Epidemic of parental estrangement. Millennials And Gen Z are increasingly choosing to go no contact with toxic/abusive parents.

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Interesting. So I guess the question is was she the toxic child or was she cutting off toxic parents and still became one herself? It's almost as if this sort of willful destruction of family ties doesn't really solve anything except making one party feel better about themselves without anything ever really being learned or resolved.

BARS!

 

[Womb Raider]

As a millennial, it annoys me that no one is really mentioning that Gen X mostly repeat the same BS they learned from being raised by baby boomers

They wont apologize when they're wrong but they will victim blame you and rub it in your face if they're right. Gen Z is even worse because they openly do fukk shyt and refuse to hold themselves accountable.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I actually suspect she was the toxic one. I believe she has an undiagnosed mental health disorder. She believes everyone hates and mistreats her. She is basically a hermit. Doesn’t have a single friend or relationship. Can’t even hire plumbers or contractors to do repairs on the house because she will make wild accusations saying they stealing or wanted to rape her. Burns bridges everywhere she goes

Your mother actually has a problem. Again, conversations in good faith can be had about your mother.

 

[Luke Cage]

Your mother actually has a problem. Again, conversations in good faith can be had about your mother.

Yeah, i actually believe that she could be fixed if she accepted treatment. My brother went through the same thing, and i read it can be genetic. Meaning he likely got it from her. But he happily went through therapy and manages it very well now. (It got so bad for him at one point he was medically discharged from the army for mental health concerns.) but now he is doing great. She unfortunately is unwilling to accept that she has a problem

 

[The Fade]

lol nikkas got whipped during slavery and all it did was make us angry but because we black the same thing wont happen?

got all these angry black kids walking around wanting to do what zeus did to chronos to their parents but kill each other instead. i wonder why? you would think that we of all people know that black children or black people in general DO NOT LIKE TO BE WHIPPED or ABUSED.

 

[Guess Who]

I have had one parent apologize to me for their anger when I was a child. The other one apologized for their eight year absence. I’m still in touch with both of them, but I wouldn’t say I’m particularly close to either of them. I keep them at arms length. My family as a whole? They’ve never really treated me well.

So I understand why someone would go no contact. I’ve experienced some level of abuse from both of mine as well as a sibling. You forgive but you don’t forget and it’s hard to be normal with your family when those wounds exist, even after an apology. Why? Cuz I’ve spent thousands of hours and dollars healing from those wounds. Those wounds have contributed to issues in school, with friends, with girlfriends, etc.

The whole family is family thing — I get it — but it’s not always cut and dry.

 

[The Pledge]

has y’all moms ever told y’all to go to hell and that you’re so stupid and such a useless idiot? im trying to gauge how i should feel havent talked to her in ab a month and about to move out

With all due respect, fukk that bytch. That type of hostility gonna get her ass tenfold. Bet.

 

[SNG]

Honestly I get why people don’t fukk with the.y family members. I have crazy trauma with my own father and I don’t even know how I was able to forgive him for the abuse he did to me as a kid. Like I understand disciplining your kids but this man went overboard had a nikka getting beat for shyt I didn’t even do. But I had to go in and understand that he was physically abused by my grandfather so it’s trauma passed down. I get why people never talk to the folks and it ain’t easy to forgive them. But once you understand and reach an age that your parents are flawed humans it’s easier to forgive. As much as I went through with my dad he still provided for me put a roof over my head and worked his ass off to raise his kids and stay in they life and not have they mama be a single mother even though their were times I thought she would be better off as one. They definitely inspired what to do and not do in my marriage.

I’m about to have a daughter and one thing I want from here is not for her to be afraid to talk to me about anything and create a safe space for her. Especially those teenage years.

 

[CrushedGroove]

In some cases, these kids/young adults think a parent is "toxic" because they tell them beneficial things that they don't want to hear. Also, some kids these days don't like the word "No"

This is what it is with my 2 adult kids. They consistently made bad decisions growing up and were disciplined for THAT decision. They were always praised and rewarded for the good decisions.

