ever had a girl give you her number, but....

[msims]

We really still talkin on the phone with these ladies in 2014?

Should have shot her a text.

Always text.

Close a meet-up date as fast as possible.

Something like coffee, lunch, night at the bar, ice cream and a movie in the crib, etc.

Text her a few times a day until the meet-up date (no serious convo's unless she starts it......and stay away from sex....UNLESS, again, she starts it).

Then get to know her in PERSON. Women are easier to impress in person than over the phone. She won't remember that funny ass text you sent her a week ago, but she'll definitely remember that time she went to the bar with me 2 weeks ago.

In order to be in someones life, you have to physically put yourself there, brehs.



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[The Coochie Assassin]

cosign the texting if these chicks u talking to 18-25....they prefer text talk b....light text talk to get some familiarity then set something up as soon as possible so yall can talk in person

 

[Will Ross]

She was not really feeling you because if she was she would have been wanting for your call.
Women that like you want to talk to you all the time.

 

[noon]

Nah, I just enjoy deep intellectual convo about life, love, politics and religion

But maybe that's the definition of a "creep" nowadays...

Yeah that's your side of the story. We don't know anything about your approach. You can be into any subject and be creepy. Just take it and move on. And next time start with a text while she's still fresh on who you are.

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

Yeah. O well. Got to close them on the spot if u just want them draws. Otherwise u playingthe dating game. Young girls are easy to close fukk a text. That's what young guys do. Do something right then and there. Put them on the spot. If they like u they will succumb.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

If a chick really likes you, then all this jumping through hoops and being ignored shyt doesn't occur. The fact is she simply isn't that interested, you need to move on.

Ever heard the expression "strike while the iron is hot?" Yeah well you struck out nikka.

 

[Biscut]

She wasn't feeling you. Like posted above, you didn't take advantage of the situation that night. And well, you know ...

 

[klientel]

Another nikka got at her that same night and scooped her up. You basically just took too long and now she not interested

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

I could see a girls POV still. They know we are sex obsessed. If we don't want to sex them right away then we clearly aren't that interested.


And you what. They are right. If we were that interesting together. Something would happen. Especially if the chance was there.

 

[Slimkid07]

@No_bammer_weed hit the nail on the head. Exchanging numbers is the easy way to get out of a situation and means nothing like it did back in the day.
Taking her out on an on the spot date is what you could have done to leave a lasting impression but even that isn't a guarantee.

Honestly, it sounds like you were just a ego boost to her. She probably has a dude or is talking to somebody.

Just dust that L off and keep it pushing. When you step to women, you lose way more than you win.

 

[blackzeus]

when you call, ole girl basically don't wanna talk?

Here's the scenario (happened on 3 diff occasions)

struck up a nice convo with a woman... at the end, I ask for the digits... she's smiling, gives them to me... then when I call a day or so later, I say "hey" she says "who's this" I tell her it's "neotheflyingone" she says "okay, Imma give you a call back"

But I never hear back. Had it happen at least 3 times on 3 different occasions....

I don't get it. Why give me the digits if you don't wanna talk?

Just tell a brotha "no"

I'm a big boy, I can handle it.

Nikka why'd you ask. That's why you always give the girl your number. Never ask for a number if you haven't already f*cked or she said yes to going out first. Why ask for a number for a women who hasn't given you a commitment for some one on one time? What are you going to say on the phone that you can't say in person? If you don't value your own time, the women you deal with won't either

 

[Truth Hurts]

why yall still calling this day and age of texting is beyond me

 

[Brock Landers]

You're going to be responsible when the OP kills himself

bytch had that post-thot clarity OP is fukked nohomo

 

[Colicat]

why yall still calling this day and age of texting is beyond me

Number 1 reason why you should call... stop being lazy and call...

 

[bigmac]

when you call, ole girl basically don't wanna talk?

Here's the scenario (happened on 3 diff occasions)

struck up a nice convo with a woman... at the end, I ask for the digits... she's smiling, gives them to me... then when I call a day or so later, I say "hey" she says "who's this" I tell her it's "neotheflyingone" she says "okay, Imma give you a call back"

But I never hear back. Had it happen at least 3 times on 3 different occasions....

I don't get it. Why give me the digits if you don't wanna talk?

Just tell a brotha "no"

I'm a big boy, I can handle it.

When a B*tch Gives You The Number Then Proceeds to Ignore You Unappreciation Thread
Feast my nikka.