honestly, even though i have a great relationship with my mom, i can respect people cutting off their parents, what makes me sad are grown adults still trying to get approval from their neglectful or outright terrible parents. my older cousin had a garbage mother. putting random dudes before her and her sister, abusing the shyt out of them because she got mad about something that had nothing to do with them, putting her friends and boyfriends kids before them. my mom and aunt had to send them to go live with my grandparents because as things were looking, she would have killed one of them, then they(my aunt and mom) would have killed herand despite all the abuse that theyve experienced by her, theyre still seeking her approval. ad they arent the only ones i know.
another cousin of mine is married to a cop, they have a child together and are happy, but his family is wall to wall degenerates who have had no time for him, to the point that when he was in the navy and would call home for christmas, they would rush to get off the phone with him because they had family shyt to do. only coming around when they wanted something,and could neever be bothered to try to spend time with his son, but he constantly tries to make time for those people. that shyt makes me mad as hell