Do you know anybody that changed once they got into a relationship?

[Playeroni]

I understand that things change when people enter relationships, as well they should. nikkas can't be 40 doing the same shyt. Eventually you have to start building a life outside of the typical single life shyt. But when you let some one come between you and your boy who've you known for 15 years, almost died with, got into thump sessions with, starved with come between you, that's not ok.( my situation) But that's just apart of this fukked up thing we call life. You can't do anything but adjust and move on.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Yeah. Girls love those couple and couple hang outs when married. But that's what most people that are married do. Women be on that "I don't want to be the only girl" shyt

I never let my girl meet my friends. I tell em that off rip. If they ask why I say it's the same reason you ain't met my family, figure that shyt out

 

[Paradime]

Yeah my ex.

She hated me after we broke up, then got married a month later and now likes me 'as a person'.

 

[duckbutta]

doesn't everybody?

 

[Trillion]

deepest thread

 

[DamonDashsRocAFellaChain]

Honestly, yeah I got some good homies that let that change them before. I actually got one homie right now who told me his girl cried so much about getting married, that he popped the question. This is the same dude who told me when I got out of my relationship, "Don't let these bytches control you." But they're my boys, I consider them family so it's all good. I'm going to support them the same way they supported me through my own relationship shifts.

 

[Trillion]

Honestly, yeah I got some good homies that let that change them before. I actually got one homie right now who told me his girl cried so much about getting married, that he popped the question. This is the same dude who told me when I got out of my relationship, "Don't let these bytches control you." But they're my boys, I consider them family so it's all good. I'm going to support them the same way they supported me through my own relationship shifts.

its always the "i'll never let a bytch change me" type dudes that fall the hardest

 

[DamonDashsRocAFellaChain]

its always the "i'll never let a bytch change me" type dudes that fall the hardest

Thats true! But you know what, I said the same shyt when I was 18 and ended up in a 6 year relationship.

 

[Trillion]

Thats true! But you know what, I said the same shyt when I was 18 and ended up in a 6 year relationship.

thats life bro

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

Yeah my ex.

She hated me after we broke up, then got married a month later and now likes me 'as a person'.

on the real my exes hate me for this reason, i wouldnt marry them, wouldnt talk about having kids with them or none of that, started dating my wife and had a daughter and got married within a year...

But back to the subject, i was this dude with my homies. I wifed up first and had a kid before any of them, so when my wife got pregnant and before that, i wasnt hanging around as much, going to bars, rolling through the studio as much etc, would probably see them once or twice for a year, but now that 2 of them have kids now or about to have kids we hang out like almost every week. We ain't doing what we used to do, but we still close and talk all the time now. Its just how life works, its hard to be doing single shyt when you in a relationship.

 

[IronFist]

Yep a couple of ex's

 

[iBrowse]

I never let my girl meet my friends. I tell em that off rip. If they ask why I say it's the same reason you ain't met my family, figure that shyt out

 

[Fatboi1]

Good thread.

Luckily I don't have too many nikkas I roll with nowadays since after leaving highschool me and my close friends pretty much stopped hanging out as much due to life and me moving to another part of the city. Nowadays I might hear from them out the blue for w/e reason but I don't worry about people getting into relationships and them cutting me off. I been a dolo type guy for quite some time so it doesn't bother me. The few people I do hang out with occasionally is my cousins and for the most part he's still pretty much the same. One of my cousins got a girl out of state but he still the same and don't really seem to be a different guy. Now I got this OTHER cousin who is straight up GONE over this chick that he probably NOT EVEN fukkING!??

My cousin has a friend he cool with all of a sudden after knowing him for a few years because the dude go out with some girl and that girl has a couple of sisters. I say all of a sudden because we knew the dude beforehand but now since he been going out with this young girl my cousin been hanging with dude a lot lately.

Now one of the sisters he was talking to but he was always on some nice guy shyt and shorty played the nikka out in front of everybody one time in front of her building saying "You'll never get this p*ssy!". Now you'd think after ether like that was dished out you'd fall back right?? Nope! Dude manages to still contact her shortly after and still talk to her and we(my other cousins and fam) KNOW he ain't hitting it because he's just acting like a square to her. Now he in some weird type of friendzone with his buddy's girl(They be on the phone like every night all day talking about the other dude she go with)

Dude used to be all about chilling, playing games and going to the movies to being a chauffeur for his friend and his girl. Dude barely stays in the house anymore. He comes home, goes back out, chills with the girl all day running errands for her, spending money on her while her BF don't do none of that and HE(My cousin) presumably isn't getting none out it because he seems to get mad whenever the girl and her bf are chilling together. shyt is really embarrassing sometimes when I look at it.