Do you think there is a disconnect between corny black men and black women?

[Dog Based Gremlin]

 

[Knuckles Red]

Y'all lie on men, relative to this thread "alternative black men", up and down the bulk would love a corny woman but corny women, don't necessarily find corny men attractive regardless of how compatible they are. Y'all act like women always enter the dating market seeking a man they're compatible with as opposed to the man they DESIRE and those 2 things aren't the same occasionally people get both, but most relationships/sexual encounters between men and women have 1 of those things. The other is compromised on from the woman's perspective. The issue is black women disproportionately want all or nothing and it reflects in 75% of black women never marrying. While mad brehs dies single AND childless, and the vast majority of black men 20-29 are single and childless.

People just lie and play obtuse when there are tons of metrics/stats on this. Women dodge accountability often, but it's at the point where men just don't even attempt to hold them accountable and automatically assign men the blame.

It's logical/understandable for a man to gravitate towards the group of women that desires them. On a subconscious level a man knows the difference between a women who will tolerate him, and woman who wants him. Black women of all shapes don't want corny black men unless they're handsome or are well off. Corny men are akin to regular men. Accept regular men can fukk if they play their cards right/run proper game. Corny men won't get real consideration off rip.

You seem to have such a low opinion of black women. Sad.

 

[Fresh]

there's somewhat of a disconnect between Black men and Black women period because of this powerful feminist wave, where Black women are being told heterosexual Black men are their enemies

the disconnect isn't limited to corny Black men alone

 

[Dave24]

There are more "corny black women" than there are corny black men.

Being corny ain't never been a problem unless you got other problems or make the mistake of specifically going after women who ain't into that. I know plenty of "corny" guys who married way above their pay grade simply by being persistent, kind, respectful, and developing themselves high-value in ways other than social skills (usually meaning either church, profession, or life mission/service).

If you're corny but you're into XYZ, I'd spend more time worrying about developing yourself to be elite in XYZ (so long as it's societally productive) rather than developing your social skills. You're probably already behind the game in social skills and ain't never going to catch up, but if you're elite in something that matters to the girl then she'll overlook the social skills as long as you're nice to her. Be the best animator, the best environmental activist, the best incarcerated rights crusader, the best birder, the best poet, the best deacon, the best phone repairman, the best diet and supplement expert, the best podcast producer, the best literally anything you can be so long as it matters to you. You'll find women who appreciate it and that relationship will be a hell of a lot more meaningful than whatever chick you would shooting for who was disrespecting you cause you're "corny".

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Both of these are 100% spot on. Nobody else on planet earth has to have “swag”, be athletic, be up to date with latest rap/trap r&b trends and slangs, know all the poppin urban brunch spots in their city, etc to not be seen as a cornball/lame/lesser than man in their own communities.

i see swagless white, latino, east asian, indian etc men wearing skechers with white socks, beer bellies, bad fitting dad jeans etc walking with decent-attractive women of their respective cultures daily.

Don't think I've ever seen a breh with a sista that was clearly out of his league....excluding rich/famous brehs.

Seen plenty of other races of men pull broads out their league..but of their own race.

This explains why you have a lot more black Futures...brehs with 6, 7+ kids by 6, 7+ women. Sistas compromise A LOT for a man they are physically attracted to. Other races will fukk but they don't marry Chad.

 

[ZEupTWN]

there's somewhat of a disconnect between Black men and Black women period because of this powerful feminist wave, where Black women are being told heterosexual Black men are their enemies

the disconnect isn't limited to corny Black men alone

Its sad really black folks use to be the most socially vibrant people other groups would envy...Go to any majority young black event/party/club whatever you can't help but feel it in the air....

I knew it was over in general when young black folks started to pushing that ant-social bs..

 

[Budda]

Yes. There's a disconnect between the coli and women in general.

There’s a disconnect between corny Black men and the black community.

Thats how they end up corny.

The two best posts in here, nikkas just want to blame black women for everything cause they don’t get laid

 

[Professor Emeritus]

Don't think I've ever seen a breh with a sista that was clearly out of his league....excluding rich/famous brehs.

Seen plenty of other races of men pull broads out their league..but of their own race.

This explains why you have a lot more black Futures...brehs with 6, 7+ kids by 6, 7+ women. Sistas compromise A LOT for a man they are physically attracted to. Other races will fukk but they don't marry Chad.

Whenever you see "only Black folk...." on the Coli it's always cap.


https://markeric.com/pauline-damions-editorial-engagement-session/

[media]



She's gorgeous and has everything going for her (looks, smarts, personality, career) while he'd be a "corny brother" and a "simp" on the Coli.....yet he was persistent and nice and was every bit worth it.

 

[Ol’Otis]

We acting like black women don’t like Drake now?

They still think he corny

 

[ThatTruth777]

You can sum this thread up as "BM stfu!"

 

[360dagod]

Both of these are 100% spot on. Nobody else on planet earth has to have “swag”, be athletic, be up to date with latest rap/trap r&b trends and slangs, know all the poppin urban brunch spots in their city, etc to not be seen as a cornball/lame/lesser than man in their own communities.

i see swagless white, latino, east asian, indian etc men wearing skechers with white socks, beer bellies, bad fitting dad jeans etc walking with decent-attractive women of their respective cultures daily.

But if we get into the variables..

These women of other races are usually getting fukked secretly by the men they lust after..

None of these women are really different..

Most simply submit to their cultural beliefs on the SURFACE level...

When they get WESTERNIZED, they will be playing the same game..

This is why the old timers try to keep their daughters segregated

 

[UncleTomFord15]

Black women are easily by far without question the worse race of women when it comes to choosing who to have children with/date. This isn't even up for debate.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Most ‘corny’ black men are just regular dudes in other communities.

bodied the thread on the first page.

fake militants like OP have an obsession with categorizing and dissecting Blackness

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

No such things as a corny woman with a fat ass

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

There are more "corny black women" than there are corny black men.

Being corny ain't never been a problem unless you got other problems or make the mistake of specifically going after women who ain't into that. I know plenty of "corny" guys who married way above their pay grade simply by being persistent, kind, respectful, and developing themselves high-value in ways other than social skills (usually meaning either church, profession, or life mission/service).

If you're corny but you're into XYZ, I'd spend more time worrying about developing yourself to be elite in XYZ (so long as it's societally productive) rather than developing your social skills. You're probably already behind the game in social skills and ain't never going to catch up, but if you're elite in something that matters to the girl then she'll overlook the social skills as long as you're nice to her. Be the best animator, the best environmental activist, the best incarcerated rights crusader, the best birder, the best poet, the best deacon, the best phone repairman, the best diet and supplement expert, the best podcast producer, the best literally anything you can be so long as it matters to you. You'll find women who appreciate it and that relationship will be a hell of a lot more meaningful than whatever chick you would shooting for who was disrespecting you cause you're "corny".