That's the problem. I always thought the fun of sports was watching it. But now with fantasy sports, gambling, and all this other crap, it seems like watching the game for its enjoyment is secondary.
IMO you shouldn't talk about a team or player unless you watch them play. Thinking you can tell what happened in a game from a box score is retarded.
Nah, you need both. No matter how much you know basketball, you definitely need stats to account for stuff you missed or to help put things into context.
Lebron is a great example. For a 6'8 dude that's built like a tank, Lebron has amazingly good footwork and balance to maximize his finishing ability. He's biomechanically sound at an ungodly consistent rate which is why you see him tend to choose efficiency over flash but anyone who has watched Lebron play knows that he is completely capable of taking and making insane looking shots when he's forced into it. Lebron is also an extremely good defensive player that can play the roll of a legit defensive anchor due to his vision, athletic ability, BBALL IQ, and his patience.
Duncan is another great example. Duncan is an extremely potent scorer who is able to get his shot off against almost any defender, especially in the post. His footwork, vision, and ability to create space is subtly brilliant which is why he was always an option for clutch buckets in the playoffs.
You admit to not seeing the value in playmaking, vision, and passing but Kobe's most successful runs are when his scoring takes a hit and he uses his all-around ability to affect the game in a multlitude of ways. You don't see value in things that aren't "exciting" whereas I see the most value in consistently doing the little things great.
Kobe is a very talented and creative passer but he doesn't naturally see the entire court as consistently to be an elite passer like Bird, Magic, or Bron. That lack of consistency is what makes him a great passer, not an elite or GOAT-tier one. Same reason we all know that Lebron can make those stupid contested shots but he won't make them as consistently as MJ, Kobe, Curry, or the like.