Malik
Superstar
Thought it was just me. I been noticed that trend with the older married women Ive been around. Put a ball and chain on their husbands meanwhile they're still calling up their girlfriends and laughing up a storm.
Do you know anybody that changed once they got into a relationship?
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Thought it was just me. I been noticed that trend with the older married women Ive been around. Put a ball and chain on their husbands meanwhile they're still calling up their girlfriends and laughing up a storm.
Speaking back on my uncle, this one time we went to pick up a pizza . gone maybe 20 minutes his bytch wanted to blow my phone. She called it like ten times while I was Talking about where are you guys at? What's taking so long? I walk in the bytch asked to see my phone 
why is it locked? What are you hiding?? I checked her bytch u can control my.uncle but not me. Dudes fukking whipped. since then she wanted to control if he hung out with me or not. And sad thing is that he allowed it.
why is it locked? What are you hiding?? I checked her bytch u can control my.uncle but not me. Dudes fukking whipped. since then she wanted to control if he hung out with me or not. And sad thing is that he allowed it.
Im not gonna front, when Im when someone I stay off the radar. It's like a special event when a group of friends see me now. I just be more focused on other things and been moving into different circles and trying to build with my chik. My main crew of friends tend to keep bringing up the same shyt over and over which bore me.
I got a uncle dudes 29 who met this chick in February. Got her name tatted on him with the date and everything. (Claimed it was true love),Got her pegnant
(dude already has 5 kids he dont take care of) and made abort it cause they couldn't afford it. 3 days after they broke up
and the abortion was still fresh they got back together. (probably so she can get her car bill paid)
dude lived with his mom and his momma told him I don't want that
bytch here (first day I met her she has some candles lit with money around them) told thats whitchcraft . she was like na that will bless us with money. (They still broke as fukk)
ended up forcing his mom to move out. They both get high in their new apartment now only 2/5 kids living under the same roof. Dude cut everyone off including family. Says we just jealous of his happiness. Heard he looks miserable. His kids inhale that shyt second hand. Smh. He makes court dog look like father of the year. I got pics of that tat, in case you think I'm bullshytting. I don't have the heart to call CPS on him tho.Havent talked to him since July. Date
X's 1,000My brother...
On some real shyt, my brother ain't really been the same since 10 yrs ago when his then girlfriend had some other nikka's baby. He found out early on and got out of there but it still fukked him up though.
He's been with his current chick for 4 yrs now. Long story short, broad let herself go, has no job and no intention on working. Meanwhile, my brother got 2 jobs and longstanding financial issues. Everybody told this nikka time and time again about holding onto her. He even cut off some longtime friends for a while and is just now hanging with them again.
The nikka I looked up to growing up...
damn. That thang is powerful.
havoc
Superstar
The friends I have don't hangout with me often because they settle down with a wife/or long-time gf and working a lot of hours. People have responsibilities they need to handle; therefore, It doesn't bother me that my friends and I growing apart into different directions in our lives.
yup
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
My cousin used to be fat all his life.
Now that he is 19 and like 5'10, he looks less fat.
He never had females but since he started to get them a few years ago, he done got soft.
Wanna fall in love with every broad that shows him any attention.
Got the nerve to ask "where the females at" and when I put him on a "hoe" he wanna wife her up.
Smh. Now he emotional about everything.
Wanna quit in the middle of a basketball game cuz he messed up.
mcdivit85
Superstar
I can understand not liking to see your homie cut you off, but you have to expect that things are going to be different when they're in a relationship and/or married. People move in different directions....life is seasonal. The couple lifestyle is not the same as the single lifestyle.
When they're single, they go out with you all the time. But when they're with someone, they go out with their chick most times. Doesn't mean they can't go out with the homies too, but they're not going to be going out to the club and the bar like they used. That's just common sense.
The reality is, some of the same people who complain about how selfish it is for their friend to not hang with them as much because they're with someone are just as selfish. They're more worried about having a "drinking buddy" or "wingman" than they are about their homie making a relationship, that makes him happy for whatever reason, work. As long as that woman is doing right by dude, then, as a friend, I'm going to support the homie being happy.
