Dorian Breh
Veteran
Similarly I expect most killer cops were beaten
Epidemic of parental estrangement. Millennials And Gen Z are increasingly choosing to go no contact with toxic/abusive parents.
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Similarly I expect most killer cops were beaten
I finally cut my mom out of my life after i had my first child. and realized she was incapable of giving me the same respect she demanded from my grandparents when i was a kid.
I remember the battles and her making it known that she was the mom and the boss of the household. Turns around and tries to boss around my wife as if i wouldn't remember that that shyt didn't fly with her in the same shoes.
Lost all respect for her, realized it was just selfishness, not respecting stations like she claimed. This was on top of childhood abuse she was responsible for.
I remember the battles and her making it known that she was the mom and the boss of the household. Turns around and tries to boss around my wife as if i wouldn't remember that that shyt didn't fly with her in the same shoes.
Lost all respect for her, realized it was just selfishness, not respecting stations like she claimed. This was on top of childhood abuse she was responsible for.
a lot of these people think that being an adult gives you the right to talk what ever way to a child
It's crazy seeing black people in that "I hate you mom" phase of our social arc. We used to rightfully laugh at that shyt but here we are now. This is the ideology of some cac twink on social media upset at his own parents because he couldn't wear a mini skirt and high heels to the local church. Now it was abused and traumatized. 
We love following these silly crackkkas off the cliff. I've noticed a lot more of this "cut everyone that ever gave you pushback" content being featured on social media platforms. A lot of content geared toward isolating individuals from common communities and support groups. It's a way of pushing individualism to the average Gen Z half queer who isn't going to be swayed by pick up trucks, cow pastures and promises of freedom beer served to you by your own personal Sydney Sweeney, like the right wing losers.
The terms trauma, abuse, narcissist and other pop psych terms have been rendered meaningless. It's created a nation of bitter, parasitic, paranoid "psychocondriacs" isolated and only fit for soul draining labor, consumerism and conformity.
Again, Gen Z, the biggest proponents of this bullshyt, are a generation of weaklings raised by parents that wanted to be friends or even peers with their children instead of an authority. The sort of "harsh" parenting and punishment that was experienced by boomers, Gen X and early millennials was being phased out by the millennium and is extremely unpopular now. A lot of what they are complaining about are blindsided parents trying to re-establish authority over their children whom they allowed to operate as peers for so long.
Anyway, as for the black community, I mean, do you all REALLY want to have this conversation? Because the narrative has been that the black woman was raising the youth, making mistakes, but doing the fukking best she could while black men were out making the babies and abandoning them. So now, Gen Z twinks and queers are saying these same women have been the problem ALL ALONG and were just so gosh darn abusive and trauma inducing? Interesting.
Lol, you all really, really, REALLY need to be more aware of the messaging you consume. A lot of this shyt is wrapped up in sound logic, until you see the slimy and ignorant intentions underneath.
We love following these silly crackkkas off the cliff. I've noticed a lot more of this "cut everyone that ever gave you pushback" content being featured on social media platforms. A lot of content geared toward isolating individuals from common communities and support groups. It's a way of pushing individualism to the average Gen Z half queer who isn't going to be swayed by pick up trucks, cow pastures and promises of freedom beer served to you by your own personal Sydney Sweeney, like the right wing losers.
The terms trauma, abuse, narcissist and other pop psych terms have been rendered meaningless. It's created a nation of bitter, parasitic, paranoid "psychocondriacs" isolated and only fit for soul draining labor, consumerism and conformity.
Again, Gen Z, the biggest proponents of this bullshyt, are a generation of weaklings raised by parents that wanted to be friends or even peers with their children instead of an authority. The sort of "harsh" parenting and punishment that was experienced by boomers, Gen X and early millennials was being phased out by the millennium and is extremely unpopular now. A lot of what they are complaining about are blindsided parents trying to re-establish authority over their children whom they allowed to operate as peers for so long.
Anyway, as for the black community, I mean, do you all REALLY want to have this conversation? Because the narrative has been that the black woman was raising the youth, making mistakes, but doing the fukking best she could while black men were out making the babies and abandoning them. So now, Gen Z twinks and queers are saying these same women have been the problem ALL ALONG and were just so gosh darn abusive and trauma inducing? Interesting.