They went out of their way to, not only manipulate and break rules, they also did things with the intent to cause harm to us financially and socially. Attempted to defraud our bank account and created false narratives for any ear that would listen. Problem was, we always opened our doors to their cousins and friends who needed a place to stay or needed a change of scenery for an opportunity for a better life.

I won't say that mistakes weren't made. I have said harsh things out of frustration, but never name calling. I also struggle with PTSD from my time in the Army, so there are times where I'm withdrawn emotionally.

But the older 2 don't reach out. They don't like us to parent them, never have. And at their age, who are we to intrude.

 

[The Fade]

he's a moron. he'd rather believe in freemasons and end times pastors than what he sees with his own two eyes

Man those people will tell you not to be alarmist or "wish evil on them" for trying to be preventative. and will tell you to stop thinking bad thoughts because "it will manifest". But then keep talking "end times" over and over, while we're still trying to have a fukking future. My dad is one of them and listens to Stephen Darby over and over

Many of these people dont realize that theres no public education without the Memphis Rite lodges either

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

It's crazy seeing black people in that "I hate you mom" phase of our social arc. We used to rightfully laugh at that shyt but here we are now. This is the ideology of some cac twink on social media upset at his own parents because he couldn't wear a mini skirt and high heels to the local church. Now it was abused and traumatized.

We love following these silly crackkkas off the cliff. I've noticed a lot more of this "cut everyone that ever gave you pushback" content being featured on social media platforms. A lot of content geared toward isolating individuals from common communities and support groups. It's a way of pushing individualism to the average Gen Z half queer who isn't going to be swayed by pick up trucks, cow pastures and promises of freedom beer served to you by your own personal Sydney Sweeney, like the right wing losers.

The terms trauma, abuse, narcissist and other pop psych terms have been rendered meaningless. It's created a nation of bitter, parasitic, paranoid "psychocondriacs" isolated and only fit for soul draining labor, consumerism and conformity.

Again, Gen Z, the biggest proponents of this bullshyt, are a generation of weaklings raised by parents that wanted to be friends or even peers with their children instead of an authority. The sort of "harsh" parenting and punishment that was experienced by boomers, Gen X and early millennials was being phased out by the millennium and is extremely unpopular now. A lot of what they are complaining about are blindsided parents trying to re-establish authority over their children whom they allowed to operate as peers for so long.

Anyway, as for the black community, I mean, do you all REALLY want to have this conversation? Because the narrative has been that the black woman was raising the youth, making mistakes, but doing the fukking best she could while black men were out making the babies and abandoning them. So now, Gen Z twinks and queers are saying these same women have been the problem ALL ALONG and were just so gosh darn abusive and trauma inducing? Interesting.

Lol, you all really, really, REALLY need to be more aware of the messaging you consume. A lot of this shyt is wrapped up in sound logic, until you see the slimy and ignorant intentions underneath.

You saying a lot of dumb shyt my nikka gah damm.

If a parent of eiter gender a piece of shyt then they deserve to be treated like a piece of shyt.

If you got kids and you not a good parent you a hoe.


fukk whatever race you are.

 

[The Fade]

Would u rather have your Momma beat your ass and live to see an another day even if it meant no privilege or those police beating your ass and then possibly killing you???

A lot of parents now have their hands tired.

Beat their behind, they wanna call the cops


Put em online and shame em, they wanna say you’re abusive.


Take that phone away from them and see how they act

Make them sit and do academics and tiger parent them. If you work too much put them in Kumon/A Music program/Sports/Martial Art-- anything that requires them to stay inside and practice on their own while at the same time allows for SOCIALIZATION in a healthy environment where they are expected to act a certain way or be excuded when you're not there and achieve merit. Develop their brain. logic centers and talk to them logically.. dont develop their sensuality. Thats what discipline and structure is, its a routine, a tesseract, a system with bounds, a logic circuit. If you're having to beat your kid then you need change the circuit he's running through. Discipline is not pavlov dogging with a beating. If theres enough time to get in trouble that means there aint enough things on the routine that you expect him to do for you before anything else

 

[The Solid One]

It's crazy seeing black people in that "I hate you mom" phase of our social arc. We used to rightfully laugh at that shyt but here we are now. This is the ideology of some cac twink on social media upset at his own parents because he couldn't wear a mini skirt and high heels to the local church. Now it was abused and traumatized.

