I think my time in the military made me lose any desire for marriage. I've seen too many ugly divorces and know too many people stuck in unhappy marriages. For every happily married couple I know, there are four others who are just together out of convenience or for the sake of the kids. One of my co-workers is going through a rough patch with his wife, yet he was trying to convince me to get married.
Honestly, it feels like he just wants me to be as miserable as he is.