Does society coddle/pacify women too much these days?

[EffYou]

Oh, it’s this thread again.

These men/women questions will stand the test of time

 

[Pull Up the Roots]

Nope. That's white men.

Women are able to succeed in corporate environments waaayyy more than men (well black women are able to succeed more than black men I should say….. because most of their bosses wanna fukk them, but when a black MAN appears on the scene m, that intimidation factor shows up. The higher ups welcome black women into the fold but wanna keep black men out…


In the court system… men get HIT the fukk up in both divorce court and family court…. Everyday…. A man could be a great father and get the very thing she hold dearest snatched Tom him, get unfair child support payments, and automatically lose the case if they are too late are miss the court date. I’ve literally seen women get a fresh/new court date after not showing up for trial.


Women get less punishment in court on average when it comes to any type of validation.

women are allowed to abuse men and society tells men to “suck it up” but a man can’t even VERBALLY abuse a woman, if he does, there are strangers ready to swoop in andfor the woman without even knowing the context of things

I could keep going if you want

How is the bold true when white men account for 72% of corporate leadership? The higher ups are white men. The people making those decisions are white men.

Your claim about family court is misleading.

One of the biggest sticking points for the MRA community is the argument that the courts actively discriminate against men in custody disputes. While it's true that women more often get custody, it's far more complicated than a systematic bias that turns dads into the real victims of custody battles (as opposed to, you know, the children).

Most disputes* are settled out of court, meaning that custody placement does not rest in the hands of judges (most of whom are men, by the way). Just 4% of cases actually go to trial. And mothers often get custody in large part because, on average, they're still the primary caretakers of children. That's not bias, and it's not even necessarily a good thing. It's just a fact.

Oft-cited statistics that only 10-15% of fathers are granted sole custody are skewed because they include couples who have agreed to grant the mother custody or to joint custody. When men do seek primary physical custody in a disputed divorce, about 50% get it.

Family attorney Christopher Rao also points out in the Stranger that perceptions of anti-male bias are based on "selective fact-finding," and that the influence of "lazy lawyering" is also frequently excused or overlooked by MRAs.

Even if a court awards custody to a mother solely because she is a woman (as opposed to carefully considering the innumerable factors that determine a child's best interest), then such bias would be due to patriarchal gender roles that dictate men should be breadwinners and women should be caregivers. Not only did women not create these roles, they are precisely what feminists want to dismantle. (As one TIME reporter succinctly puts it, "Let's end the Mommy fetish.")

*This is based on heterosexual marriages, as less research is available for custody disputes involving other unions.

Sentencing disparities are a real problem, but you're looking at it the wrong way. We shouldn't be looking for more harsh sentencing, but less for everybody, including and especially men.

The rest of your post is just perspective bias bullshyt.

 

[EndDomination]

Women are able to succeed in corporate environments waaayyy more than men (well black women are able to succeed more than black men I should say….. because most of their bosses wanna fukk them, but when a black MAN appears on the scene m, that intimidation factor shows up. The higher ups welcome black women into the fold but wanna keep black men out…


In the court system… men get HIT the fukk up in both divorce court and family court…. Everyday…. A man could be a great father and get the very thing she hold dearest snatched Tom him, get unfair child support payments, and automatically lose the case if they are too late are miss the court date. I’ve literally seen women get a fresh/new court date after not showing up for trial.


Women get less punishment in court on average when it comes to any type of validation.

women are allowed to abuse men and society tells men to “suck it up” but a man can’t even VERBALLY abuse a woman, if he does, there are strangers ready to swoop in andfor the woman without even knowing the context of things

I could keep going if you want

What corporate environments are Black women thriving and succeeding in, that Black men are not?
You lose every court case you don't attend or are late to.

 

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@Lady.Libra.
@CarmelBarbie
@Booksnrain
@Coco Loco
@Giselle

Do u feel like society coddles women

Respectfully noshade to OP, but I see a lotta people these days starting to evolve beyond these types of conversations. Each gender has its own biased takes on this stuff and refuse to see one another’s perspectives on it. So I think it’s just best to let it go. Just build with like-minded individuals and KIM. Ignore the restS I have several posts addressing issues like this in the past and these days I just can’t be bothered to connect the dots for people anymore. Real people who ain’t on the bullshyt will figure it out. Others will continue to live in this gender shyt for life and inadvertently remove themselves from the gene pool. Maybe that’s for the best.

