Do you think there is a disconnect between corny black men and black women?

[Wild self]

There’s a disconnect between corny Black men and the black community.

Thats how they end up corny.

LOL

How is that possible? I have 95% black friends and the last 5% non-white. All of the black brehs I know are settled with black women. And a lot of them are on the tech/anime steeze.

If anything, its the "I don't see color" type of blacks or the "fukk yall nikkas, Ima get me a WHITE girl" hood dudes that be the true divestors within the black male demographic.

 

[Jermio]

I can speak to this uniquely. I was a nikka who had to get good grades or my dad would beat my ass, period. Some people thought I was soft because I always had good grades. They learned different when they saw me encounter disrespect for no reason. I remember this one black girl blanked my ass, like I wasn't even human, when I asked her some question about something, but then was acting like a straight up c00n for this white girl who was into me. I was confused as . Funny thing is, the black women who knew me thought I was a cold MF-er. I remember this girl telling me in the 4th grade "Damn, you cold." I was like "Huh? What you mean?" She said I was funny but heartless. I'm still wondering about that. A completely out of nowhere personality assessment from a Durham NC brehette.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

There are more "corny black women" than there are corny black men.

Being corny ain't never been a problem unless you got other problems or make the mistake of specifically going after women who ain't into that. I know plenty of "corny" guys who married way above their pay grade simply by being persistent, kind, respectful, and developing themselves high-value in ways other than social skills (usually meaning either church, profession, or life mission/service).

If you're corny but you're into XYZ, I'd spend more time worrying about developing yourself to be elite in XYZ (so long as it's societally productive) rather than developing your social skills. You're probably already behind the game in social skills and ain't never going to catch up, but if you're elite in something that matters to the girl then she'll overlook the social skills as long as you're nice to her. Be the best animator, the best environmental activist, the best incarcerated rights crusader, the best birder, the best poet, the best deacon, the best phone repairman, the best diet and supplement expert, the best podcast producer, the best literally anything you can be so long as it matters to you. You'll find women who appreciate it and that relationship will be a hell of a lot more meaningful than whatever chick you would shooting for who was disrespecting you cause you're "corny".

 

[Contrefaire]

Doesn’t matter to me, 97% of women in this world would kill to swap places with my wife if we want to keep it a Benji. If my exes knew where I was headed and have now ended up they def wouldn’t have broken it off

See now THIS is corny. You used your alleged negative experiences with little black GIRLS not vibing with your weird ass in GRADE SCHOOL as the reason why you're with a Latina now, as if your childhood experiences are a reasonable metric of the preferences and dating habits of grown black women today.

To keep it a buck, more than likely your current bytch sees you as a cornball too, but she enjoys the idea of routinely getting railed by a black guy so she ignores all the other shyt.

 

[Contrefaire]

Drake gets a pass from women on his "cornyness" because of his looks and the status he's achieved.

Nah. I'm old enough to remember the early days when he just got started and was still going by "Aubrey 'Drake' Graham" doing mixtapes and local shyt. I was a freshmen in college and black girls damn near lost their minds over that pale mf.

 

[JackRoss]

You are corny. Heal and evolve. I know you not hitting every shot with women of other races.

 

[Wild self]

I can speak to this uniquely. I was a nikka who had to get good grades or my dad would beat my ass, period. Some people thought I was soft because I always had good grades. They learned different when they saw me encounter disrespect for no reason. I remember this one black girl blanked my ass, like I wasn't even human, when I asked her some question about something, but then was acting like a straight up c00n for this white girl who was into me. I was confused as . Funny thing is, the black women who knew me thought I was a cold MF-er. I remember this girl telling me in the 4th grade "Damn, you cold." I was like "Huh? What you mean?" She said I was funny but heartless. I'm still wondering about that. A completely out of nowhere personality assessment from a Durham NC brehette.

What era was this? The 90s? Early 00s?

 

[Jazzy B.]

“Corny black men” want the black women who laugh at and don’t want “corny black men”

 

[Squirrel from Meteor Man]

“They called me corny” is the go-to excuse to be a buck. Women of other ethnicities don’t think you’re cool either but they’ll play into your fetishized mindset.

 

[Spence]

See now THIS is corny. You used your alleged negative experiences with little black GIRLS not vibing with your weird ass in GRADE SCHOOL as the reason why you're with a Latina now, as if your childhood experiences are a reasonable metric of the preferences and dating habits of grown black women today.

To keep it a buck, more than likely your current bytch sees you as a cornball too, but she enjoys the idea of routinely getting railed by a black guy so she ignores all the other shyt.

I went to an hbcu and dated several black women as well just to make sure it wasn’t the Avenue I was heading in
Please drink this tall glass of stfu

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Come to a dying psy-op site

 

[Savvir]

Yes. The corny men don’t like their corny female counterparts and play victim to justify who they desired in the first place: non-blk women. Because that’s who’ll give them the social validation they need to gain the popularity or desirability they didn’t have growing up due to them being socially awkward.
Corny males feel the same way about blk women.
Both sides think they better than one another.

One side is vastly more desirable by non blacks tho....

 

[Bossino]

Y'all lie on men, relative to this thread "alternative black men", up and down the bulk would love a corny woman but corny women, don't necessarily find corny men attractive regardless of how compatible they are. Y'all act like women always enter the dating market seeking a man they're compatible with as opposed to the man they DESIRE and those 2 things aren't the same occasionally people get both, but most relationships/sexual encounters between men and women have 1 of those things. The other is compromised on from the woman's perspective. The issue is black women disproportionately want all or nothing and it reflects in 75% of black women never marrying. While mad brehs dies single AND childless, and the vast majority of black men 20-29 are single and childless.

People just lie and play obtuse when there are tons of metrics/stats on this. Women dodge accountability often, but it's at the point where men just don't even attempt to hold them accountable and automatically assign men the blame.

It's logical/understandable for a man to gravitate towards the group of women that desires them. On a subconscious level a man knows the difference between a women who will tolerate him, and woman who wants him. Black women of all shapes don't want corny black men unless they're handsome or are well off. Corny men are akin to regular men. Accept regular men can fukk if they play their cards right/run proper game. Corny men won't get real consideration off rip.

 

[L&HH]

Is Harlow supposed to be cool? Is that how white folks see him? Paul Wall is cool to me for a white guy. Harlow seems like everything he does he makes sure it doesn’t offend anyone. Dude has no edge.

Yeah I genuinely don’t get tired he Jack Harlow shyt. Like he not corny or nothing but he’s like the most average inoffensive rapper out. He’s like the white version of Kid Ink yet he’s actually got a fanbase and Kid Ink was just a 3 hit wonder.

 

[BobbyWojak]

I think the problem with corny people in general is that they don’t think they’re corny… women included.


Plus, they focus too much on what society thinks is corny. Be yourself

Really, lmao being corny is not an ethnic group I don't understand how dudes internalized this so badly.