Do you know anybody that changed once they got into a relationship?
- Thread starter Trillion
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1.so what u do in your spare time breh?
2.how old are you?
3. do you have any male dudes you can meet during the weekend?
4. how your schedule looking breh?
(IM DEAD SERIOUS I WANT TO KNOW.)
Malik
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I dont talk to dude. I don't know. He and wife are enjoying their life I guess.
Malik
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man, my cousin is doing this RIGHT NOW.
First cousin. Blows my mind. We grew up together and now dude dont even returns my text messages since he's been with this girl the past couple months.
Makes me mad on the low.
My other cousin (female) was married with a kid and it's like nothing between us changed.
First cousin. Blows my mind. We grew up together and now dude dont even returns my text messages since he's been with this girl the past couple months.
Makes me mad on the low.
My other cousin (female) was married with a kid and it's like nothing between us changed.
Rocket Scientist
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My college homeboy who I know for about a decade changed big time.When I moved away I expected it due to the distance but didnt expect it to be a total change.Its to the point his girl answers his phone damn near every time I call.Funny this the cat who was the type of dude who always said he would still be friends even when he got a gf/wife&kids.Even worse when I mention him coming to town and kicking it he manages to slip in "Yea WE might be able to come down". Yeah I know things change and Im happy for my boy,but definetely growing apart.It happens tho 
Rocket Scientist
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If you single and you have friends who are in a relationship and married most of time its hard to be friends with them still.That 3rd wheel stuff is difficult Especially if you a dude.Sometimes I think women are secretly jealous of their bf's homeboys and if you a single dude she is gonna have doubts that you will be a bad influence. Thats reason when their are couples they are friends with other couples.9 times out of 10 when your playing Madden with your married homeboy and his wife is in the room it would be a distraction.
I think it's a mixed bag tho.
Some dudes adjust to it well and some don't.
Obviously you do/should expect there to be some changes ie less time to hang out or talk....but it should never get to the point where you are completely cutting off close friends or family you've known for years.
No matter where I've been or what I do in life, I've pretty much always been the same person
Rocket Scientist
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Just cause you in a relationship (keyword RELATONSHIP not marriage) you dont stop living for you.Before wifey there were your friends and after wifey your friends still there. Same dudes who cut off their homeboys will be the same ones who let their girl go out with her friends to have a "girl's night out".Best believe women will find a way to have their homegirls around.We all have busy lives but "busy" is becoming an excuse.
My brother...
On some real shyt, my brother ain't really been the same since 10 yrs ago when his then girlfriend had some other nikka's baby. He found out early on and got out of there but it still fukked him up though.
He's been with his current chick for 4 yrs now. Long story short, broad let herself go, has no job and no intention on working. Meanwhile, my brother got 2 jobs and longstanding financial issues. Everybody told this nikka time and time again about holding onto her. He even cut off some longtime friends for a while and is just now hanging with them again.
The nikka I looked up to growing up...
On some real shyt, my brother ain't really been the same since 10 yrs ago when his then girlfriend had some other nikka's baby. He found out early on and got out of there but it still fukked him up though.
He's been with his current chick for 4 yrs now. Long story short, broad let herself go, has no job and no intention on working. Meanwhile, my brother got 2 jobs and longstanding financial issues. Everybody told this nikka time and time again about holding onto her. He even cut off some longtime friends for a while and is just now hanging with them again.
The nikka I looked up to growing up...
I got a uncle dudes 29 who met this chick in February. Got her name tatted on him with the date and everything. (Claimed it was true love),Got her pegnant 
(dude already has 5 kids he dont take care of) and made abort it cause they couldn't afford it. 3 days after they broke up 
and the abortion was still fresh they got back together. (probably so she can get her car bill paid) 
dude lived with his mom and his momma told him I don't want that 
bytch here (first day I met her she has some candles lit with money around them) told thats whitchcraft . she was like na that will bless us with money. (They still broke as fukk) 
ended up forcing his mom to move out. They both get high in their new apartment now only 2/5 kids living under the same roof. Dude cut everyone off including family. Says we just jealous of his happiness. Heard he looks miserable. His kids inhale that shyt second hand. Smh. He makes court dog look like father of the year. I got pics of that tat, in case you think I'm bullshytting. I don't have the heart to call CPS on him tho.Havent talked to him since July. Date white bytches brehs. I got her facebook even tho she blocked me if any goons wanna fukk around .
),Got her pegnant (dude already has 5 kids he dont take care of) and made abort it cause they couldn't afford it. 3 days after they broke up and the abortion was still fresh they got back together. (probably so she can get her car bill paid) dude lived with his mom and his momma told him I don't want that bytch here (first day I met her she has some candles lit with money around them) told thats whitchcraft . she was like na that will bless us with money. (They still broke as fukk) ended up forcing his mom to move out. They both get high in their new apartment now only 2/5 kids living under the same roof. Dude cut everyone off including family. Says we just jealous of his happiness. Heard he looks miserable. His kids inhale that shyt second hand. Smh. He makes court dog look like father of the year. I got pics of that tat, in case you think I'm bullshytting. I don't have the heart to call CPS on him tho.Havent talked to him since July. Date white bytches brehs. I got her facebook even tho she blocked me if any goons wanna fukk around .
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Malik
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Those kind of women do that but, still want keep their friends.