I swear this thread gets made every goddamn week now
Do you think there is a disconnect between corny black men and black women?
- Thread starter Voice of Reason
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I think it's a manifestation of the yearning to be accepted by your own but just can't seem to relate.
Yup. I completely understand. But it’s all about environment and finding “like-minded” women.
You would think your community would “accept” you off just being black, but there’s so many layers, sometimes it doesn’t happen.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
was thinking about this earlier.
imagine seeing everyone in your life enjoy black love, enjoying 70s soul music.. talking about the black experience in general.. and somehow you end up married to a white or asian woman. You would ask yourself what went wrong or starting pointing fingers.
People kick that “Black Love is powerful” shyt but when someone yearns for it & can’t obtain it, they’re told to stop complaining and go fw other races. I agree with both points btw, if you not getting love from somewhere go somewhere else, but I at least try to understand the hurt.
Music Fiend
Superstar
The only disconnect is NO BW think thry are corny because they watched makeup tutorials on youtube, copy the way IG dresses, and adopt social media slang on a daily basis .
BW are praised for corny, seriously.
they whole aura be captain planet mix of their favorite celebrities
BW are praised for corny, seriously.they whole aura be captain planet mix of their favorite celebrities
Regardless of the reason for Brehs pushback or for bw to say y’all ain’t shyt, it’s very evident that both groups collectively don’t understand each other (in a general sense) and neither group thinks they need to change approach /or try to get to a place of understanding so a connection can occur.
One side is vastly more desirable by non blacks tho....
Neither group is seen as desirable options to nonblacks.
I couldn’t post the pictures of the surveys I found where bm, bw and Asian men were ranked the lowest by nonblacks or else I would have, but this site is broken. white men, Hispanics (both groups) and Asian women are the top choices.a lot of black people need counseling to get over the traumas they experienced as children and young adults. Too many are walking around bitter, frustrated, and projecting their own issues onto entire groups of people because they never moved passed things that happened when they were younger.
I encourage Brehs to get counseling so they can move on from their past rejection and date out in peace.
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Turlast
Superstar
BM: "Black Women didn't want me because I was corny"
BW: "Black Men didn't want me because I was an alternative girl"
BM: "Other communities of women love regular Black Men, unlike Black Women"
BW: "Other groups of men have always been more receptive towards me than Black Men"
Same song and dance.
BW: "Black Men didn't want me because I was an alternative girl"
BM: "Other communities of women love regular Black Men, unlike Black Women"
BW: "Other groups of men have always been more receptive towards me than Black Men"
Same song and dance.
Laidbackman
All Star
If you saw the movie "Shaft" in 2019, I guess the regular 9-5 white collar office working brother is now the new corny. Martin in his recent stand up would call this photo below a foodi date. Meaning you buy the food, and you get nothing in return from the girl. But it was worst for this brother. Shaft took the girl, and the brothers car...smh. I mentioned this date scene in another thread several weeks ago. Now here's a picture of that date scene.
So I guess if your name ain't Shaft, Pookie or Ray Ray, you're the new corny.
Foodi Date
Tbh, in a real life scenario, although she thought this brother was a little on the corny side, I think she would have still considered him. It ain't like he was an a**hole. But if it did lead to something, it probably wouldn't have lasted long at all.
So I guess if your name ain't Shaft, Pookie or Ray Ray, you're the new corny.
Foodi Date
Tbh, in a real life scenario, although she thought this brother was a little on the corny side, I think she would have still considered him. It ain't like he was an a**hole. But if it did lead to something, it probably wouldn't have lasted long at all.
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Saysumthinfunnymike
VOTE!!!
How come white billionaires can parade around in stained white tees and nobody calls them corny? Yes of course they spend money on all types of other things and projects but they don't feel they have to wear designer brands from Europe
Take It In Blood
Banned
Pawging exist for corny black men
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
Most of these cats are just focused to push their narratives to help maintain their delusions.
Thats a damn shame that a lot of brehs have to be borderline stereotype with a lot of social clout for "non corny" black women to like them.
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We need to address that issue hardbody. That "groupthink" mentality is among the biggest cockblocking obstacle out there for black men that ain't super street savvy.