that 3 different men in one year have told you that they wanted to marry you and you aren't even engaged? Second, how have you even had 3 different men "propose" to you in one year? And should you have so many men in and out of your son's life in such a short time span? Do these men know about your past?

Sounds like a bunch of to me.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I mean back in the day they did before social media because they could get away with it

If most females weren't so attention hungry the could still but they may to show out no one wants to wife up a smut. But what they dot know won't hurt them.

But if you a bad female you can still get choose by most dudes they will overlook it

If you average to ugly tough shyt you bout to be cat lady status by 35 if you were "very liberal" in your twenties

Nah B. If most people were getting married in their early 20s, courting/dating in their late teens then women didn't have a large time frame to hoe out. Nowadays you can meet people off tinder, not even know their real name, have sex with them and never see them again. Just to get a quick nut off. That's all that it is.

People are trying to change sexual promiscuity from what it always has been.

 

[badtguy]

Not every body I had sex with was relationship material. It totally happens. Sometimes you (and not you in particular, a general you) really just want dikk from some dudes.

Most men who have options don't mind casual relationships. I think some men may have a problem with chicks who want casual hookups and usually start out as a casual hook up but start flipping the script.

If i meet a chick and we start off as casual hookups, or she has casual hook ups, the fact that I have a great job, great sex, great people skills does not mean she deserves a great life with me.

I have plenty of female friends who I casually hook up with but want more.... not happening. I think this is where women talk about being "led on or having their time wasted".

most men in this thread are saying have casual hookups all you want, don't be mad when you're ran through and a nikka ain't gonna wife you I guess

 

[Guile]

It's always certain females posters who get a little uncomfortable with these threads. I wonder why?

 

[AB Ziggy]

It's always certain females posters who get a little uncomfortable with these threads. I wonder why?

This topic likely hits close to home to them. Perhaps too close

 

[SheWantTheD]

Most men who have options don't mind casual relationships. I think some men may have a problem with chicks who want casual hookups and usually start out as a casual hook up but start flipping the script.

If i meet a chick and we start off as casual hookups, or she has casual hook ups, the fact that I have a great job, great sex, great people skills does not mean she deserves a great life with me.

I have plenty of female friends who I casually hook up with but want more.... not happening. I think this is where women talk about being "led on or having their time wasted".

most men in this thread are saying have casual hookups all you want, don't be mad when you're ran through and a nikka ain't gonna wife you I guess

They wanna cry that you wasted their time but all those weeks, months, years y'all had an agreement that it was casual but they hope it grows into something else.

 

[ezrathegreat]

I simply don't care or think about them

 

[SheWantTheD]

It's always certain females posters who get a little uncomfortable with these threads. I wonder why?

They taking it a little too personal. We can't say anything critical about women ever, even if it's in an unemotional, non-judgmental demeaning way.

 

[badtguy]

It's always certain females posters who get a little uncomfortable with these threads. I wonder why?

Right ! That's how you can always tell. I was chilling with a friend, we have crazy sex like everyday. Started out as a casual hookup but she really love a nikka.

I said "man these hoes out here been ran through and I don't trust these broads" she really got mad as shyt.

Talking about "people make mistakes" "not everyone you hookup with, you wanna marry" like @Vice Queen even said "do you think imma hoe?" I said "i like you but yeah, it's cool though, I'll over look it"

She always gets mad when I talk about hoes- I could he talking about love and hip hoes, she'll really get defensive. shyt is annoying and funny

 

[Neuromancer]

I simply don't care or think about them

This. Stop giving these women real estate in your brain.

 

[Vice Queen]

Most men who have options don't mind casual relationships. I think some men may have a problem with chicks who want casual hookups and usually start out as a casual hook up but start flipping the script.

If i meet a chick and we start off as casual hookups, or she has casual hook ups, the fact that I have a great job, great sex, great people skills does not mean she deserves a great life with me.

I have plenty of female friends who I casually hook up with but want more.... not happening. I think this is where women talk about being "led on or having their time wasted".

most men in this thread are saying have casual hookups all you want, don't be mad when you're ran through and a nikka ain't gonna wife you I guess

You know what, that's totally fair.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Right ! That's how you can always tell. I was chilling with a friend, we have crazy sex like everyday. Started out as a casual hookup but she really love a nikka.

I said "man these hoes out here been ran through and I don't trust these broads" she really got mad as shyt.

Talking about "people make mistakes" "not everyone you hookup with, you wanna marry" like @Vice Queen even said "do you think imma hoe?" I said "i like you but yeah, it's cool though, I'll over look it"

She always gets mad when I talk about hoes- I could he talking about love and hip hoes, she'll really get defensive. shyt is annoying and funny

Don't talk about hoes in front of women ALL women will feel some type of way even if they don't say it.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Yes. People grow with time and experiences. We use the growth and experiences for testimonies to help.

Speaking from experience i presume, huh thotiana?

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Not unless they change their selfish ways. Most thots are users. I've seen ex-thots get calculating and tone down their thotness (at least temporarily) to land a sucker who they don't even love but has money and stability. She will eventually cheat on him or leave him and take his money when he's no longer useful and that was always the plan. Those ones don't deserve shyt but loneliness and misery.

If she legitimately has changed and just wants happiness with someone she genuinely loves and will treat with the same respect and kindness she gets, then sure she deserves it.

unless her pxssy loose....and yes there's such thing as loose pxssy

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

More power to whoever can provide them that hapiness.

It's usually just not worth it, between them being too broken to sustain a healthy communication level, so use to drama and bullshyt that a quality dude legit scares them, and then some who just don't be satisfied with one dikk, better to just cut your losses early.

Just like how single mothers match best with men with children, ex thots match best with ex male thots.

preaaaaaaach.