Do you think there is a disconnect between corny black men and black women?
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Lets use the Fresh Prince as an example. Carlton was mercilessly clowned by Will for being corny. Ans I think Carlton would be considered universally corny by most black people who didnt grow up in Belair. He basically embodies the soul of white man or doesnt relate at all to hood culture.
Then you have Will,the guy who clowned Carlton. But Will would also be considered corny by a smaller field of black people whio are really in those Philly streets,and women whove only dated those types of dudes. And would probably have consider Will too goofy or soft.
But the majority of hood nikkas fall on the Fresh Prince side of the game. I was definitely the funny,goofy dude and fell on that side. And yes you could always see the curiosity chicks had for dudes living like,but not looking like Beanie Sigel.
Yeah,yall like to leavee out ,the fact these street nikkas women are interested in are attractive
. Its mostly the looks+the unknown that intrigues black women. And thats because most black women are the Fresh Prince/Carlton equivelant.
Mind you ive never actually been called corny. But you know what it is when a women chooses that street nikka over you and she cant quite explain why. "Its just something about that Picolo"
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But i never had a problem getting girls,yes I am handsome(Above regular not a 10). I would just lose one on occassion,a girl who wanted to experience that street life/street nikka dikk.
But the most hilarious thing I see as that the Carlton equivelant dude,would consider me a "Pookie and Ray Ray". At the end of the day its all perspective. Know your demographic. Many black women are intrigued by street nikkas at some point in they life. Same way most of us are intrigued by non black women at some point. Matter of fact,same way alot of hood and suburban dudes is intrigued by real street nikkas to a degree.
I think the narrative of black women only dating Pookies or whatever is overdone. Simply based on what I said earlier. The story is mostly being told by the Carlton equivelants who really struggled. And those dudes think Fresh Prince equivelants are "Pookie". So if you think the average hood dude is Pookie,of course it would appear thats all black women are choosing. Their perspective isnt reliable based on how they percieve.
Then you have Will,the guy who clowned Carlton. But Will would also be considered corny by a smaller field of black people whio are really in those Philly streets,and women whove only dated those types of dudes. And would probably have consider Will too goofy or soft.
But the majority of hood nikkas fall on the Fresh Prince side of the game. I was definitely the funny,goofy dude and fell on that side. And yes you could always see the curiosity chicks had for dudes living like,but not looking like Beanie Sigel.
Yeah,yall like to leavee out ,the fact these street nikkas women are interested in are attractive
. Its mostly the looks+the unknown that intrigues black women. And thats because most black women are the Fresh Prince/Carlton equivelant.Mind you ive never actually been called corny. But you know what it is when a women chooses that street nikka over you and she cant quite explain why. "Its just something about that Picolo"
.But i never had a problem getting girls,yes I am handsome(Above regular not a 10). I would just lose one on occassion,a girl who wanted to experience that street life/street nikka dikk.
But the most hilarious thing I see as that the Carlton equivelant dude,would consider me a "Pookie and Ray Ray". At the end of the day its all perspective. Know your demographic. Many black women are intrigued by street nikkas at some point in they life. Same way most of us are intrigued by non black women at some point. Matter of fact,same way alot of hood and suburban dudes is intrigued by real street nikkas to a degree.
I think the narrative of black women only dating Pookies or whatever is overdone. Simply based on what I said earlier. The story is mostly being told by the Carlton equivelants who really struggled. And those dudes think Fresh Prince equivelants are "Pookie". So if you think the average hood dude is Pookie,of course it would appear thats all black women are choosing. Their perspective isnt reliable based on how they percieve.
Does everybody have to have an edge? or show it?
Exlurkernegro
Judge me by my heart not my hairline
We acting like black women don’t like Drake now?
He's a 6 foot lightskin (bi racial) multi millionaire.
Make him a 5'7 dark skin guy who works at best buy and you'd see how much love he'd get.
What does the term "having an edge" mean? Mind you, I was always the quiet dude with the
expression
Get rid of that colorism energy Breh.
Lets use the Fresh Prince as an example. Carlton was mercilessly clowned by Will for being corny. Ans I think Carlton would be considered universally corny by most black people who didnt grow up in Belair. He basically embodies the soul of white man or doesnt relate at all to hood culture.
Then you have Will,the guy who clowned Carlton. But Will would also be considered corny by a smaller field of black people whio are really in those Philly streets,and women whove only dated those types of dudes. And would probably have consider Will too goofy or soft.
But the majority of hood nikkas fall on the Fresh Prince side of the game. I was definitely the funny,goofy dude and fell on that side. And yes you could always see the curiosity chicks had for dudes living like,but not looking like Beanie Sigel.
Yeah,yall like to leavee out ,the fact these street nikkas women are interested in are attractive
Mind you ive never actually been called corny. But you know what it is when a women chooses that street nikka over you and she cant quite explain why. "Its just something about that Picolo"
But i never had a problem getting girls,yes I am handsome(Above regular not a 10). I would just lose one on occassion,a girl who wanted to experience that street life/street nikka dikk.
But the most hilarious thing I see as that the Carlton equivelant dude,would consider me a "Pookie and Ray Ray". At the end of the day its all perspective. Know your demographic. Many black women are intrigued by street nikkas at some point in they life. Same way most of us are intrigued by non black women at some point. Matter of fact,same way alot of hood and suburban dudes is intrigued by real street nikkas to a degree.
I think the narrative of black women only dating Pookies or whatever is overdone. Simply based on what I said earlier. The story is mostly being told by the Carlton equivelants who really struggled. And those dudes think Fresh Prince equivelants are "Pookie". So if you think the average hood dude is Pookie,of course it would appear thats all black women are choosing. Their perspective isnt reliable based on how they percieve.
Funny thing is Carlton didn’t even “struggle” like that. He got his share of women it just wasn’t comparable to the amount that Will pulled. Carlton even pulled a couple of Will’s girls
Tupac in a business suit...
Women say they want a man that's responsible, respectful, has his own and accepts them for who they are. They get that man and they get bored and fukk over him with the most hood nikka they can find. It's only later in life they realize how dumb that was.
I always noticed that the worse a nikka treat a woman the more she wants to be with him. It's ass backwards. This isn't only black women either. It's a large percentage of all woman. Women want bad boys, need "corny" nikkas but don't deserve either
They not used to having somebody that respects them but I truly believe you get what you put into the universe. If she a hoe she gonna get nikkas that like hoes and treat them as such. If she handles herself and others with respect she'll get a nikka that will treat her the same.
I know this thread is specifically about black women but this same logic applies to all American women.
Thingsfallapart
Superstar
Women don’t like short broke men? Is this supposed to be some kind of Revelation?
Exlurkernegro
Judge me by my heart not my hairline
It's just facts.
Exlurkernegro
Judge me by my heart not my hairline
No, but it might be to someone who uses Drake as an example for a corny black man.
Thingsfallapart
Superstar
But what point is being made? Take a popular attractive man and remove all the things that make him popular and attractive and bytches aren’t going to want him anymore? That can’t really be your point? Is that something that’s specific to black men and women?
Exlurkernegro
Judge me by my heart not my hairline
The point is you can't use an elite man/well above average man as an example of Black women loving corny black men.