Do you think men will start looking at women for their resources

[Nobu]

When my brother in law married my sister she was working a full time great job . 3 kids later she is a stay at home .

yeah women do leave their careers sometimes. im just saying in general most men aren't just looking for a stay at home mother to the extent that used to be all a woman was good for.

hell, with the cost of living in the big cities nowadays, relationships are essentially about having a roommate to make the rent affordable for some poeple

 

[HandyWithTheSteel]

Only if you’re a dusty, unemployed momma’s boy.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

I pocket watch females heavy but I study hard for mines.

 

[Will Ross]

yeah women do leave their careers sometimes. im just saying in general most men aren't just looking for a stay at home mother to the extent that used to be all a woman was good for.

hell, with the cost of living in the big cities nowadays, relationships are essentially about having a roommate to make the rent affordable for some poeple

A stay at home wife was just the common thing back in the day. But most men was picking a wife based on looks not what made her the best house wife

 

[Nobu]

A stay at home wife was just the common thing back in the day. But most men was picking a wife based on looks not what made her the best house wife

yeah true. point is, it was less about tangibles back then than it is now. it was much more acceptable for a potential wife to have no job skills or money back then

 

[Doobie Doo]

Instead of for their looks in the near future? You know start looking at them the way they do us?

Does she have a good job
Is she in debt?
What kind of car does she drive?
What sort of connections does she have?
How much does she make?
Can she pay the bills?

A smart man would look at all the bold. You want to wife a woman up who won't be a financial burden to you that is responsible with money. Money is the #1 reason divorce happens. It is very important for both parties to have it if they are going to be happy.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Brehs don't care about that as long as the chick is good looking

And that’s how you get railed by her divorce attorney when you paying everything for her.

 

[semicko82]

And that’s how you get railed by her divorce attorney when you paying everything for her.

Just to clarify I was agreeing with the poster I was quoting.

 

[Luke Cage]

Instead of for their looks in the near future? You know start looking at them the way they do us?

Does she have a good job
Is she in debt?
What kind of car does she drive?
What sort of connections does she have?
How much does she make?
Can she pay the bills?

I mean in larger quantities? Not small isolated groups of men.

@Wild self @SheWantTheD

Apparently people still consider men to want men to be providers and higher earners.

Men seen as financial providers in U.S., even as women’s contributions grow

Better-Educated Women Still Prefer Higher-Earning Husbands

I already do but in a more general way.

Does she have any bad habits? like smoking or drinking too much.
Does she have or ever had a job i don't want to be associated with like stripping, prostitution etc?
If she doesn't have a car does she at least have a license, i aint being your driver all the time.
If she doesn't have a job, does she at least have some activity that occupy's her day to day?

 

[colicolicoli]

Has a man ever just said "f it I'm better off single" after finding out what you do for a living?

I understand the point you’re making.
No, I’m attractive so a man is still going to want to have sex with me regardless.
But once they know I have an actual career I get deemed relationship material and the dynamics of our interaction changes.

I don’t know why the Coli pushes this stereotype that black men with good careers don’t care about their partners salary. Most people who marry are on the same level salary wise.

My boyfriend recently jumped me in salary by $10k and when I told him I wanted to make more than him again his dikk got hard.

 

[Neuromancer]

I already do but in a more general way.

Does she have any bad habits? like smoking or drinking too much.
Does she have or ever had a job i don't want to be associated with like stripping, prostitution etc?
If she doesn't have a car does she at least have a license, i aint being your driver all the time.
etc

Makes sense. I think it's good for men to have some gauge of what they will and won't get involved with out the gate.

 

[Carlton Banks]

My girl is the bread winner in my relationship and I'm cool with it




























































For now

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

If men start looking to women to be providers it's gonna start looking like Japan around here.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

I understand the point you’re making.
No, I’m attractive so a man is still going to want to have sex with me regardless.
But once they know I have an actual career I get deemed relationship material and the dynamics of our interaction changes.

I don’t know why the Coli pushes this stereotype that black men with good careers don’t care about their partners salary. Most people who marry are on the same level salary wise.

My boyfriend recently jumped me in salary by $10k and when I told him I wanted to make more than him again his dikk got hard.

It's more about the fact that you ain't a gold digging bum bytch than yo actual salary. Your career helps put somebody in relationship category but it's not a disqualifer. Yo salary is only as important as "she can't fukk me up too bad if we get a divorce."

Yo career is on yo boyfriend mind somewhere between "IDC" and " that's cool." I've dated a pilot and a doctor in the last two years. They don't have a leg up on the funny bytch working as a bank teller.

Would yo man leave if you lost yo job and was working at Best Buy?

 

[colicolicoli]

It's more about the fact that you ain't a gold digging bum bytch than yo actual salary. Your career helps put somebody in relationship category but it's not a disqualifer. Yo salary is only as important as "she can't fukk me up too bad if we get a divorce."

Yo career is on yo boyfriend mind somewhere between "IDC" and " that's cool." I've dated a pilot and a doctor in the last two years. They don't have a leg up on the funny bytch working as a bank teller.

Would yo man leave if you lost yo job and was working at Best Buy?

Sounds like you’re hustling backwards.

Again, speak for yourself.