Does the Older Man/Younger Woman Relationship Actually Work?

[Balla]

You really don't think a girl could love a dude that's young, but 8 years older than her?

See I think different, if I'm 26 and my girl's 18. I wouldn't care about her because she's gonna probably be annoying.

You can't control anyone.

If she wanna leave, then leave. That's how I am.


Idk why guys do that.

If I ever date a girl 8-10 years younger than me she must be fine as hell and not go out at all.

I have gotten to the point tho that a hoe gon be a hoe n a bytch gon be a bytch.

So I'm not gonna think that any woman is loyal and just keep fukkin other women.

No point in trying to make someone do what they don't wanna do.

Attachments isn't the same as love though. I had a dog I was very attached to but still gave him away when I had to.

The problem with men is you think by getting someone young you can shelter her and keep her away from other men. That is not the case at all. People grow up. Just because you get her at 20 doesn't mean she's gonna be the same person at 25.

30, 38 might be a bit more passable but it's still 2 different generations.

 

[chowism]

I'm 31 and my girl is 30. We got together in our early 20's. I already told her if we break up I'm bagging a younger chick in her prime. You bruh's gotta stop being scared of being viewed as misogynistic. shyt is a shaming tactic.

 

[African Peasant]

I’m 28, my main one is 20, in university.

She’s the youngest woman I could date and I don’t think it’s going to be anything serious.

At certain points her behaviour will remind me that she’s a really young woman. Like for real. Especially when she’s around her friends.

I think 23/24 is the youngest woman I could take serious. 20-22 just too far away from where I am in life.

If she's a good woman, and Lord knows they are rare, you'll regret dumping her. In 3 years, she will be "old"... Just enjoy and wait.

 

[-deleted-]

A lot of you guys need to stop listening to women. Women ignore men their own age for older guys (sometimes younger) all the time, yet men are supposed to suddenly pay them dust because they get older and humbled?

Like who you like, whether it’s the 25-y/o who submits to you because you’re wise enough to know real man game, or the 32-y/o who submits to you because she knows she’s the last of her circle to be single. Either way you’ll pay a price.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Sorry, I'm gonna just have to say it. I just can't see a young woman being satisfied sexually by men 10+ older.

Sex is the easy part. It’s all the other shyt. When I would go out with younger chicks they’d complain about the music in my car. I ain’t trying to hear no NBA Youngboy

Complain about me not being on social media. Complain becuz i no longer can live off 5 hours of sleep anymore. Complain becuz I wasn’t trying to spend mad time on the phone talking about a bunch of nothing.

 

[semicko82]

A lot of you guys need to stop listening to women. Women ignore men their own age for older guys (sometimes younger) all the time, yet men are supposed to suddenly pay them dust because they get older and humbled?

Like who you like, whether it’s the 25-y/o who submits to you because you’re wise enough to know real man game, or the 32-y/o who submits to you because she knows she’s the last of her circle to be single. Either way you’ll pay a price.

 

[Ohene]

not in this generation of young women being raised as “independent” who “dont need a man” feminists..

you have a few types of women fresh out of or in college these days

a. the independent combative feminist

b. the girl with tons of debt, struggling, using men for meals, with cash app links in her bios

c. this can be the same one as b but taking it further will date an older men for financial reasons but doesnt respect him, has no loyalty and is smashing a less financially stable dude on the side because he “excites her” and the finanically stable shes with is “boring”

d. the girl who cries about not being able to find a nice guy but when one shows interest she pushes him away because her idea of a nice guy is one thatll let her pall into a pit due to her bullshyt, she believes a “nice guy” is only one that will buy her flowers and be a gentleman.. she doesnt want the other aspects of a relationship with a nice guy, only one that feeds her ego

nail on the head

 

[African Peasant]

I see what your saying but I’m a divorced parent. I don’t want more kids. A woman’s fertility means nothing to me. And most women in their 20s with no kids are gonna want kids eventually. If I’m in a relationship I wanna be a partner. Not a father figure. And being that I’m older that’s eventually what it’s gonna be becuz I have way more life experience. It speaks volumes if a man with twice the life experience of their partner can be mentally and emotionally stimulated by them

If you don't care about having kids. Yes, it's different. So I see your point.