The reality is, dudes sometimes get jealous because the homie has moved beyond chasing tail and hanging in bars like they're still doing. And sometimes, they feel some type of way because their homie found somebody that's down and that treats him right while he still's dealing with punk-#ss hoodrats that are only good for backshots and bubble gum.
Its all about balance. But lifestyles change as people grow. And sometimes, people grow past doing the same stuff their friends are still doing.
Peace
When they're single, they go out with you all the time. But when they're with someone, they go out with their chick most times. Doesn't mean they can't go out with the homies too, but they're not going to be going out to the club and the bar like they used. That's just common sense.
The reality is, some of the same people who complain about how selfish it is for their friend to not hang with them as much because they're with someone are just as selfish. They're more worried about having a "drinking buddy" or "wingman" than they are about their homie making a relationship, that makes him happy for whatever reason, work. As long as that woman is doing right by dude, then, as a friend, I'm going to support the homie being happy.
The reality is, dudes sometimes get jealous because the homie has moved beyond chasing tail and hanging in bars like they're still doing. And sometimes, they feel some type of way because their homie found somebody that's down and that treats him right while he still's dealing with punk-#ss hoodrats that are only good for backshots and bubble gum.
Its all about balance. But lifestyles change as people grow. And sometimes, people grow past doing the same stuff their friends are still doing.
Peace
I guess it's just called growing up. When you're married and working 40 hours a week. You just want to go home and maybe have a beer and chill. Everyone is different though.
I remember I was hanging with my boy and his wife. She was talking to his mom and grandma about how their marriage was going. She was like "If I let him play Xbox and bring him food when he gets home he is happy" But he's the bread winner so you get to control those situations.
I don't know. I let people be who they want. shyt don't bother me. If my boy changes and I don't like it. I give him his space and go hang out with some other single people who have the same agenda as me. Too many people in the world to be holding on to a relationship with someone that wants to change and be with his girl.
I remember I was hanging with my boy and his wife. She was talking to his mom and grandma about how their marriage was going. She was like "If I let him play Xbox and bring him food when he gets home he is happy" But he's the bread winner so you get to control those situations.
I don't know. I let people be who they want. shyt don't bother me. If my boy changes and I don't like it. I give him his space and go hang out with some other single people who have the same agenda as me. Too many people in the world to be holding on to a relationship with someone that wants to change and be with his girl.
Yeah. Girls love those couple and couple hang outs when married. But that's what most people that are married do. Women be on that "I don't want to be the only girl" shyt
LebronsHairline
AKA Chief Green Leaf
nothing much to speak on, went from being one of the boys we chilled wit, played ball, drink, watch sunday football etc. to literally NEVER being around. Funny thing is i call him out on it all the time and even though he admits it he still won't do anything about it so i left that nikka in the dust where he belongs. I try to put nikka on game but he don't wanna listen, p*ssy be powerful as fukk nikka smh
Most of the people I know changed once they got into a relationship. Even my bf, he's so clingy now and he stopped talking to all of his friends. He was never like this before we got together.
sounds like he wasn't real from the beginning
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Naw bruh. Women know what they are doing.Their friends are more influential then you can imagine.If or when your lady introduces you to her "best friend" or shoot maybe her sister watch out. That Best Friend is the one who knows all about your relationship,serves as an advisor and all types of stuff.Your woman would want you to get rid of your homeboys deep inside because she knows the influence of friends.Your homeboy is always the one to see what goes on. "Man bruh that girl got you changin".People can say im over thinkin but they know this is the truth
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Thats it.Families go on vacations to Disney World with the kids not Vegas with their single friends
Women love double dating. Thats why on these shows its the truth,the women get up and use ladies room to "talk" and leave the guys at the table .Women love double dating but US men like to be more 1 on 1 with our woman.
One of my best friends does this every time he gets a lady. He pretty much disappears....