Do You See Yourself Getting Married?

You Getting Married Breh?

  • YES

    Votes: 25 34.7%
  • NO

    Votes: 47 65.3%

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99% of people got married for the wrong reasons...myself included....

you should only get married if there is a role and place for the woman to fit in your life....

so in turn that means you have to know your purpose in life and also be walking in it and living through it....

if youre not doing that and just getting married becuz she fine and she marrying you for money or clout....its destined to fail....

ALSO never marry for love.....
 

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99% of people got married for the wrong reasons...myself included....

you should only get married if there is a role and place for the woman to fit in your life....

so in turn that means you have to know your purpose in life and also be walking in it and living through it....

if youre not doing that and just getting married becuz she fine and she marrying you for money or clout....its destined to fail....

ALSO never marry for love.....

"Don't get me twisted baby, I love you too
But when that rent and that car note come what love gon' do?"

Suga Free line just popped in my head :francis:
 

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FYI, forming a business partnership is just like a marriage. Where are the threads where guys stated that they would never, ever, ever join in a business partnership with someone? If anything most folks here are chomping at the bit to be a partner of a successful business. Guest what, breaking up a business partnership, or leaving one is very much like a divorce. It gets just as nasty and you can have just as much money at stake.
You aren't "in love" with your business partners.
My girl is pregnant now so.... I guess so.

fukk.
I'll succeed where you failed big breh (to an extent)...
 

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You aren't "in love" with your business partners.
You are just further proving my point. Why would you be afraid to marry someone you "Love", over intermingling your wealth, labor, and ideas, with someone you might not even have a decent platonic relationship with? Yet folks here seem to only fear the first.
 

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You are just further proving my point. Why would you be afraid to marry someone you "Love", over intermingling your wealth, labor, and ideas, with someone you might not even have a decent platonic relationship with? Yet folks here seem to only fear the first.
I'm not further proving anything. Love and business are two separate entities and concepts that you chose to bridge together. You asked if posters make threads being afraid to enter business partnerships, and I said you do not love your business partners in this scenario.

Everything you listed can be "intermingled" without a romantic relationship or even a friendship.

Can this logically be disproven or is the end goal worth abandoning logic?
 

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I'm not further proving anything. Love and business are two separate entities and concepts that you chose to bridge together. You asked if posters make threads being afraid to enter business partnerships, and I said you do not love your business partners in this scenario.

Everything you listed can be "intermingled" without a romantic relationship or even a friendship.

Can this logically be disproven or is the end goal worth abandoning logic?
The bridge is the fears people list on this site regarding the failure of a marriage. The ramifications of dissolving a business partnership and the process of dissolution mirror much of that in a marital divorce. Love has nothing to do with the comparison. You brought that up without any comment. So I explained how it justifies my point. Now if you want to compare the strength of relationships based on love vs business, I'm here for it. Last time I checked, 70% of business partnerships ultimately fail.
 

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The bridge is the fears people list on this site regarding the failure of a marriage. The ramifications of dissolving a business partnership and the process of dissolution mirror much of that in a marital divorce. Love has nothing to do with the comparison. You brought that up without any comment. So I explained how it justifies my point. Now if you want to compare the strength of relationships based on love vs business, I'm here for it. Last time I checked, 70% of business partnerships ultimately fail.
Love has everything to do with it because it's the variable between the two situations that you chose to compare. There is nothing in any of my statements justifying yours.

If you want to ignore the emotional nature of a relationship and marriage between a man and a woman, you're being disingenuous, and utterly so.
 

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No. I've lived enough to see multiple outcomes. I have an old head who's 64 and was a multimillionaire....I say was because his wife took half 2 years ago. :francis:

On the other hand I met a woman a few months ago that was dating for as husband as bf and gf for 26 years. They're late sixties and decided to get married just cause. No ring, no ceremony, just signed papers. The lady was the one telling me how none of that shyt mattered.

I mean growing up I've had an unfathomable amount of old heads tell me don't get married and nothing I see from the mindset of women these days are compelling me to. I'll just continue to develop as a person and have deep & satisfying relationships. If they persist through my old age cool, if not then so be it.
 
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