Do you think men will start looking at women for their resources

[MajesticLion]

Simple prudence demands that you vet who you let near your circle, but going overboard with it is just silly.


The last thing women want is men going full mercenary with it en masse. Anytime it gets to competition you know how the scorched-earth tactics will go. It never ends well for anybody, but most especially not women.

 

[010101]

99.9% of dudes born from trick pedigrees

they are born to be bird.food

they will always fold over some pie

*

 

[Crude]

Any smart man will do it now when dealing with a woman for anything beyond busting a nut.

Young minded men look solely at what's on the surface (does she have a cute face and phat azz).

A more mature man evaluates her level of discernment, her occupation, how good she is with finances, how articulate she is, etc.

Life gets hectic and you better have someone that's more than just good looks and good p*ssy when you start dealing with real shyt like death of loved ones, financial hardships, illnesses, trouble on the job, and other shyt that can test the limits of even the strongest of people.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

I am. I want me a doctor, so when we get divorced, she has to pay me alimony!

 

[Nikki_04]

If a man wants to be a provider, then those qualities should not be as important as a woman who is looking for a man to be a provider.

So it really boils down to: do men want to forgo being providers, co-provide, or have a woman provide for them?

For me, personally, I would prefer a guy who wants to be the provider, but is okay with a woman making a decent amount of money and contributing to the household financially. I guess I am looking for a hybrid.

 

[Consigliere]

My best friend been on this. He doesn’t care what a chick looks like as long as her pockets are fat. He’s got 2 baby moms that’s make 2x more than him and lives like a fancy escort.

 

[Crude]

If a man wants to be a provider, then those qualities should not be as important as a woman who is looking for a man to be a provider.

So it really boils down to: do men want to forgo being providers, co-provide, or have a woman provide for them?

For me, personally, I would prefer a guy who wants to be the provider, but is okay with a woman making a decent amount of money and contributing to the household financially. I guess I am looking for a hybrid.

A woman needs to be ambitious and goal driven.

A provider isn't about going out and spoon feeding able bodied adults. A provider is about working and setting a good example for your kids by how you treat their mother, picking up the slack when you know something needs to be done, being emotionally grounded to lead your family through tough times, protecting your family from danger, etc.

That going out and providing everything while the spouse sits home is a dated concept and will not work for most people because for most of the time it takes more than one income.

Two adults and an additional 1-2 kids aren't living a comfortable lifestyle on a 50K-90K salary. That shyt will barely clear a mortgage, two car notes, and the insurance associated with those expenses.

 

[Neuromancer]

fukk bumass bytches and think you starting a trend in 2020 not to.

Huh?

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Already am, chick I'm fukking with is a Big Law Lawyer making six figures

 

[Neuromancer]

Sounds like you’re hustling backwards.

Again, speak for yourself.

Whose who in this exchange?

 

[Neuromancer]

If men start looking to women to be providers it's gonna start looking like Japan around here.

Why do you think this?

 

[Nikki_04]

A woman needs to be ambitious and goal driven.

A provider isn't about going out and spoon feeding able bodied adults. A provider is about working and setting a good example for your kids by how you treat their mother, picking up the slack when you know something needs to be done, being emotionally grounded to lead your family through tough times, protecting your family from danger, etc.

That going out and providing everything while the spouse sits home is a dated concept and will not work for most people because for most of the time it takes more than one income.

Two adults and an additional 1-2 kids aren't living a comfortable lifestyle on a 50K-90K salary. That shyt will barely clear a mortgage, two car notes, and the insurance associated with those expenses.

Trust me, I know that. But when provider is discussed here, it's more so from a financial aspect.

Trust me 90k isn't even enough for me to take care of myself and I am quite frugal.

 

[The Fade]

You can’t Be miss progressive-but-traditional

Pick one

 

[97Pac]

There are already men that do that. You ever see a normal looking guy/good looking guy with a busted female?? He’s with her for the monies.

When the money or salary is right you can look past looks, both sides do it.

 

[Crude]

Trust me, I know that. But when provider is discussed here, it's more so from a financial aspect.

Trust me 90k isn't even enough for me to take care of myself and I am quite frugal.

Yeah 90K is living in poverty in places like NYC, The Bay area, etc, but in places like Louisiana where I live where the cost of living is relatively cheap it's an above average living for a person that is single no kids. Once kids and mortgage on a nice new construction home enter the picture it's a different story though.