I don't know what mentally stimulated by women means. I've been around women of all ages, most of them are annoying, independently fo their level of education.

Emotionally. Well. If you can't have feelings for a 23 years old woman, being in your 30's, something must be blocking your mind. Any male can succumb to the aura of a beautiful young female. If a woman needs to be 30+ to do something to you, I don't know.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

I'm 31 and my girl is 30. We got together in our early 20's. I already told her if we break up I'm bagging a younger chick in her prime. You bruh's gotta stop being scared of being viewed as misogynistic. shyt is a shaming tactic.

I agree with this. People are making choices based on what society deems appropriate. I can honestly say i tried to give going the younger route a chance and it just didn’t work for me

My last time spending time with a young chick she spent a good hour talking about the nuances of the different flavors of Ciroc. No bullshyt. That was the nail in the coffin for me

 

[chowism]

I agree with this. People are making choices based on what society deems appropriate. I can honestly say i tried to give going the younger route a chance and it just didn’t work for me

My last time spending time with a young chick she spent a good hour talking about the nuances of the different flavors of Ciroc. No bullshyt. That was the nail in the coffin for me

I feel you on the don't get in a serious relationship with someone who isn't mature enough. shyt bruhs don't have to go as young as 18 shyt 25-27 is still prime age in my opinion. Plus this country doesn't groom us to be husbands and wives anymore so the immaturity gap for relationships is more age related than ever.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This is a lowkey shaming post. I don’t usually call stuff like this out, but a spade’s a spade.

Do you. I'm not trying to date you. Feel free to date who you want.

IDK why you all bother engaging in conversation if you only wanna hear opinion just like yours.

 

[TV]

They never wanna talk about how their bodies change. Big difference between a 20 y/o man and a 40 y/o man sexually.

If I were to show you a picture of me right now, you wouldn't believe how old I am.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

If you don't care about having kids. Yes, it's different. So I see your point.

I don't know what mentally stimulated by women means. I've been around women of all ages, most of them are annoying, independently fo their level of education.

Emotionally. Well. If you can't have feelings for a 23 years old woman, being in your 30's, something must be blocking your mind. Any male can succumb to the aura of a beautiful young female. If a woman needs to be 30+ to do something to you, I don't know.

I’m a very nostalgic person. So being with someone whose life experiences lines up with mine is the ideal. I’ve been thru a lot and seen a lot. When I talk about shyt a chick being googly eyed by it is a turnoff. Young broads still trying to find their way isn’t for me

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You really don't think a girl could love a dude that's young, but 8 years older than her?

See I think different, if I'm 26 and my girl's 18. I wouldn't care about her because she's gonna probably be annoying.

You can't control anyone.

If she wanna leave, then leave. That's how I am.


Idk why guys do that.

If I ever date a girl 8-10 years younger than me she must be fine as hell and not go out at all.

I have gotten to the point tho that a hoe gon be a hoe n a bytch gon be a bytch.

So I'm not gonna think that any woman is loyal and just keep fukkin other women.

No point in trying to make someone do what they don't wanna do.

Ok

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Is this based on the advice you got in that other thread OP--the one about your ex?

If you think a younger woman is what you need, then try it out and see. My dad's girlfriend is more than ten years younger than him. I know marriages where the combination works. I have had a couple of friends that had relationships with older men--a lot of the time they did use these men for their resources, but it was an even exchange(these men were also using them for sex), so both parties were using each other and okay with it. My coworker jokes that when she was at Howard, she knew so many attractive BW using older men for resources(getting them bills and tuition paid), so it is a thing.

I've never been able to date men that were more than a couple of years older than me. I was never and still am not attracted to men in their mid to late thirties. For some reason, even now, the average mid 30's-40 year old man is typically not attractive to me, they look every bit of their age. The majority of my friends did not date older men for similar reasons--we just didn't find them attractive and didn't want to fukk them. But there are younger women that would be glad to have you. Good luck.