Do You Plan On Having A Wife And Kids?

[Tunez]

I'm #uglygang I'll be alone forever

 

[10bandz]

Wife and child

Man seeing family's make me so happy man.

My uncle is part of a dad's group on Facebook and one of the dads posted a video his 8 year daughter sparing and all the dads were giving her pointers lol. One of the dad's is a boxing coach and offered to coach her for free because of her potential lol.

Videos like this make me wanna be a dad so bad, this reminds me of my boy's daughter

fax im not with the no wife/kids shyt. The only thing is that nowadays its really hard to find the proper woman for all that. But nonethelesss thats the goal, i came up in a "family of families" so I never really let myself think being on some dolo shyt forever is wavy .

 

[nairdas]

Nope. Marriage makes no sense and kids are a hassle. None of it is necessary.

 

[cyndaquil]

Good idea. I’m the “rich uncle” myself but sadly I don’t know how successful my nieces and nephews will be

I’m the only sibling that pursued higher education and I’m my siblings don’t seem to have the same mindset when it comes to education

I’d want my kids to attend an Ivy League school.

So let me get this straight, you're the educated successful uncle who has no kids and probably won't while the rest of your siblings don't value education and will have a bunch of kids?
If we had to choose you should be the one having kids not them if I'm being honest.
So many highly educated people not having kids smh.

 

[mbewane]

Just watched We need to talk about Kevin yesterday so I think not

 

[AngryBaby]

Eh not really. Only time I think it carries weight is when you're old and feeble and not socializing and fukking new women anymore lol

But I'm 34 and know people who get married way younger or my age and have kids.

Whereas I like living in Chicago, or NYC. I like having sex with new women as my looks are are still in my 20's. I like not sacrificing my social life. I like not getting stressed with new responsibilities, I like having a fun job that creates more sexual opportunities and new friends.

And he'll, even having a GF changes alot of that. Not sure how people so willingly sacrifice their freedom like that. Insane. Or insanely emotional.

 

[AngryBaby]

So let me get this straight, you're the educated successful uncle who has no kids and probably won't while the rest of your siblings don't value education and will have a bunch of kids?
If we had to choose you should be the one having kids not them if I'm being honest.
So many highly educated people not having kids smh.

Smart people tend not to have kids...should tell you something lol

Dumber people fall more on line with their genetic programming. "Procreate". Whereas intelligent people tend to fight their genetic programming.

 

[cyndaquil]

Smart people tend not to have kids...should tell you something lol

Dumber people fall more on line with their genetic programming. "Procreate". Whereas intelligent people tend to fight their genetic programming.

Yeah but the amount of dumbasses we have to interact with on the daily imagine in the future

 

[The ADD]

Wife (soon)
Kids, not at all

 

[Mike Nasty]

Happily married with kids, wouldn't change it. Although it wouldn't be something I'd take lightly if I did it again.

 

[WaveGang]

Coli told me being a bf, fiance or husband is for weak men. And being a step dad is for extra weak men

 

[Ms. Quick]

Have a wife and we really debated having kids. Instead, we're leaning more on being the "Rich Uncle and Aunt" then leave our inheritance to our closest family members with high-achieving kids.

I got cousins' kids graduating from top schools (M.I.T, U.C Irvine, etc.) majoring in everything from Physics to EE and some double majors. Their kids and grandkids can probably make more use out of that money than I ever will. 10% will go to charity the rest to help the rich and successful in our family build a strong lineage.

I get to invest in potential all without the headaches of actually doing parenting.

Additionally, the way I see it, I won't have a brain to care when I'm dead anyways so I'm less attached to a lot of the points/ideas people make about having kids.

Ironically my husband started to make more money after we had our daughter. He's a master plumber now a days and I haven't worked in years so it's good money. We just had a son this past September, and honestly nothing is better than the family you always wanted.

 

[IIVI]

Ironically my husband started to make more money after we had our daughter. He's a master plumber now a days and I haven't worked in years so it's good money. We just had a son this past September, and honestly nothing is better than the family you always wanted.

Yeah I'm sure, I just low key now don't want to go through all the pains and extra responsibilities of parenting.

Also as an Engineer I wanted to teach my kids STEM lessons, but now just looking at the overall work involved on top of the extra lessons I would've taught, my wife and I just look at our family who have already raised STEM kids and are like "Yeah, they already set everything up. We can just play the background, assist and do what we want." At my age, I don't want to be waking up at 3 in the morning or smelling/getting doodoo on my hands when I didn't ask for it or when it's highly inconvenient for it to happen.

Biologically we're still young enough, but after a decade+ of considering it, mentally I'm kind of passed the point of doing it.

 

[Shadow King]

No and no.

 

[Shadow King]

I understand brehs who have nieces and nephews not wanting kids but what about if you’re an only child?

How do you plan to manage in your golden years?

Stay active/health-conscious as long as possible, when necessary, check into the old folks/nursing home.

Children don't guarantee avoiding the nursing home. At all. And havng children for that reason is selfish.