Don't be used for Dates ....protect yourselves Kings ...leave this in 2019

[Koli_Kat]

When you know lots of highly attractive women, who also like you (sometimes a lot), you can't possibly date them all, or sleep with them all, especially at the same time. These ideas about men/women are so deeply limiting, it just seems painfully immature.

These threads have never ceased in all these years on this site, and I think this belief system must go back to the feudal ages, because it isn't going away any time soon, that doesn't mean, that it's true.

Sorry breh most men ain't photographers or successful rappers.

It's really not just because of the simple fact that most men do not have these circles of highly attractive women . So the average man that gets around a bad chick or two that's cool isn't going to simply just want to just "friend" her.

 

[Snoopy Loops]

I think most people are referring to the idea of yourself not being in a relationship or cuffed .

Of course you're not going to be smashing all the bad jawns in your circle if you got wifey at home.

But if you 100% single on going on "friend dates" with women you know damn well you'd stick your dikk in if you had the chance?

Don’t act like people don’t exclude the possibility of friends as long as the girl is fukkable

Ol girl could just be decent and nikkas would be dissing cuz you hanging out but not fukking.

There are edge cases where one can be single and not want to fukk. There could be a case where the entanglement resulting from fukking might have more cons than pros.

 

[Koli_Kat]

I got a couple homegirls I'd do some shyt like this for, especially if i know they been dealing with a lot of troubles. Something just to make them smile and feel like someone cares. Pictures and all that for the gram, but I'ma be expecting her to get my singles perfect.

I don't get why this has to be a problem, other than the trash ass photo dump. Men and women can be just friends. If a nikka stick himself in the friend zone that's his own fault. Find another girl or un-lame yourself.

Can't be doing this if you broke tho

1. Would they do the same for you?
2. If you had a girl would she be okay with it?

I doubt the answer to both of these questions is yes, & that's exactly why what he's doing is a problem

 

[brandy]

Yall seem way more upset about this than bull

it’s two people who hung out as friends. No sure why folks are assuming, nor projecting. I use to go to happy hours with one of my male friends. Split the check, nothing sexual. Just good vibes.

 

[8WON6]

Jesus christ some of yall really being contrarian. There are chicks i'm friends with but i will never go on a "friendship date" which is what that post was.

 

[Sterling Archer]

I think most people are referring to the idea of yourself not being in a relationship or cuffed .

Of course you're not going to be smashing all the bad jawns in your circle if you got wifey at home.

But if you 100% single on going on "friend dates" with women you know damn well you'd stick your dikk in if you had the chance?

Even when you’re single, it’s the same. You have a stable of attractive women, Girl A the baddest but she work a lot so you have free time to kick it with Girl B more. Girl B the one you closest to because you spend the most time with her but she catching feelings too hard. You pull Girl C in and fall back from B. Girl A switch it up and gets more time to be with you and that’s your #1 pick of the roster so you rocking with her tough. C falls out the picture cause she wasn’t getting enough attention. Girl B, the homie is back but she only needed time to not catch feelings and get her mind right about you. You not trying to get no action from her cause you rocking with A but y’all still cool. You and A fall out, and you find a New A. B type mad but gets over it and decides y’all just shouldn’t hook up anymore. You fine with that because you were already smashing A, New A and C. But B was the one you were the better friends with so y’all stay friends and you keep doing your thing.

Girl B is now a fine bytch that you are friends with.

This is from my own personal experience. I actually am friends with Girl A still too.

 

[re'up]

Sorry breh most men ain't photographers or successful rappers.

It's really not just because of the simple fact that most men do not have these circles of highly attractive women . So the average man that gets around a bad chick or two that's cool isn't going to simply just want to just "friend" her.

That's a good discussion point, I do know a lot of very attractive women, some I have dated, some I haven't, sometimes where in between, some I have never been with at all, we are just friends. They all have value to me, one way or another.

It's not that simple, as simply sleeping with everyone, all at once, there's always angles to consider, for rappers and whatever, it's a lot easier to have that distance and proximity for near endless casual sex, on tour, being the example I think of the most.

also, I know everyone from social circles, chance encounters, or introductions, so there is none of the distance of like dating apps, even if you are clean,(and i am) trying to do too much gets messy fast.

 

[Koli_Kat]

Don’t act like people don’t exclude the possibility of friends as long as the girl is fukkable

Ol girl could just be decent and nikkas would be dissing cuz you hanging out but not fukking.

There are edge cases where one can be single and not want to fukk. There could be a case where the entanglement resulting from fukking might have more cons than pros.

I agree but that you speak of is usually exception to the usual. Most men in his position, we know what's up

 

[KBtheKey]

1. Would they do the same for you?
2. If you had a girl would she be okay with it?

I doubt the answer to both of these questions is yes, & that's exactly why what he's doing is a problem

That's not your friend if they have to pay you back for every good gesture. We don't count favors around here

And

Let your girl run your life, brehs. She might not like it but she should also know me enough to believe what i tell her. If she don't, then i might as well share her

Any more questions?

 

[Koli_Kat]

Even when you’re single, it’s the same. You have a stable of attractive women, Girl A the baddest but she work a lot so you have free time to kick it with Girl B more. Girl B the one you closest to because you spend the most time with her but she catching feelings too hard. You pull Girl C in and fall back from B. Girl A switch it up and gets more time to be with you and that’s your #1 pick of the roster so you rocking with her tough. C falls out the picture cause she wasn’t getting enough attention. Girl B, the homie is back but she only needed time to not catch feelings and get her mind right about you. You not trying to get no action from her cause you rocking with A but y’all still cool. You and A fall out, and you find a New A. B type mad but gets over it and decides y’all just shouldn’t hook up anymore. You fine with that because you were already smashing A, New A and C. But B was the one you were the better friends with so y’all stay friends and you keep doing your thing.

Girl B is now a fine bytch that you are friends with.

Yeah but you still had and have the chance to fukk girl B.

I'm going to assume most people are operating under the idea that the guy in the picture has no chance of fukking the women he is out with.

 

[hatealot]

Ayo where’s Lyric at? Black Women have no options of black men to choose from but she friendzoned this one.

@Lyric

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Yeah the cynic in me tells me she posted the above to let the potential suitors and side dikk know that the door is still wide open.

That’s what I’m saying

Replace this man with Idris Elba under the same circumstances.

You think she’s hanging in the friend-zone without possession? She’d be on some, “thats my bestie bytches “ with the dissertation caption to match.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Homegirl ugly too

this

 

[Umoja]

Maybe he likes her as a friend and is not interested in smashing

 

[Yinny]

What if I told you alot of women were psychopaths well before social media because centuries of having to be underhanded to get around being the heel of men.


Women been coldly manipulating men for eons. Social media just feeds the narcissism

We are sociopathic not psychopathic! Psychopathy belongs to you men!