the standard is the quality of life the children will experience
feelings & opinions are not a worthwhile standard
whatever community/culture of men is giving their children the best chance to win in life is going to get priority in terms of women choosing
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Power is created by groups. It has always been a group effort. White women helped white men gain power and control. Same for a lot of Asian women helping Asian men.
Even Asian women dating/marrying white men will still help Asian men gain more power and control (check Mitch McConnell's wife, Elaine Chow).
no im going overseas just to see historical landmarks, eat good food and enjoy the sites
black women will never acknowledge this either


