Do you think this is disrespectful?

[Giselle]

Me and my girl was having an argument because she said years ago when we first got together I did something stupid and she called me on the phone to break up with me. I just happened to be busy so I couldn't answer. By the time I called back she cooled down.

I told her back then and even to this day I'm happy to be with her but I'm not scared to lose her. Life is going to go on either way. She said that was disrespectful because it sounds like I don't need her. I told her I don't need her but I want her to be in my life. I would rather someone want me over them needing me.

Am I wrong or being disrespectful?

No, you’re just being honest

 

[Sex Luthor]

You told her too much. You tell your best friend that shyt. A pretty ass girl don't want to hear she's expendable...lol

If I can't tell the truth after 17 years we got bigger issues. I don't want a needy person. I feel like if someone needs a person they would stay even if they don't want them. It'll be 18 years in September and I still want her like I did when we got together. I'm the type that don't sugar coat shyt. Never have been. Never will be. She knows that. She also knows that my delivery be harsh sometimes and I'm working on that

 

[Stir Fry]

I don't think it's disrespectful, but you gotta know what women are open to hearing things like that, and those that aren't lol

 

[Bud Bundy]

Me and my girl was having an argument because she said years ago when we first got together I did something stupid and she called me on the phone to break up with me. I just happened to be busy so I couldn't answer. By the time I called back she cooled down.

I told her back then and even to this day I'm happy to be with her but I'm not scared to lose her. Life is going to go on either way. She said that was disrespectful because it sounds like I don't need her. I told her I don't need her but I want her to be in my life. I would rather someone want me over them needing me.

Am I wrong or being disrespectful?

What you said is fine.

 

[Sex Luthor]

Yes. Not all words need to be said.



diplomacy is an artform.

It started with us watching some Tyler Perry show she watches and I said "shyt I don't need nobody. I'm a grown man. I can take care of myself."

That's why I be telling her stop watching that toxic ass shyt. It warps a woman's idea of real life relationships

 

[Sex Luthor]

I told my wife the same thing in the past. I stood on it

I said it but I also explained to her why I feel like that. She not really mad but she said it's disrespectful.

My mom taught me to always be prepared to take care of myself. My daddy taught me that sometimes shyt don't work out like we want them to. Can't take care of anyone else if I can't take care of myself.

 

[Sex Luthor]

Saying you dont need her aint disrespectful.



now if you going around treating her like shyt because you feel you dont need her thats another thing.


Relationship supposed to be fun, two people hapoy on their own and with each other. Don’t NEED the other person but it’s nice to have .

That's my point. I want my girl to want to be with me. I'm not doing her dirty bc I don't need her. I want her but if she decided to leave I'll be ok. When someone is needy and dependant on someone it takes the love away sometimes. That's why some people are together but hate being around each other. They need each other to live a decent life

 

[Bigen King]

You let her know what time it was and that it wouldn't faze you either way.

 

[Sex Luthor]

Have a low emotional IQ, brehs…

Never act on emotions. That's what gets people in trouble. How many times have you acted off of emotions and felt like it was the right thing to do after looking at it with a clear mind?

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Women always say that want the truth
Say what’s on your heart
Stand on it and let the chips fall where they must
The amount of “disrespectful” truth I tell my wife
And she keeps it 100 too
That’s when you know it’s real
fukk being tactful
I firmly believe women rather be told lies instead of the truth
But that’s a conversation nobody really trying to have
#ihatemyblackmomma

 

[Sex Luthor]

You let her know what time it was and that it wouldn't faze you either way.

It's not that it wouldn't faze me bc I want her. It's just that I'm not gonna fall apart if I was alone. Like I said we going on 18 years together with neither one of us cheating so she knows where my heart and mind is

 

[Diondon]

I understand the way you feel lol
But if this is someone you care about, you could have used a bit more tact

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Every thought doesn't need to be said

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

you share that girl

 

[Cat piss martini]

i'm gonna say this again for you
young cats......p*ssy age in dog
years and caskets dont come in
bunk beds.
youre the star of this movies.
this is your experience.

Aint no co-star gonna fukk me getting my oscar up.