Laidbackman
All Star
Being on a site where somebody actually said they had to google RFK, the real definition of corny is somebody who tells jokes, and nobody laughs, or they have to laugh at their own jokes.
Do you think there is a disconnect between corny black men and black women?
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Because they believed other things mattered more. Like how much money he made, his personality, how he treats her, etc. they were able to have sex with him more during the honey moon period because it was still new but even then it wasn’t as good as it was with other men they were more attracted to. In the end they got the security, marriage, but without good sex/a decent sex life. It happens often enough. And these are typically the situations where you hear husbands complaining about not having much sex with their wives. Like yes they find their wives attractive and want it, but the wife doesn’t feel that same attraction. I would think it would be in breh’s best interest to want a woman who sexually desires them and finds them attractive. Not being used or settled for, but it seems like that’s what some Brehs want.So they married guys they consider ugly? Where they having sex before marriage and just stopped? Seems kind of crazy to marry someone you don't vibe with at all just for companionship. What are they gonna do wait until the kids are grown up, house paid off and then file for Divorce? What's the end game cheat on the side? They're husbands are only going to put up with this for so long.
His looks aren’t the big issue. He’s not ugly. But He’s socially awkward and definitely seems to be on the spectrum. Come on now breh. Like really.
Are you light skin?
look at my name: CarmelBarbie. That’s my complexion. Why?
they can go anywhere they want to get a woman. Yolo.
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fukking for entertainment
having children for decoration
women show what they value most when they choose their children's father
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having children for decoration
women show what they value most when they choose their children's father
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Mindfield333
Superstar
One of the biggest problem is both Black men and women have accepted pessimistic mantras as some sort of empowering tool. They’ll have phrases/themes repeated constantly to them like “bytches ain’t shyt” “nikkas ain’t shyt” “pawgs are better” “divesting is better” and wonder why they can’t form intra-racial bonds… you’ve programmed yourself to have disdain for your fellow Black brothas and sisters. Music, Commercials, social media, news, podcasts, YouTube, p0rn… these messages seem to be sent on all fronts permeating your subconscious. If there was any agenda… this is it.
dezert_storm
All Star
Why do people get on the internet and pretend women are lining the block to give brehs like this the box
Aye, stop the cap
Smh, dude was just minding his own business and they decide to harass him
TreySav
D-Block General
The point I was trying to get across, and perhaps I should have done a better job articulating this, is that there’s a lot of people within our community that get bushed simply for not fitting into a certain archetype of looks, interest, or personality.
I’ve seen many black men and women complain about this phenomena, so either both sides are lying or both sides are telling the truth.
There’s a lot of people that would bush a Kentaji Jackson type queen and then play the ‘I don’t know what you’re talking about’ game when they see men and women like her dating out.
Note: I’m just using her as a placeholder without actually meaning her specifically
I don’t know if folks reject these peoples lived experience because it doesn’t conflate with their own or if they just don’t want acknowledge the pain
As a matter of fact, I remember going to school with an African breh that got lit up everyday simply for being African and getting all his fits from target. The white kids would go out of their way to make friends with him, so guess who he spent the majority of his time with?