Lol, you all really, really, REALLY need to be more aware of the messaging you consume. A lot of this shyt is wrapped up in sound logic, until you see the slimy and ignorant intentions underneath.
he's a moron. he'd rather believe in freemasons and end times pastors than what he sees with his own two eyes
I think its moreso, they don't how to evolve the relationship as you get older. Once your kids are grown, you not supposed to remain the boss/disciplinarian. You supposed to become an ally/friend after a certain age. Power dynamics in nature respect this more consistently because in the wild the strongest is usually the leader. The strongest is rarely the oldest. If you are incapable of humbling yourself enough to allow your kids to reach your level or even surpass you, you are holding them back. ANd eventually they will resent you for it.
In some cases, these kids/young adults think a parent is "toxic" because they tell them beneficial things that they don't want to hear. Also, some kids these days don't like the word "No"
Black community is often too much of momma boys to admit to any parenting mistakes moms made.It's crazy seeing black people in that "I hate you mom" phase of our social arc. We used to rightfully laugh at that shyt but here we are now. This is the ideology of some cac twink on social media upset at his own parents because he couldn't wear a mini skirt and high heels to the local church. Now it was abused and traumatized.
We love following these silly crackkkas off the cliff. I've noticed a lot more of this "cut everyone that ever gave you pushback" content being featured on social media platforms. A lot of content geared toward isolating individuals from common communities and support groups. It's a way of pushing individualism to the average Gen Z half queer who isn't going to be swayed by pick up trucks, cow pastures and promises of freedom beer served to you by your own personal Sydney Sweeney, like the right wing losers.
The terms trauma, abuse, narcissist and other pop psych terms have been rendered meaningless. It's created a nation of bitter, parasitic, paranoid "psychocondriacs" isolated and only for for soul draining labor, consumerism and conformity.
Again, Gen Z, the biggest proponents of this bullshyt, are a generation of weaklings raised by parents that wanted to be friends or even peers with their children instead of an authority. The sort of "harsh" parenting and punishment that was experienced by boomers, Gen X and early millennials was being phased out by the millennium and is extremely unpopular now. A lot of what they are complaining about are blindsided parents trying to re-establish authority over their children whom they allowed to operate as peers for so long.
Anyway, as for the black community, I mean, do you all REALLY want to have this conversation? Because the narrative has been that the black woman was raising the youth, making mistakes, but doing the fukking best she could while black men were out making the babies and abandoning them. So now, Gen Z twinks and queers are saying these same women have been the problem ALL ALONG and were just so gosh darn abusive and trauma inducing? Interesting.
Lol, you all really, really, REALLY need to be more aware of the messaging you consume. A lot of this shyt is wrapped up in sound logic, until you see the slimy and ignorant intentions underneath.
when i had a daughter, we told my mom. she has grass allergies, please don't let her play in the grass when she visits.
We left her with mom, and mom sent us pics an hour later of my child in the grass. Her response was petty af, i'm your momma you can't tell me what to do. That was the last time my wife ever let her see her grandchild. And i was cool with it. She not the only momma in that equation. She wouldn't have let my grandma pull something like that with me.
*ironically i never had a relationship with anyone on my moms side of the family because she cut them off. So its funny seeing people act like its a millennial thing to do the same shyt she did.
That's a conversation that can be had, sure. I deal with it myself, actually. But here's the thing, I'm not going to buy into this propaganda coming from a generation that has experienced the most progressive parenting in generations. They've been allowed a level of freedom to express themselves that borders upon unnatural. This content is being pushed to further isolate people from their communities. If and when these late millennials and Generation Z weirdos have children they will definitely be changing their tunes on certain things.
Don’t have kids
Interesting. So I guess the question is was she the toxic child or was she cutting off toxic parents and still became one herself? It's almost as if this sort of willful destruction of family ties doesn't really solve anything except making one party feel better about themselves without anything ever really being learned or resolved.
DJ Paul's Arm
Veteran
Y’all got some shytty parents. No wonder a lot fukked up people in the head roam this site.
I actually suspect she was the toxic one. I believe she has an undiagnosed mental health disorder. She believes everyone hates and mistreats her. She is basically a hermit. Doesn’t have a single friend or relationship. Can’t even hire plumbers or contractors to do repairs on the house because she will make wild accusations saying they stealing or wanted to rape her. Burns bridges everywhere she goes
Field Marshall Bradley
Veteran
Sadly this might be true… There are some forces in play that are making kids reject their parents over bullshyt…. Are their parents who verbally and physically abuse their kids? Yes.
Are a lot of 21 to 35 year olds soft as fukk and exaggerating the trials they went through with their parents? Yes as well….
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