We love following these silly crackkkas off the cliff. I've noticed a lot more of this "cut everyone that ever gave you pushback" content being featured on social media platforms. A lot of content geared toward isolating individuals from common communities and support groups. It's a way of pushing individualism to the average Gen Z half queer who isn't going to be swayed by pick up trucks, cow pastures and promises of freedom beer served to you by your own personal Sydney Sweeney, like the right wing losers.

The terms trauma, abuse, narcissist and other pop psych terms have been rendered meaningless. It's created a nation of bitter, parasitic, paranoid "psychocondriacs" isolated and only fit for soul draining labor, consumerism and conformity.

Again, Gen Z, the biggest proponents of this bullshyt, are a generation of weaklings raised by parents that wanted to be friends or even peers with their children instead of an authority. The sort of "harsh" parenting and punishment that was experienced by boomers, Gen X and early millennials was being phased out by the millennium and is extremely unpopular now. A lot of what they are complaining about are blindsided parents trying to re-establish authority over their children whom they allowed to operate as peers for so long.

Anyway, as for the black community, I mean, do you all REALLY want to have this conversation? Because the narrative has been that the black woman was raising the youth, making mistakes, but doing the fukking best she could while black men were out making the babies and abandoning them. So now, Gen Z twinks and queers are saying these same women have been the problem ALL ALONG and were just so gosh darn abusive and trauma inducing? Interesting.

Lol, you all really, really, REALLY need to be more aware of the messaging you consume. A lot of this shyt is wrapped up in sound logic, until you see the slimy and ignorant intentions underneath.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

It's crazy seeing black people in that "I hate you mom" phase of our social arc. We used to rightfully laugh at that shyt but here we are now. This is the ideology of some cac twink on social media upset at his own parents because he couldn't wear a mini skirt and high heels to the local church. Now it was abused and traumatized.

We love following these silly crackkkas off the cliff. I've noticed a lot more of this "cut everyone that ever gave you pushback" content being featured on social media platforms. A lot of content geared toward isolating individuals from common communities and support groups. It's a way of pushing individualism to the average Gen Z half queer who isn't going to be swayed by pick up trucks, cow pastures and promises of freedom beer served to you by your own personal Sydney Sweeney, like the right wing losers.

The terms trauma, abuse, narcissist and other pop psych terms have been rendered meaningless. It's created a nation of bitter, parasitic, paranoid "psychocondriacs" isolated and only fit for soul draining labor, consumerism and conformity.

Again, Gen Z, the biggest proponents of this bullshyt, are a generation of weaklings raised by parents that wanted to be friends or even peers with their children instead of an authority. The sort of "harsh" parenting and punishment that was experienced by boomers, Gen X and early millennials was being phased out by the millennium and is extremely unpopular now. A lot of what they are complaining about are blindsided parents trying to re-establish authority over their children whom they allowed to operate as peers for so long.

Anyway, as for the black community, I mean, do you all REALLY want to have this conversation? Because the narrative has been that the black woman was raising the youth, making mistakes, but doing the fukking best she could while black men were out making the babies and abandoning them. So now, Gen Z twinks and queers are saying these same women have been the problem ALL ALONG and were just so gosh darn abusive and trauma inducing? Interesting.

Lol, you all really, really, REALLY need to be more aware of the messaging you consume. A lot of this shyt is wrapped up in sound logic, until you see the slimy and ignorant intentions underneath.

A lot of it was abuse and a lot of people were traumatized by it. As I mentioned earlier, I'm sure most thought they were doing the right thing because that was how they were raised