Does anyone not like hosting / having lots of people over?

[ViShawn]

To clarify - I'm outgoing and love people, having conversations, etc. but hate hosting and people in my personal space. A few close friends, sure, but I'm not the type to host a party at my place.

Juxtapose to my girlfriend - she loves having a space to host, have dinners, and enjoy. We had a holiday get together recently and it was less than 10 people. I enjoyed it.


A few intimate people I'm comfortable with yes. Hosting a party I don't like because people are all in your living space/domicile and you have to use mental energy to create conversation, entertain, etc.

Growing up my parents only did this when we had family around. I liked it but in hindsight sometimes it's stressful because you have to appease others, people please, etc. It can be a bit stifling. People judging you. If you are not creating conversation you can be deemed as rude, etc.

It's understandable if you are in a public area but when it comes to my home I do not like doing that.

Outside of my home I'm a different person but being at home allows me to be in my own space and keep part of myself inaccessible to the world. What about y'all?

 

[Raw Lyrics]

To clarify - I'm outgoing and love people, having conversations, etc. but hate hosting and people in my personal space. A few close friends, sure, but I'm not the type to host a party at my place.

Juxtapose to my girlfriend - she loves having a space to host, have dinners, and enjoy. We had a holiday get together recently and it was less than 10 people. I enjoyed it.


A few intimate people I'm comfortable with yes. Hosting a party I don't like because people are all in your living space/domicile and you have to use mental energy to create conversation, entertain, etc.

Growing up my parents only did this when we had family around. I liked it but in hindsight sometimes it's stressful because you have to appease others, people please, etc. It can be a bit stifling. People judging you. If you are not creating conversation you can be deemed as rude, etc.

It's understandable if you are in a public area but when it comes to my home I do not like doing that.

Outside of my home I'm a different person but being at home allows me to be in my own space and keep part of myself inaccessible to the world. What about y'all?

Was supposed to have a small family gathering at my new crib this past christmas eve. Pretty much my wife's family (my fams is more spread out across the country). Anyway, we were expecting the usual amount of people (with only one child, a 4 year old girl - my wife's niece).

Morning of wife says "btw Evalise is coming with her 4 kids" - Evalise is my brother-in-laws baby mama. They've had so much drama that it makes Palestine and Israel look like child's play, talking about fist-fights at the precinct during child pick ups.


I only met this chic once, over 10 years ago, when she was a whale. Anyway, I knew from jump her coming over was gonna phuk up the vibe. Only one child of hers is related to my wife's family, the three subsequent children had no blood ties, but wifey and I still got them gifts because it's the right thing to do.


Mind you, I just moved in the crib so some of my furniture still hasn't come in. As a result, my PS5, 65 inch, and iMac is still on the floor in the corner of the living room. Doesn't look too bad either, just neatly organized in the corner.


Evalise two sons, age 4 and 5 start doing flying dragon kicks right near my equipment. Crashing into the walls, stomping on my wood floors with timbs on. I was so heated, I expected to chill with mainly adults and vibe out, instead I end up baby sitting this chics kids and the whole time she pretends she doesn't see her kids acting like my crib is a damn playground. Eventually I relocated them to the basement. I was super heated. I learned my lesson though.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

I’m a true West Indian. No company please

 

[Mowgli]

Family Birthday celebrations and holiday family get togethers.

No strangers. I don't want to have to do an audit of which crazy mother fukker has my address and was in my house.

 

[se1f_made]

Was supposed to have a small family gathering at my new crib this past christmas eve. Pretty much my wife's family (my fams is more spread out across the country). Anyway, we were expecting the usual amount of people (with only one child, a 4 year old girl - my wife's niece).

Morning of wife says "btw Evalise is coming with her 4 kids" - Evalise is my brother-in-laws baby mama. They've had so much drama that it makes Palestine and Israel look like child's play, talking about fist-fights at the precinct during child pick ups.


I only met this chic once, over 10 years ago, when she was a whale. Anyway, I knew from jump her coming over was gonna phuk up the vibe. Only one child of hers is related to my wife's family, the three subsequent children had no blood ties, but wifey and I still got them gifts because it's the right thing to do.


Mind you, I just moved in the crib so some of my furniture still hasn't come in. As a result, my PS5, 65 inch, and iMac is still on the floor in the corner of the living room. Doesn't look too bad either, just neatly organized in the corner.


Evalise two sons, age 4 and 5 start doing flying dragon kicks right near my equipment. Crashing into the walls, stomping on my wood floors with timbs on. I was so heated, I expected to chill with mainly adults and vibe out, instead I end up baby sitting this chics kids and the whole time she pretends she doesn't see her kids acting like my crib is a damn playground. Eventually I relocated them to the basement. I was super heated. I learned my lesson though.

Thankful that we went to my girls family crib. Even tho my space is nice, it’s nothing like going to visit her family and being able to come home when we’re ready

 

[Pazzy]

I don't do well in people or group settings.

 

[Tres Leches]

I don’t like it either

 

[Estarossa]

I don’t mind having guests over but I don’t host events in my home…

 

[Pseudonym]

Only family and close close friends. And no bad ass kids that I don’t know.

 

[powmia]

If them MF's are cooking/bringing the food and leaning up afterwards, I don't care. if they ain't doing both, I don't like it.

 

[MoveForward]

I don’t like it but most holiday gatherings are done at my house because I have the space.

 

[whatthatthangsmelllike]

This covid shyt makes me enjoy home more when I go out I’m already to go back home

 

[GoAggieGo.]

I don’t like people in my crib, but I’ll throw an outdoor gathering for about 5-10 ppl in a heartbeat. Bought a tent and new grill just for that.

 

[Raw Lyrics]

Thankful that we went to my girls family crib. Even tho my space is nice, it’s nothing like going to visit her family and being able to come home when we’re ready

Don't get me wrong, I'm not mad at little kids for acting like little kids - it's the mom's job to temper that though. When I bring my kids to others homes, they know how to act and if they were to accidentally break something, I would immediately come out of pocket for it (which has never happened).

This chic is mad ratchet though and had a look on her face like she'd be damned before she paid me for any property damage caused by her little monsters. Which is why she did absolutely nothing to check them.

Fact is, she still resents my wife's family for the breakup - even though they had absolutely nothing to do with it.

 

[KnickstapeCity]

Ask a bunch of anti social losers that post on here 24/7 if they like to be around other people, brehs.