 

[RareHunter]

Because most men are simple minded and western society is satanic. Men were created for man to be help mates, but now men act as if they are to make a woman happy aka romance. Now women are the men. It’s so disorderly and causes massive confusion. Now u have men becoming women and women are complaining, even though this is what they advocate for. Complete lawlessness and confusion.

 

[Black Hans]

Yes. And simps reinforce it. Especially the black ones

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

And NO this isn’t a woman hate thread…. I was raised by a single mother for more than half of my childhood, I’m in a happy relationship with a great woman and have had healthy bonds with several women throughout the course of my life… so don’t go there


It just seems like in 2022, women are given so many chances at whatever, rarely face accountability, you can’t judge them or correct them about anything, they wanna work, be treated equal to men only when it benefits them, but then want special treatment whenever favors, money or hard work is the topic….

Maybe I don’t understand cuz I don’t have daughters…. But at 34 years of age, enough is enough.


There’s broads out here making well over six figures but still want a man to pay for nearly everything… a woman can put her hands on a man and it seems to be socially acceptable…. A woman can call a man broke, ugly, SHORT etc…. But the second you say a woman is overweight, shows her ass on IG too much, wears too much makeup/fake hair or gets unnecessary surgeries
ALL HELL BRAKES LOOSE….

If I ever have a daughter, ima gonna raise her to demand her respect as a woman, don’t get me wrong…I’m gonna give her unconditional love and protection……

BUT she’s gonna know what accountability is, she gonna rely on some type of logic and not just emotions 100% of the time and she’s gonna know that the world doesn’t owe you anything just cuz you got a vagina

Nota single lie told in the OP. Take this rep

 

[hatealot]

Women winning out here

 

[hatealot]

Women are able to succeed in corporate environments waaayyy more than men (well black women are able to succeed more than black men I should say….. because most of their bosses wanna fukk them, but when a black MAN appears on the scene m, that intimidation factor shows up. The higher ups welcome black women into the fold but wanna keep black men out…


In the court system… men get HIT the fukk up in both divorce court and family court…. Everyday…. A man could be a great father and get the very thing she hold dearest snatched Tom him, get unfair child support payments, and automatically lose the case if they are too late are miss the court date. I’ve literally seen women get a fresh/new court date after not showing up for trial.


Women get less punishment in court on average when it comes to any type of validation.

women are allowed to abuse men and society tells men to “suck it up” but a man can’t even VERBALLY abuse a woman, if he does, there are strangers ready to swoop in andfor the woman without even knowing the context of things

I could keep going if you want

Women thrive in corporate environments and are more adept at maneuvering in my personal opinion. When a woman is on her business and successfully they usually have certain traits that can be very aggressive. It's only so much a pretty face can get you. Women can be very devious and cold.

A female will make the hard calls while men will try to be diplomatic and please too many parties. Talk to any woman manager or corporate level women. They all have this particular trait. Also the high power industries l, if she is in position of power, she usually doesn't take shyt

 

[RareHunter]

Nope. That's white men.


How is the bold true when white men account for 72% of corporate leadership? The higher ups are white men. The people making those decisions are white men.

Your claim about family court is misleading.




Sentencing disparities are a real problem, but you're looking at it the wrong way. We shouldn't be looking for more harsh sentencing, but less for everybody, including and especially men.

The rest of your post is just perspective bias bullshyt.

Your logic is flawed and elementary level. Please do better before you try to make arguments. Learn to articulate to.

 

[RareHunter]

Women thrive in corporate environments and are more adept at maneuvering in my personal opinion. When a woman is on her business and successfully they usually have certain traits that can be very aggressive. It's only so much a pretty face can get you. Women can be very devious and cold.

A female will make the hard calls while men will try to be diplomatic and please too many parties. Talk to any woman manager or corporate level women. They all have this particular trait. Also the high power industries l, if she is in position of power, she usually doesn't take shyt

They be overcompensating. They make the work place much more miserable.

 

[Pull Up the Roots]

Your logic is flawed and elementary level. Please do better before you try to make arguments. Learn to articulate to.

You're a white dude and that post triggered you.

 

[hatealot]

They be overcompensating. They make the work place much more miserable.

Agreed.
Human resources has to be prob one if the worst departments to work in. That's why I feel like only gay men tend to work in those departments. Women are their own worst enemies.

Even in the school system, the amount of drama between admin and teachers.

 

[JQ Legend]

I can’t be the only one @ how this thread turned into a barrage of men disagreeing with the idea of women being coddled by and coddling them

 

[MajesticLion]

"these days"