Do You Feel Former Thots/Ho's Deserve Happiness?

[sanityovar8ted]

I believe everyone deserves happiness on some level, even people who got life in prison. But I'm not taking a chance and marrying a woman with a sexually promiscuous past. I'm not saying that other men shouldn't either, but I'm not willing to take that chance. I believe it's the cause of an underlying issue, and I'm not gonna fault the individual for things they had no control over.

But I'm just not taking that chance. They aren't less than nor more of a human then anyone else, but I still ain't tryna wife'em.

Errybody has they own opinion no skin off my back

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

That's awesome and I'm happy that they are happy.. but that's not a chance I'm willing to take. If I get married I'm not tryna be part of the divorce statistic. I'm all in until death do us apart.

Gotta do you breh. But as we get older shyt like this is trivial. Life gets real and you realize whatv really matters and body counts doesn't usually make it on that list. I seriously doubt my friend will get a divorce, they are legit happy and content. Marriage goals foreal, body count and all.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I said it before, alot of dudes on here talk alot of talk but they are the same exact type of nikkas that end up with reformed "hoes".

Don't forget what type of people internet forums attract, its like 60%+ simps and those kinds of dudes.

Look at the front page od the locker room and the types of threads that cone up often, they sound like the type of shyt sexless men talk about

I ain't no simp breh. I'm all about reciprocity in relationships, and if a woman ain't reciprocating my interest, work, energy etc then that's a problem. I don't put women on pedestals and excuse garbage behavior. I'm sexless sure, but out of choice. I could be a huge thot just off my looks, but I chose not to go down that path. There's nothing of substance having sex with random women you don't know nor care about. You just see them as a sex object to fulfill your sexual desires in the moment. An itch that you want scratched. After you bust that nut and your mind is clearer, most of the time you don't want anything to do with these people.

You are both using each other and victims to your lust and carnal desires. I pride myself in being a man of sexual discipline that doesn't catch every p*ssy that's thrown at me. I make these threads to gain other peoples perspectives on certain topics and issues. I'm learning more about women and men through these threads. Growing up we were indoctrinated in believing that women were angelic, virtuous beings who can do no wrong. But they are human beings with flaws and desires just like men. I'm trying to come to this understanding and break down all the programming each and every day.

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

Damn you ain't discreet at all I know exactly what pic you're talking about, saw it on tumblr.


edit: now I see the BF article you mentioned, name and all does he know about her past?

Damn you lol!!! Not sure what he knows, she's a real freak so I'm sure that hasn't changed. Also what most men say they want: great cook, cleans alot, submissive. So he probably wouldn't care anyway.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Gotta do you breh. But as we get older shyt like this is trivial. Life gets real and you realize whatv really matters and body counts doesn't usually make it on that list. I seriously doubt my friend will get a divorce, they are legit happy and content. Marriage goals foreal, body count and all.

I'd have to disagree. When you get older, things like this should be of even more importance. You shouldn't marry someone without asking around about them, their past, the type of person they are etc. You are bringing children and raising a family with said individual. If they have a lot of issues, baggage and problems that they haven't dealt with it will do more harm then good to your children and future generations to come.

Old habits die hard.

 

[360dagod]

Just in terms of dating experience and expectations in regards to the opposite sex. Which are pretty major parts of life and from a biological standpoint, its the only reason we exist.

If a man or woman hasn't got those experiences under their belt, they are missing major life experiences don't you think? How can they give reasoned opinions and have thoughts and good ideas on things they have limited experience on? That would make their thoughts and opinions on the opposite sex....unrealistic lol. Because its not based on their experienced reality. Where are they getting such thoughts that might form the basis on such outlooks then? TV? Music? Their parents relationships? (or lack of) etc. Ya feel me?

People that have experienced things know more than people that don't.




That's why I take most of the sexless dudes opinions on the coli for comedy

I mean..i dont expect a virgin..and i agree to an extent

But if wifey give you some head that makes ya eyes roll back, you gonna think twice..

Because you know her mouth has had a September 40 man MLB roster of dikks in her mouth...

If you can block that out, more power to you...

But i do know that there are certain things that triggers a man's meter..

 

[King Poetic]

it's their life, but their odds of finding happiness isn't good unless she willing to provide a safety net and spend her money on ex cons...

believe me and i see former thots ( majority still live in the hood ) all around LA usually end up with jail birds or ex bangers/dealers .....

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

If you find someone special you shouldn't let their past determine y'all future

 

[360dagod]

If you find someone special you shouldn't let their past determine y'all future

What would make them "special"now though

 

[Mugenight]

If you find someone special you shouldn't let their past determine y'all future

 

[Dameon Farrow]

It happens every single day. Especially if they didn't end up with a house full of children for whatever reason. They can always cook the books as far as the number of dudes she has been with. And that's if the man she's with even brings it up. Some dudes are smart enough not to. I know that doesn't fit the Coli narrative.Like you 6 cert nikkas aren't all up in nofap threads.

 

[Youseenmywork]

You are truly, truly delusional if you think any of the garbage you've posted in this thread would make anybody believe you respect women. You think a racist can call Black men inferior all day like it makes his teeth whiter and still have respect for them? Just say you're a chauvinist, likely also misogynist, and get on with it.

Typical thanks for calling me that.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Comparing fukking random women you don't care about to giving life to a human being

Didn't do this but okay...

 

[semtex]

They were only thots/hoes not murderers damn

 

[UltimateSource]

See, this is the problem with a lot of yall dudes...gettin all wrapped up in her life. Once you start asking those type of questions and it's AFFECTING you...You in too deep playa.

As long as a chic looks good, the sex is great and she play her role...it shouldn't matter how many nikkas she fukked in the past.

Unless you a politician where her former thot lifestyle might reflect badly on you...the average dude shouldn't even sweat this shyt and keep the focus mainly on himself.